[Exhibitionist] Teasing or serious

[Countrylivin]

Thanks. My brother and dad continue to text and call checking on our plans and when we may may the drive down. Appears my brother mostly text my wife. I quit asking about the texting but she will randomly bring up something he has said or ask. He does continue to relay events from our past on the farm as well as other places such as when my family had a ski boat. She finds them funny.

Her past stories come randomly just like this past one. I did ask if there were any other stories she said she would have to think on it and has not come back with any. We did take our camper out for the weekend to a new campgrounds but absolutely nothing occurred to her displeasure. I assume with the weather getting colder things will slow down dramatically.

Something she mentioned while camping. We were sitting outside talking by a fire. She said she wanted me to be in control of her exposure. I asked how. She mentioned that it really excited her by me agreeing that she had to expose herself earlier. We discussed at length but was a difficult discussion because she did not want me to tell her what it would be or how long or where. The bottom line was she wants it to be challenging, daring, maybe embarrassing, among other things. Confused I had no response but I'll have to think about it. On the way home she asked if I had come up with something. I said how about now. She declined saying it had to be planned.

So here I was last night and now surfing OCC looking for a similar request. The only thing I do know is she wants it to be different from her others such as flashing. Trying to include all the emotions she directed looks like it will be a day of challenges. Just trying to come up with what to do, when and how. Still reviewing OCC post for ideas.

[sam.77]

Originally Posted by Countrylivin

Something she mentioned while camping. We were sitting outside talking by a fire. She said she wanted me to be in control of her exposure. I asked how. She mentioned that it really excited her by me agreeing that she had to expose herself earlier. We discussed at length but was a difficult discussion because she did not want me to tell her what it would be or how long or where. The bottom line was she wants it to be challenging, daring, maybe embarrassing, among other things. Confused I had no response but I'll have to think about it. On the way home she asked if I had come up with something. I said how about now. She declined saying it had to be planned.

So here I was last night and now surfing OCC looking for a similar request. The only thing I do know is she wants it to be different from her others such as flashing. Trying to include all the emotions she directed looks like it will be a day of challenges. Just trying to come up with what to do, when and how. Still reviewing OCC post for ideas.

Should it be with strangers? If it is with guys she knows, but they have not seen her naked, I see it as much more embarrassing.

[Countrylivin]

I have been surfing this site for days looking for something similar. This is a difficult request for me. I am rarely in control of her exposures, my part seems to assist or give her the approval she is looking to receive. I am an over thinker and somewhat a perfectionist. The simple response to her request was requiring her to got out with no bra or panties in a short skirt and thin button up blouse but when I suggested this she said, think more situational. She gave me some clues. Clues, preferably not the same ol things, strangers, away from home and after that anything goes from flashing to full naked. Pick a day and I'm in control of all.

Thinking outside the box is trying to come up with situational exposure for a full day away from home.

So far the only place that I think is a safe environment is at my dad's. His house is several miles outside a small town of maybe ten to twelve thousand people. Very rural with farms and farming being the big businesses. I did like sam77 idea. There are a few of my childhood friends that I have remained in contact from the town. Other than that I'm still struggling with what to do and how to achieve this safely. I thought about the campsite at the local state park not far away but dad would be upset we did not stay with him.

I know this is not exposures or exciting but thought I would address the struggle.

[zoetic]

Here's my suggestions for an embarrassing and safe day. Plan a weekend at your dads, and when you get there, lay down some ground rules for the weekend.

1) when she enters the house, she will leave her clothes in the car and not get dressed until you leave
2) she has no privacy during this time and will keep all doors and curtains open
3) your dad can ask her to pose in any position (or he can move her into a position if some touching is ok)
4) she's only allowed to orgasm when you and your dad are both watching
5) invite your brother or other family friend on the second day to really freak her out as all the above rules would apply to them too

Whatever you do, I think one of the key elements is you taking control and making very, very sure she knows that. So don't tell her about the rules or plan you come up with until it's happening.

[sammy387100]

Definitely think the best idea would be to experiment more at your dads place or maybe tease her own dad some more? Some ideas for your dads place to keep the the exhibitionism fun and playful could be to continue to wear less like a shirt no bottoms and get into situations that really expose her to your dad. Having her try to pretend like she’s trying maintaining some decency at times might make it more comfortable for your dad too. More naked hugs? Inviting your dad in to the bathroom while she showers and dries off bent over in front of him again maybe gets closer this time or ‘accidentally’ falls back on to him. Bring some revealing clothes to try on for him and ask his option on - is this to see thru or is this too short, etc and change in front of him. Ask his opinion on her body does he think she should shave does he like her tan lines, etc. More ridiculous could be more truth or dare have her shake her boobs in his face do a naked handstand with your dads helping hold her up. Use the slide more have your dad and wife go down together? Invite your brother over and tease him more too.

In the meantime maybe a video call to your dad or brother while she’s just getting out of the shower or changing could be an embarrassing way to surprise and expose your wife as well. Send a picture that accidentally shows her in someway exposed to your dad or brother could be embarrassing for her too.

[sam.77]

I like zoetic´s ideas. But it looks like some kind of erotic play, where the others should be prepared for it in advance. Otherwise, it will lead to strange situations at least. It is not sure, how the others will react. But interesting idea anyway. In this kind of erotic play, you can push the exposure and embarrassment much further.

If you prefer to do it with people who are not prepared for it, with somebody she knows, but they haven´t seen her naked yet, I would choose something different. Maybe some kind of accidental walk-in.

Or the common scenario, when somebody comes to visit, but you have some work to finish. So, you send him outside to the pool. Unfortunately, your wife did not expect anybody and is sunbathing naked. To increase the level of embarrassment, she can be lying spread wide, so the visitor can see everything immediately. She should act surprised, but the dare is to play it cool, do not cover and stay naked as long as possible. Then she can do something to prolong her nudity, like no bikini by her, so she can not dress. I expect the visitor turns around or try not to look. She can say that she was not expecting anybody, otherwise she would not be like that. But it is not a problem for her, because you often visit nude beaches and resorts. So, everything is fine. And ask a visitor if he would mind, if she stays like that. In a while you can join them and she will be the only one naked for the rest of the visit. Alternative light version can be that she stays topless. (Actually, the topless version happened to one of my friends.)

[Countrylivin]

Zoetic and Sam77. Thanks much for the suggestions. I have spent an inordinate amount of time on OCC researching others and ideas.

Zoetic, you actually nailed her intention with control. She wants me to have a full day planned as if she lost some sort of bet and is required to do as I say, regardless of the situation. I am the one searching for safe ways. She wants it challenging, daring, exciting and mentioned strangers several times along with a preference of older. When I mentioned things we have done she just responded with, think outside the box. SAM77, I mentioned the slide but according to a text from my brother it was put away for the cooler weather.

Ideas you both mentioned that I will definitely incorporate. We will do this hopefully Saturday at and around dads and the surrounding areas. Arrive Friday night and me controlling the activities first light Saturday till midnight. The time frame was set by her. Exposures to dad is a given and probably expected by both. Dad would actually not like the idea of any sort of touching. That would have to be really creative to accomplish. I do intend to invite or bring an old school friend out. I also intend to have her do one I read on OCC. On the trip down, have her pump gas naked. There are many options on the way down for not too busy small gas stations. I am also pondering the suggestion of sending a picture to my brother. She is absolutely one hundred percent aginst but if I'm in control he would be the safe bet to delete before his wife views.

There's a possibility that farmers that border our land will still be in the fields harvesting. If so that may lead to possibilities. I thought about shopping in a short skirt bending over but that seemed risky in a small town. Also thought about flashing people walking the roads in the countryside away from the town and dad's. Still have not worked out the logistics of this. The campgrounds on the state parks is still a safer option but working out the ideas there without having a camper on site.

She has asked daily if I had anything planned. My response is I'm working on it and my be this Saturday or the next.

[sam.77]

Thinking about your dad´s place: Your dad is quite used to see her nude. Involving your brother or somebody else sounds much more exciting. And maybe you can do the exposure less straightforward and tease them all a little: For example, in the evening, your wife can have shower, then join you just wrapped only in a towel and spend some time with you like that. The dare will be that she will not be allowed to touch the towel to fix it. She can do it only if it falls down completely. You can just let the towel be and wait for the drop. Or when you would like to be in control of her exposure, I can imagine something like this: You are sitting on the couch and watching a movie. She is next to you and you are hugging her. Then you slowly and unobtrusively loosen the “knot” (not sure how to name it) on her towel, so it will be clear that when she stands up, the towel falls down. Then you can whisper to her: “In a while I will finish my beer and ask you to bring me another one.” Then she will have to wait with the exposure for you. You can try to tease her by drinking often, but slowly, finishing it, but saying nothing for a while…

[sammy387100]

Some other suggestions regarding exposing her more at your dads place. To make sure your dad is still comfortable with everything maybe any touching would be playful like smacking her butt while she walks by or hugging her, well intended like helping her stretch or a friendly accident like she pretends to stumble and he catches her or she lands on him. Also you could make it fun like jumping around a corner flashing your dad to ‘scare him’ maybe even bump into him to cause some friendly incidental touching. She could ask for opinions on a henna tattoo in revealing area that would require whoever she was asking to see her closely/for awhile exposed or use that same idea with piercings. Or even working out or doing yoga with minimal/revealing clothes. Definitely think your brother would appreciate her friendly teasing too.
Regarding sending a picture or doing a video call maybe only do this if you’re comfortable your brother or dad will delete it if that’s what you want and maybe make that seem more accidentally at least first.

[Menorca]

Just show your father, father-in-law, brother or even good friends and neighbors holiday photos on your PC or laptop.

“Completely by chance” there are also nude and sexual photos of her in the directory where you fondle her, masturbate or have sex with her.

Then you tell her that she has already been seen naked and more by those present and that it doesn't bother her.

You ask her to get naked in front of everyone, masturbate and have sex with you.

Finally, you allow everyone present to take very intimate photos of her, according to their wishes...