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[gregmartin]

Thanks E Great Caps!

[gregmartin]

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[gregmartin]

Let me know what you think!

[MysterJay]

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say a couple things I really feel strongly about...reactions I have to some of the things you post (AND THERE IS NO CRITICISM OF YOU or YOUR WORK intended....they are just MY reactions...) and maybe a few others in your fan base will chime in to...but MOSTLY I'd just really like YOUR thoughts.

1. I just really HATE it when things turn from being about SEX to being about POWER...and supremacy!!! I hate it when the MALE pushes the power button and demands, or abuses, or insults with disgusting name calling, or physically forces........and I hate it just as much when there is belittling, insulting, nasty, abusive language from the woman to her supposed husband. My question is...and I ask you because you have indicated you have some significant experience with the cuckold life style....does it always have to deteriorate to a power/supremacy game where there is a "You're useless and your task is just to obey and service me for my REAL lover" or a "I'm doing what I want and you just better adjust...BET on it!!" kind of attitude from the wife to the husband/cuckold??????? IS IT ABOUT SEX...OR ABOUT POWER & SUPREMACY??

AND 2. MY reaction in many of the scenarios I see portrayed both here and in videos & pictures other places...is that if I had a wife that disconnected from MY happiness, comfort, or affection so completely that I was seen as a useless, tiny-dick, weakling whose only purpose for being around her was to finance her sexual experiences....I would probably have to use every ounce of self control I had to keep from bashing her face in...but I most certainly would be out of that relationship LONG LONG LONG before it got to that place. Question is...IS IT JUST A VIDEO FANTASY or ARE THERE guys (I was going to say MEN, but they would be nothing even approaching a MAN as far as I am concerned) Are there guys who really actually play out the cuckold thing to the degree it is often portrayed with chastity, insults, abuse and subjection to the woman's hatred in the cuckold life style the way it is portrayed?????

Thanks for reading this and for any response or reaction you would care to make. Believe me, I have such an appreciation and respect for your work on these pages that I really would like to know what your response to my 2 questions is.

[mr_amanda]

Hey Jay,

As no one else has responded, I have some thoughts on this for you.

1) I'm not sure if someone will step forward and say they're living that cuckold lifestyle, complete with belittling and humilation. But I do believe there are guys like that out there -- possibly some even on this board.

2) While I've seen people offer several different definitions of a cuckold, most include that abuse and relegation of power as vital components of the definition. Submission seems to be the key. Some definitions describe a cuckold as merely the husband of an adulterous wife. But that simple definition doesn't seem fit the label, in my opinion. Since there seems to be a variety of slightly varying definitions, obviously opinions will vary, too. And many people will feel differently about whether that label fits them or not.

3) For my part, I agree with you. That humiliation and belittling, the relinquishment of power and self respect have no place in a relationship. I mean, to each his own. But it doesn't work for me. My wife and I have shared in various extramarital activities for years. I enjoy watching her with others. But it's with my permission and/or encouragement. And it's a turn on for me. Watching her is like my own personal live porn movie with my favorite starlet in the leading role. But it's a totally different ball game if I'm being told what's going to play out, and with who, and when. Not for me, and she would never do it. So I don't think the cuckold label fits me. Some might disagree, but I reject the label. I don't begrudge the guys who live that lifestyle, but I don't get it either.

4) All that said, I like most of the pics and text on this thread. It's always hot to see a woman in her element, owning her own sexuality, and being assertive about getting her needs met. Some of them go a bit far for my taste. But that's okay. I derive pleasure from the ones I like and don't get too worked up about the ones I don't.

Just my two cents.

-Mr. A

[gregmartin]

Great Questions...

I think there are two schools of thought....

1) naturally submissive guys who follow their pride down a rat hole and give in to everything.

2) one or two screws loose guys who find jealousy and elements abandonment/betrayal erotic.

In both cases traditional definitions of married life are out the window. Healthy couples will find safe and sane was to understand boundaries and limits.

I have know men and women who get into "you small pricked worm" sessions. They are at best boring and at least extremely dull.

Communication is the key,

[gregmartin]

The cuckold's pleasure is often personal, private and unique on to them. It is very hard to understand how and why they like what they like.

The wife can be either very controlling or easily addicted to freedom/power.

Feeding the cuckold what he wants and needs is tricky.

[gregmartin]

Often abuse rears it's ugly head. Cucks are easily exploited and abused.

If the love is strong, it can be very erotic in many ways. If the commitment is weak.... YIKES!

Hope this provides some insight

[GRITS]

WE LOVE YOUR WORK, AND HAVE SAID SO BEFORE W/ COMPLIMENTS TOO YOU.

We play cockold together, but there really is no abuse or power. She likes fucking, and I like fucking and watching her fuck. usually its with a select few friemds who we play with, and we look at each other eye to eye while she fucks my friends. She like s to say ' do you like seeing me fucking your friends?".. I don't answer, just smile. I'm usually part of the 3/4/5 somes , but realy like watching her take loads from all, and enjoy sloppy whatevers. Wer tell each other how it feels... she whlile fucking them, Me while fucking her w/ their loads in her for lube. Abuse no, we just enjoy swinging and watching it all happen..

Keep up the GOOD work, thanks.

[gregmartin]

Thanks grits!

Hope you like these too!