[Request] OPEN -"Sharing Your Wife" Thread

[Erotictimes]

Originally Posted by Mar89

Any tricks on how to let my wife know I want her fuck another man? she's now (after many many attempts) more open to letting other seeing her naked when were having sex, while on the beach, or during massages however most of the time, she pretend it didn't happen as she probably still shy about it or maybe embarrassed.

I wonder if there's a good and safe way to get a stranger to sleep with her while I'm there?

This is one part of our extra curricular activities which I thoroughly enjoy. Sharing her with another man is one of my kinks if you will. One thing that really helped us make that a reality was the understanding that although we have rules and boundaries (most of which we share), they do not ALL have to be reciprocal. For a time when we started swinging it made her more comfortable to know that although I wanted to share her, she did not have to share me with other women. She is a little more possessive in that respect than I, to this day knowing she does not have to "pay me back" makes her far more relaxed with a MFM scenario.

We eventually had a few full swaps with other couples, and even a threesome with one of her girlfriends - but to this day the ongoing ability to have as much respect for our individual limits as the ones we share has been a really important piece of our journey in ethical non-monogamy.

[Mar89]

Thank you Erotictimes and Hornyinde for the suggestions.

From a practical standpoint, I can get a hotel room booked somewhere where no one can recognize us, but what's a safe way to find someone who can do the job!

I want someone who's gonna be gentle with her especially the first time. I don't want a weirdo to fuck with my wife! I have no friends who can do that neither I want anyone I know to be honest.

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Mar89

Thank you Erotictimes and Hornyinde for the suggestions.

From a practical standpoint, I can get a hotel room booked somewhere where no one can recognize us, but what's a safe way to find someone who can do the job!

I want someone who's gonna be gentle with her especially the first time. I don't want a weirdo to fuck with my wife! I have no friends who can do that neither I want anyone I know to be honest.

If you stay at a mid scale to higher scale hotel, you can find businessmen traveling for work. Midweek would be best. Most likely clean and not freaks that would hurt her. They have a lot to lose by being bad.

Or hotel where a college is close by. Would she be willing to fuck a younger guy in early 20’s? Many eager guys who want a MILF.

[GRITS]

ROLE PLAY, ROLE PLAY, ROLE PLAY.........THEN go to a swingclub dressed for the theme, and watch w no pressure......
THEN, BACK TO ROLE PLAYFOR ABOUT A YEAR AGAIN......

FEED the attitude w no pressure.....

[Mar89]

Originally Posted by mar88

Thanks. I didn't actually think about the age part. Actually my wife is 32.

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[GRITS]

Originally Posted by mar88

Thanks. I didn't actually think about the age part. Actually my wife is 32.



Exactly. That's what I have been trying to do. Role play and slipping some wife sharing porn.

NO PORN... women really don't appreciate seeing it...its PRESSURE ......
Swing club watching.......get a membership and go there.......

[annnampou]

Hi everyone,
I found this forum just a few weeks ago but did not have time to share my experience.

A few words about us:
My wife (42) and I (43) have been married for almost 15 years and have been together for almost 23 years. She is a very shy and low profile person.*
She avoids dressing lewdly and rarely wears revealing clothing. We met through a mutual friend and had sex for the first time after about 4 months.
Our first child was born 13 years ago (she was 29 at the time), and the second was born 2.5 years later.
If you have children, you know what that means for a couple's sexual life (once per month ).

Our story:
The most extreme thing we ever tried was to have sex in front of a camera while somebody watched us ( via Skype, and that was before our first child ).
In 2014, we finally managed to travel as a couple ( without kids ) for 3 nights in Rome. We arrived early in the morning, so we left our luggage and went for a walk.
Early check-in was available, so we went straight to the room, had a shower, and had sex without worrying about the kids ( finally! ).
The next day we had an idea, so we wrote it on a post it "Do you like watch us having sex in front of camera? - our email" and stuck it in the elevator!

The following morning, we received an email from a man who was interested in. He told us that he was available from 1:30 to 13:30 every day.*
Unfortunately, we could not be back to the hotel so early, so we arranged it for midnight. We returned to the hotel at 17:00, showered, and took a nap for a couple of hours.
Around 21:00, we went to the restaurant ( the fifth floor of the hotel ) and had dinner. At midnight, we returned to the room and were getting ready for the cybersex.

The guy (let's call him Flavio ) was waiting, and we opened the cameras. He was a 25-year-old man with no hair on his body, was slim but not muscular, and he sat on a chair with the camera focused on his dick and chest.
We were sitting on the bed, I was behind her, and my wife had the laptop between her legs, showing her pussy and tits.
My wife was rubbing her pussy while I groped her tits, and the other guy was masturbating vigorously. She was fully wet and horny, and in almost 3-4 minutes, she had her first orgasm.
We were trying to find a position in which the other guy could see everything but our faces. It was almost impossible because the camera was on the screen and only a couple of positions were okay.

All this time, I was whispering things like:*
"How do you feel being totally exposed to a stranger after all these years?"
"Make this guy cum for you"

A few minutes later, the guy suggested that we watch each other in person rather than through the camera, as it would be more convenient for both of us.
My wife told me that maybe this is too much, but I was very horny, so I told him, "OK, room 101.". My wife looked at me as if to say, "Are you serious?" and before we could even talk about it, he knocked on the door.
She quickly covered herself with the sheet and put her head under the pillow while telling me to tell him to leave. I opened the door, and he said "hi its Flavio may I come in?"
I said, "Of course, take the chair and sit here next to the bed.";
While my heart was beating at 200 beats per minute, I lay down next to my wife and lifted the sheet.*
She was completely naked, and her body was facing him. She just whispered something like, "Oh my god, what are we doing?".*
I began rubbing her pussy while sliding my cock between her legs. Flavio had unzipped his pants and was masturbating.
My wife was so wet, and I started fucking her. She was holding the pillow on her head, which was funny and sexy at the same time.
Flavio asked if he could touch her tits, and she did not answer, so I told him OK.*

He approached the bed and sat on his knees. With his left hand, he touched her breast, while with his right, he played with it.*
I whispered to her if she liked the way he touched her, and almost immediately she had an orgasm.*
I took her hand and put it on his cock. As soon as I saw her giving him a handjob, I was pulled and finished between her legs.
He cummed on her tits and belly a few minutes later.
At the time, after I had calmed down and had a clear mind, I wondered if it was too much for us.

I asked the guy to leave and said good night. My wife was like, "I want to fuck me right now!"
After closing the door, I turn around and see my wife lying with her mouth open, looking at the spills on her body. She turned, smiled at me, and said, "Fuck me now.".*
That night, we had the best sex of our lives.

Long story short, since then ( 9 years! ), we have kept in touch with Flavio and had frequent cybersex. To date, we have been with him 14 times (8 times we went to his country and 6 times he came to ours). In total, we have done about 400 hours of cybersex and 50 hours of sex. My wife has changed a lot. Now she is calmer, more cheerful, with a better mood and more self-confidence. It's incredible how comfortable she feels with him, and unfortunately, I can't describe it. Sex after kids was 2/10, and now it's 10/10. We are not swingers, and neither does she want to go with another man. For some reason, it all worked out for us, and now we have a sex only friend. If anybody wants more detail about all these years, let me know! Happy New Year!

[Curiouscouple2469]

Originally Posted by annnampou

Hi everyone,
I found this forum just a few weeks ago

We are not swingers, and neither does she want to go with another man. For some reason, it all worked out for us, and now we have a sex only friend. If anybody wants more detail about all these years, let me know! Happy New Year!

Well ya!!
Let’s hear about these adventures

[sam77sam77]

Originally Posted by annnampou

Hi everyone,
I found this forum just a few weeks ago but did not have time to share my experience.

Exciting story! Please continue!

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by annnampou

If anybody wants more detail about all these years, let me know! Happy New Year!

Great first post. Such an erotic story, i found it very exciting. i would love to hear more about the adventures, and specifically how your wife has opened up. reading how she gave Flavio that handjob in Rome was outstanding. Most we've done in hotels is having loud sex near the wall when another couple listened in the room next door.

Please post more. I'd also like to hear more via a DM if you prefer.