What turns you on most about the thought of your wife or GF with another?

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by Potteruk

Just joined OCC and have spent ages just reading through so many hot stories.

She was 14 when she lost virginity to a guy over 3 times her age.

I am conscious this is my first attempt at a reply so don't want to go on too long

Welcome to OCC and good job on your first post! Just be careful about quoting young ages.
Again, Great story! Thanks!

[MFN]

Well, I don't know exactly what turned me on so much when she told me about being with other men; I just know that it did. Here's what happened: As soon as I foolishly broke off our relationship she was pursued by numerous guys, and most of them got to put their penises in her, and she told me about each one with a late night or next day phone call. Also while we were apart she told me of new nude adventures where she stripped off to be the only one naked at a few parties. She said she was enjoying a spree of 'recreational' sex and exhibitionism. Just the thought of her putting herself out their like that, exposing herself and fucking freely, drove me crazy to the point that I ached to get her back. She described the sexy clothing she wore on dates, and how easily those clothes came off. If I happened to bump into her while she was with a date, she would jokingly introduce him as the guy she'd be fucking later that night, but I knew it wasn't a joke. And once I did happen to be at a party where she was, and she did a complete strip-tease in front of everyone. That time, I think seeing her naked tw*t and realising how many new cocks she was entertaining with it just drove me over the top. When we finally got back together, I was happy to learn that she hadn't formed emotional connections to any of the blokes she'd fucked, said the fucking and the stripping off was just for excitement. What drew me back to her was the thought of all that activity that I mostly wasn't a part of.

[Potteruk]

I am thoroughly enjoying reading so many tales and experiences mostly from like minded guys about their wives and turn ons. So I thought I would add more detail around me and my wife and the times we have been ultra turned on.
I think we both realised soon after we married how hearing about Pat's past lovers and sex experiences was a big turn on, especially for me. The more details she gave the more we would get out of each session, Sometimes I'd just lie back and stroke as she told me intimate facts about her past, she would join in and other times we would be shagging and both reaching complete orgasms as we talked and imagined.
There seems and endless supply of Pat's stories, especially from the years she worked abroad, before I met her, which inspires me. So in the main, I have heard many tales in detail about Pat and past encounters….somehow in a moment of heightened stroking I suggested how I would have enjoyed being a fly on the wall in one of the (many) hotel bedrooms she had frequented when in Spain working. She picked up on this and our conversation developed along the lines of me being an observer while she fucked a lad. Not in a cuckold way, I’m not into humiliation or that sort of dome/sub stuff but purely from an erotic hedonistic motive. This was several months ago and has been revisited a few times to help our intimacy.
However, recently things have moved into areas I didn't really consider, but am equally as turned on by. Pat mentioned the work we need to do in our garden ( there is a large unattended area left after some building work). She suggested she ask her friend Linda if her son could come over during his college Easter holidays and give us a hand and earn a bit of cash in the process. Ben is 18 now and attractive from the little I have noticed of him.
I had no objection to her idea and made some joke about her maybe liking having a younger boy for company. Her reply surprised but massively intrigued me. ‘ Well, yes, and it could be fun as long as you didn’t mind he has a bigger cock than you!’ ‘WHAT?’, I responded… and yes it appears she has not only seen his cock but also used it!. She tentatively explained how it had happened last summer when she went with Linda, Ben and his gf to Linda’s small holiday cottage in Cornwall. I wasn’t annoyed that she was admitting being disloyal but found my cock growing harder as she explained more. I will leave that story for maybe another time and thread, but happy to chat with anyone who wants to know more please.
But we now have the potential situation where a fantasy of me watching Pat shag another male will actually happen….in a few weeks. I cannot help but be excited and as I know Pat and I are solid in our emotional feelings I realise she and I enjoy sex for sex’s sake pure and simple. Ben isn’t a competitor, more an aide to increase and explore our sexual breadth.
Look for my post in a few weeks time, I hope!

[regn]

My perspective on being turned on by my ex-wife having been fucked is a bit different from many of the others in this thread. If someone had asked me when we got married about the danger of some other guy fucking my wife, I would have responded that was about the last thing I could imagine happening to me. She had insisted upon telling me when we met that although she had a long-time boyfriend in college, they never had sex. I had never asked her about this, and in fact I thought it rather odd that someone could have gotten out of college without having sex. Certainly being made into a cuckold would not have been something I could imagine even happening, much less liking. But as it turned out things didn’t go the way I expected. I got cucked pretty quickly, and then cucked by a number of guys over the ten years we were together. In all these occasions what these guys were doing with my ex was entirely behind my back. Sure there were suspicions, by I was naïve and very good at denial. My self-assurance came to a crashing end when we were splitting up, and she called me up one day to tell me what she claimed she should have revealed long ago: that some teenage sailor she met in a café in Paris had fucked her. Shortly thereafter I discovered all over the Net graphic nude photos of her taken by that college boyfriend. I had to face reality at that point. The details of the multiple times I got cucked by these guys I have pieced back together from the various passing hints, or taunts my ex gave me over the years. They are too lengthy to go into here, but for those interested, I have posted them as Messages on my profile page (now pushed back to page 3). There are also albums where I have posted those photos from college, as well as another set of nude photos done without my knowing until after it was done while we were together (and yes, another occasion of my getting cucked). I have posted here an example from each album. Facing up to the embarrassment of figuring out how many times I got cucked was a real challenge, I admit. But now thinking about the details of each of these guys sliding his hard-on into my ex, and the apparent pleasure she took from each I find a terrific turn-on. I don’t know if I was wrong about liking being cucked, so much as now, having had to face the reality of it, taking the pleasure I can in knowing about it.

[peter51]

Originally Posted by regn

My perspective on being turned on by my ex-wife having been fucked is a bit different from many of the others in this thread. If someone had asked me when we got married about the danger of some other guy fucking my wife, I would have responded that was about the last thing I could imagine happening to me. She had insisted upon telling me when we met that although she had a long-time boyfriend in college, they never had sex. I had never asked her about this, and in fact I thought it rather odd that someone could have gotten out of college without having sex. Certainly being made into a cuckold would not have been something I could imagine even happening, much less liking. But as it turned out things didn’t go the way I expected. I got cucked pretty quickly, and then cucked by a number of guys over the ten years we were together. In all these occasions what these guys were doing with my ex was entirely behind my back. Sure there were suspicions, by I was naïve and very good at denial. My self-assurance came to a crashing end when we were splitting up, and she called me up one day to tell me what she claimed she should have revealed long ago: that some teenage sailor she met in a café in Paris had fucked her. Shortly thereafter I discovered all over the Net graphic nude photos of her taken by that college boyfriend. I had to face reality at that point. The details of the multiple times I got cucked by these guys I have pieced back together from the various passing hints, or taunts my ex gave me over the years. They are too lengthy to go into here, but for those interested, I have posted them as Messages on my profile page (now pushed back to page 3). There are also albums where I have posted those photos from college, as well as another set of nude photos done without my knowing until after it was done while we were together (and yes, another occasion of my getting cucked). I have posted here an example from each album. Facing up to the embarrassment of figuring out how many times I got cucked was a real challenge, I admit. But now thinking about the details of each of these guys sliding his hard-on into my ex, and the apparent pleasure she took from each I find a terrific turn-on. I don’t know if I was wrong about liking being cucked, so much as now, having had to face the reality of it, taking the pleasure I can in knowing about it.

Too bad you split up?

[explorer98]

Like many who have responded to this thread, I have zero interest in the cuck thing. For me, it's partly about widening her experience and party about me enjoying watching this wickedly sexy woman!!

Amelia has ALWAYS been able to 'out-fuck' me. Although 17 years older and so now 78, she 'can go for miles' as the song says....!

I have lots of enduring fantasies about her but two elements which persist are of her being 'given' to a room full of younger (30-ish) fit, hung black guys and being left with them until there isn't a cock left hard enough to fuck her again.

Black because that's something I'd love to see. Younger because they'd get harder than I ever could nowadays and a room full because Amelia LOVES cum so she gets the creampie to end them all (and she adores the feeling of a huge amount of cum inside her) and also I want to watch her tasting LOTS of other men's cum!

This way, perhaps we'd finally find out just how many times she can cum before deciding that's enough, she can take more, bigger and harder cocks than she's ever imagined, be pumped so full of cum that it pours out of her (which of course she will then be required to eat!) and where guys need to cum before they can get inside her, they can unload into her mouth and all over her face and tits.

All holes freely available, no condoms (it's idealised, of course!), full use of her sexy, tits and HUGE nipples - all resulting in one well-fucked, sticky, spunky mess. Lots of photos to enjoy later and one absolutely shagged-out, sexy senior!!

[JonThink]

We had a friend that nailed her with his wife and I looking on! She was pounding on him while both were nude, and she was straddling his lap and facing him. She was screaming with each pound on his dick. She was like a wild woman! She was leaning back and letting him kiss and massage her tits while she was pounding him. She was hollering, "Oh, God! Oh, God!" the entire time. Never have I seen her enjoy wild sex so much. It got me horny as hell, but I was somewhat jealous that she never gets as turned on when fucking me. It makes me wonder, if she loved it that much, how many times as she experienced the same from other guys without me knowing and watching it. I should at least get the pleasure of watching her go wild while fucking other guys. So, if she swings, just let me know when and where, and I will be there with camera taking video and playing it back pretty often.

[Windsorm]

Ever since I was a frustrated teenager lusting after anything wearing a bra, I have been curious about the women around me. But, unlike those on the internet, they are almost completely inaccessible sexually.

My wife is the same to all the other men in her life. Since she was a teenager men have tried it on with her, and generally failed. If other men are like me, all those who interact with her will have mentally undressed her, and fucked her in their imaginations.

She has a high profile professional job where high personal standards are seen as essential. She’s exemplary in her role. No-one would guess there are nude pictures of her on the internet or that if the situation was right she’d might meet another guy just to be fucked by him.

When I met her, the chase and the seduction was a thrill. Obviously I can’t repeat that for myself. But encouraging her to flirt with another guy, to meet him, to let him undress her and enjoy her is everything I imagine about me enjoying another woman like her. Getting past her barriers to get her to open her legs for another man is the hottest thing that I imagine these days. Fortunately she enjoys that too, even if for her it’s mostly fantasy.

[regn]

Originally Posted by peter51

Too bad you split up?

A fair question. Since I wasn’t presented with the undeniable evidence that I was getting cuckolded until we had already split (her giving me the account of being fucked by a teenage sailor in Paris – see my profile page for this), our splitting had to do with a host of other things than my being cuckolded. So the question would be whether, if we were still together and I found out/admitted to the cuckings I was getting, would I appreciate aiding and watching her getting fucked by some stud. A friend I related my experiences to suggested that since I get such a big turn-on now thinking about them having her, I would have loved that. I don’t know. My being cucked behind my back seems to have been a matter of naivete and self-denial. I didn’t actually play any part in the cuckings I was getting. Actually participating beforehand seems a bit different. So I honestly don’t know. Seeing a video now recorded by one of those guys when he cucked me would be great, but I think that is part of the turn-on it is now in knowing all about it.

[saunder]

I dreamt of my wife fucking another guy and 6 weeks ago that dream turned into reality, and it lived up to the expectation and beyond. I was not sure what to expect but when his cock slid in for the first time it was so horny, but not as horny as the noises of pleasure she made and the one thing that really made it for me was when she came and lucky enough she will cum multiple times, so what makes it for me is her pleasure I wanted it to be the best fuck she had ever had. The picture is just me with her the light is low, unfortunately she is actually quite shy.