How many guys have boned your wife?

[anomalous_anon]

My wife has had sex with about as many people as I have. Her total includes 12 men* and a few women. We’re very honest about our sexual histories and I believe the number is accurate, though it’s slightly higher if you include oral or mutual masturbation. Both of us racked up our conquests before we started dating exclusively in ~2002.

I've met and know about half of her bed friends.

1) She dated him in high school, and he took her virginity. I met him at New Year’s party hosted by my wife, about 15 years ago. (It was a truly intimate affair in senses of the word, as all three guests had sex with my wife in the past.) Her first is a wonderful person, and I'm certain that we would be close friends if he didn't live about 400 miles away.

2 & 3) Two and three are bothers She hooked up with one of them in college and dated his younger brother about a year later. They (the younger brother) had only broken up relatively recently. She visited him a few times at his University.

She was depressed while they were dating and he often complained about how bad she was in bed. By the time we were dating she was healthy again, and boy was he wrong. She may have hooked up with him during those visits but she preferred to “tease” him as a form of revenge. One visit was particularly memorable. She got a all dolled up in her sl*tist attire to see a play he was starring/directing at school. I ate her pussy and rimmed her to several orgasms in the shower while she was getting ready. When she got back later that night, she kissed me an said, “Are you going to fuck me in the ass like I wanted you to earlier?” (One of the many reasons I married her.)

Both fella’s are archetypal neurotic Manhattanites, fun in small doses like Woody Allen films.


4) Her ex-fiancé visited her in college while on leave from the Army. I actually felt a bit badly for him, since she snuck out in the middle of the night (leaving him in bed) to have sex with me. Though not too badly since she was also having sex with him throughout the visit. (We weren't exclusive at the time.)

Out of all of the guys she’s laid, I've only ever been jealous of him. Apparently, he was hung like a porn star. She's never admitted it, but I'm pretty sure that I'm the second best lover she's had after him. I fantasize about my wife getting pleasured in a general but, I’ve dreamt about (and been aroused by) the thought of them fucking.


5) Last was a mutual friend in college. She had sex with him on his birthday, a couple of months before she and I started hooking up. Another cool guy, he’s a successful production assistant in Hollywood.


*I'm not entirely certain about this, but she may have boned a friend of a friend at a party a few years ago. They disappeared for at least half an hour, and had flirted before. She was in graduate school at the time and I gave her permission to do whatever she needed to do in order to cope with stress. We've never talked about that particular incident, but she did look simultaneously surprised and relieved when I mention that I would have been okay with her having sex with him.

[DiegoJames]

Originally Posted by BlackBunny

I actually do believe her that it's five guys she's had *full* sex with, but the blow jobs, hand jobs etc. must be around 100 or so I guess.

I'm always slightly baffled as to anyone (male or female) fixating on a 'sex number'. Personally, her 'number' is irrelevant and I've never asked or cared. Nor has she asked about mine. I'm guessing she doesn't care either, otherwise the question might have arisen long before now. I'm also baffled when I read some article about how this question arises in the early weeks/months of a relationship. I've never cared.

And if I was asked about mine, I'd be giving an honest number of *full* sex. I'd not be adding in the blow jobs or hand jobs I've had as contributing to the number of 'sexual partners'. I'd assume that she might do the same - her sex number would be confined to full, penetrative sex (vaginal or anal).

Ultimately, I don't care about the past. If she told me, unprompted, one day about her 'number', my view would be that 'I wasn't your first lover, just as long as I'm your last'.

I could be partner 1000 for all I care (I'm guessing her number, if I was pushed to hazard a guess, is high teens/low 20s) and it doesn't matter at all.

[DiegoJames]

Originally Posted by wilmajeanb

my BJ's in the triple digits. I lost count of my BJ number years ago!

Glad to read your experiences, and that you don't count BJs in your 'sex number' (a daft fixation, seemingly, for so many people, male and female).

[qazzy1749]

She never told me her total numbers. She told me some and I guess at others.

She answered one of those 'have you ever' poll games. Been married to her so long, her answers confirmed 'yes' having done one-night-stand.

When I asked her about it, she said "I'll never tell, but there were two of them."

Does that mean others had her more than once?

[Thorny2005]

She has fucked a lots we have had 100 of threesomes I love to watch her getting fucked

[postnit4u]

I really don't care how many men my wife has fucked, I care if she's been honest about it.

[Asianhotwifefantasy]

Originally Posted by kenny99990

Guys,

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?

Personally, I started dating my wife in 1963 when we were both about 15 or 16. We started having sex--she was a virgin--and then her family moved across the country. We agreed we could "date" others--I thought that gave me a pass but she would be faithful. Wrong!

During high school apart she had sex with a couple of other guys--I knew two of them casually from when I visited in the summers.

Then we went to college far apart and she really picked up her activity when she started drinking and became known as the girl who would spread her legs after a few beers. Lots of guys tried her out.

We got married after college--now married for 45 years--and I thought she had been pretty conservative sexually while we had been apart. She admitted to three other guys, but that number grew as more stories came out. She's now said her number is 12 but I think she probably did more than that--maybe a lot more.

When we were younger, her activity made me a bit jealous and angry but now the stories turn me on--I love to hear them. She's had almost as many guys as I've had women.

And she's fucked a few of our friends since we've been married--at least two I know of but she tries to deny it. One of them admitted their affair to me and apologized to me. Turns me on thinking about him between her legs bareback.

Originally Posted by naaktstel

Nice story.
Wished my wife had fucked some of our friends.

You don't have amy proof?

We met when we were young
She said I'm her first and only. I wish my wife would be willing to fuck my best friend

[Reston]

I like to watch. She likes to be watched. 27 years...

[FarleyGingle]

My wife had sex with one boyfriend before dating me, and getting married.

However, she was a hand job enthusiast. She has countless stories about make out sessions and jerking off boyfriends or guys she'd just met at parties. She has a great story about a guy she jerked off and the volume of semen was unbelievable. One regular fwb had a big cock which she always liked making cum. Another guy had an even bigger cock, she dry humped him to orgasm, then jerked him.

I expect she avoided giving head because she knew how unexpectedly her bf's would cum and she didn't want a mouthful.

[Pusslvr61]

Mine said she thinks about 40 before me, and about 7-9 after me...I love it. Her first boyfriend shared her with his friends, 7 at a time, 4 at a time...she was so bad! I love and encourage her to tell me her stories, I never had near as much fun as she's had. Every once in awhile she will remember one she hasn't told me about, the last one just in the last 3-4 weeks...said his cock was so big it hurt a little, but she loved it....