Xennial Perspective
I’m what they sometimes call an “Xennial”. That’s usually defined as someone born in the late 1970s/early 1980s. Not quite a Gen Xer, not quite a Millennial. (I was born in 1978, my wife was born in 1980.) Of all the generations, I’d say Xennials have the most experiences when it comes to pubic hair (or lack thereof).
Growing up as a child in the early 1980s, all the vaginas I saw on adult women were completely hairy. Finding old Playboys, watching late night cable TV, seeing pubic hair showing outside swimsuit bottoms of all the ladies at the public pool, scouring JC Penny’s catalogue lingerie sections for traces of pubes, and, of course, seeing moms and aunts and any other adult (or almost adult) woman I happened to see naked whether I wanted to or not — in all the foregoing circumstances, what I saw were, full, untouched, hairy bushes.
So naturally, hairy pussies were all I really knew growing up. In the late 1980s I started seeing slightly trimmed pubic hair in the Playboys I got my hands on, and by the early 1990s, even more so, including trimmed bushes in the late night cable TV I always watched on weekends when my mom would go to bed. Slowly as the 1990s went on, pubic hair began to disappear more and more, at least in pornography … not quite yet the general culture.
By the time I became sexually active, in the late 1990s, I was able to experience the whole gamut of pubic hair options. I hooked up with girls with everything from completely full, hairy bush, to bald, to landing strips and trim jobs of all shapes and sizes. In the late 1990s, it was the Wild West of Pubic Hair. Anything goes.
It wasn’t until 2001 or 2002 (I blame Sex and the City) that suddenly ANY pubic hair whatsoever became verboten for any young, sexually active woman. It was then I realized I preferred seeing some pubic hair — actually, a lot of pubic hair. It took me awhile, but I eventually realized the fully hairy vaginas of my childhood were what I wanted most.
When I met my wife in 2001, she had a completely shaved pussy. It was a recent thing for her, up until college, I later learned that she had a completely unshaved bush. She started trimming when she saw some of the other girls in the college showers with trimmed pubes. Eventually, she followed the fashionable trends at the time and shaved everything off because that’s what she was told is sexy and what guys want.
After several months of dating my future wife, I convinced her to stop shaving and she hasn’t shaved (or even trimmed) since. So I’m going on 25 years now of completely hairy pussy and I love, love, love it. She loves it too. She loves flaunting her hairy bush and teasing me by flashing me from time to time because she knows her hairy pussy drives me wild.
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