[Request] MY WIFE SAYS MOST WOMEN DO NOT LIKE GIVING BLOWJOBS. IS THIS TRUE?

[SixPointFive]

Originally Posted by Larry27

I would like to know what the men and women on OCC have to say about this.

BACKGROUND AND CONTEXT:
I need your input.

My wife comes from a very conservative background and so have most of her friends, including her best friend. She will suck my cock, but is reluctant.

When we talk about it, she always goes to the same statement, and I don't have a way to refute it. That is where YOU come in. She always says, "Most women don't like to give blowjobs. They just do it because the man wants them to." I wonder if that means she and her best friend have decided this, or is it true of most women?

For the women: Do you find this to be true? Are the majority of the BJ pics on OCC really gals only doing it to please their guy, but they would prefer to not? What do your friends have to say about it?


For the men: What does your wife/girlfriend have to say about it? (IF you can get her to talk about it!)

For the married men: Has your wife changed her perspective now that you are married? If you can get it out of her, what do your wife's friends say?

Be honest. If you don't know, don't guess. Just because she ACTS like she likes it, that does not mean she really does. Even if we realize they are only doing it to please us, there is a whole new element of cool about that!

What say you?

In my experience it appears that your wife is correct. My wife stopped giving blowjobs 2 years before we were even married. She’ll still occasionally suck it, but never ‘til the end. Previous girlfriends would appear super keen to give them at the start but that always tailed off once we were going steady and she felt less of a need to “impress”

Having said all that, i had a FWB thing going on for a few years with a female friend and she seemed addicted to them, but I fear she is in the minority

[Xico]

I would say its about 50 - 50 with the women I know who enjoy giving blow jobs. Some women do it out of obligation, after all if you are taking the time to suck and chew on her pussy until she cums then only fair she gives something back. But they invariably only do it for a short time and will finish you off wanking.
Whilst others will greedily grab your cock and cant wait for you to cum in their mouth.

[jiinx81]

I was in a private room at a strip joint (closed down a few years back by the cops). I paid a little extra for a hand job, and she asked me to let her know when I was ready to cum so she wouldn't get it all over her. When the time came i told her, and she plopped me right into her mouth and finished me off. Told her I wasn't expecting that, and she said it keeps the cleanup to zero. (I really didn't want that - until that time I hadn't been in any woman's orifice since getting married. Somehow a handie didn't feel like cheating, but this did. I did not, however, complain.)

[mysweetie61]

My second last BFF would suck my dick any chance she could, usually without asking. She's sucked me in an elevator, stairwell, secluded parts of a park, beach, outside her garage door at night, her backyard, at a party when there's privacy and very often in either her car or mine, sometimes as I drove. We've only been caught twice.
My current BFF is the opposite, she doesn't like to give blowjobs and won't if I don't ask but will if asked.

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by mysweetie61

My second last BFF would suck my dick any chance she could, usually without asking. She's sucked me in an elevator, stairwell, secluded parts of a park, beach, outside her garage door at night, her backyard, at a party when there's privacy and very often in either her car or mine, sometimes as I drove. We've only been caught twice.
My current BFF is the opposite, she doesn't like to give blowjobs and won't if I don't ask but will if asked.

Can you elaborate on the times you were caught? Who, where, what was done about it, if anything.

[hoosierdaddy4]

My wife told me that she would rather suck a man's dick rather than deep kiss him.
We were having this conversation one night after she spent a rather long time sucking one of our male friend's dick until he came in her mouth.
I asked why she so readily sucked him off instead of spending some of her time kissing him.
She told me that she felt it was much less intimate sucking his dick than kissing him.
She said he had a nice dick and she enjoyed sucking him off, but didn't feel any emotional attachment to him to want to kiss him.
She often told me that after being with other men.
She kinda felt the same way about fucking other men as well.

[mysweetie61]

Originally Posted by Hornyinde

Can you elaborate on the times you were caught? Who, where, what was done about it, if anything.

One time we were in a parking lot and the security guard caught her sucking my dick. He told us what we were doing was not allowed so we walked back to the car and left.
Second time we were in a park parking lot. Some guy in a wheel chair saw her bent over in the back seat sucking my dick while topless. I didn't alert her, just allowed him to watch until she looked up and saw him. She jumped up, screamed and covered her face while telling me some guy was looking into the window. Funny thing was that when she jumped up she exposed her breasts to him for a split second. He left after she screamed.

[Halkan]

Hello

I have some female friends who are so used to me that they don't mind me hearing their girltalk, and, let me tell you, that's been a learning experience. I remember one of the women saying that "I am bloody good at oral, I could give master classes, I'm a real virtuoso. I don't just suck, I play his cock like an instrument. Sometimes with my hands, sometimes with my boobs, sometimes with my mouth, sometimes fast, sometimes slow, bit's of twisting, bit's of licking, and I love to edge the guys. I feel so bloody powerful. I can get most guys to literally beg me to finally get them off. Or if it's a fastblower I can get him off quickly and then get him hard again so he lasts reasonbly well when he does fuck me. I run that show, OK, it's me totally in charge. I get wet just thinking of it!"

/HK

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Halkan

Hello

I have some female friends who are so used to me that they don't mind me hearing their girltalk, and, let me tell you, that's been a learning experience. I remember one of the women saying that "I am bloody good at oral, I could give master classes, I'm a real virtuoso. I don't just suck, I play his cock like an instrument. Sometimes with my hands, sometimes with my boobs, sometimes with my mouth, sometimes fast, sometimes slow, bit's of twisting, bit's of licking, and I love to edge the guys. I feel so bloody powerful. I can get most guys to literally beg me to finally get them off. Or if it's a fastblower I can get him off quickly and then get him hard again so he lasts reasonbly well when he does fuck me. I run that show, OK, it's me totally in charge. I get wet just thinking of it!"

/HK

How do you not want to see if she’s telling the truth?

[mallynb]

My first wife and I were together for about three years. She decided she wanted to explore what was out there sexually we were both young. Her leaving was great for me and the opportunities for sex with other women.
She had a terrible time keeping a job and went from one to another. We would cross paths through mutual friends.
One day talking she said she was working nights and it was a go go bar. I was surprised she would do something like that.
She said I hate most of my jobs of the past and this one is fun. This is back in the mid 80s with local hole in the wall go go bars every where most fairly sleazily the basics were liquor, scantly clad women and music.
She says come by sometime I will buy you a drink, during the week is best when it gets slow.
I show up mid week she is sitting at the bar and introduces me to all the girls. She starts telling me how much she is making a night and I am shocked equal to a weeks pay then.
I asked please tell how are you making so much in his place? She says well, how do I put it. I get paid for blow jobs in the back room. She says you know how much I love giving blow jobs it’s like an organism to me.
I said there’s nothing better than doing something you love. She says and I am known as the best in this bar and charge extra if they want me to swallow.
She starts offering detail about all the cocks she has sucked and I told her that was ok. I told her have fun, she said I will and I left and never discussed it again with her.