Submissive Advice

[Obironic]

Hey chaps,

I'm looking for some advice from the wealth of experience here.

I've just started speaking with a girl through a dating app and as it does the conversation has started to get a little steamy.

Thing is she has dropped in little clues that she is quite submissive - enjoying me taking charge pointing out how quickly she complied with an instruction etc.

But she has also said how much she appreciates the tenderness and not rushing in to filth talk - sounds like she's had a few bad experiences.


Any thoughts on how to approach this? I want to capitalise on her proclivities, but dont want to scare her off going to quick/hard.


Any advice greatly received.

Obi

[Duran Duran]

any update from the OP?

I guess it's too late to offer some advice now, but I think submissive women like a man who is in control in all aspects of life. That means good at their job, successful, knowledgeable about whatever the woman is interested in, doesn't get frustrated, has skill in some things and is generally not angry and frustrated. A man that knows good things. I think if you're able to to show her all those things you become highly desirable and at that point she'll be open to doing what you want and will trust you. Just don't take advantage and make sure she's going to enjoy it as much as you. Know her limits.