Things you should actually be a little ashamed of....

[lupe42]

I feel ashamed that all the below turns me on. In fact I'm still guilty of it....About 28 years ago (about 9 months before we got engaged) me and my gf (now wife) went to a wedding. She then age 29 was the maid of honor, I was an invited guest. Her friends younger cousin (he was 22 was in the wedding party. My wife was flirting with the kid all week leading up to the wedding. At the wedding we all drank way too much....he and she flirted all night and danced a few times. After the wedding ended we went to a local bar/club for another round. My wife and the kid danced there too. I looked up ant they were dancing a slow dance....they were heavily making out, and his hands all over her ass. I let it go as it was a bit of a turn on to see. After the last call, we offered the kid a ride to where he was staying. I was driving, my wife jumps in the back seat with him. In the matter of seconds,they are all over each other....making out. I look in the rear view mirror, and he dress is hiked up, pantyhose/undies pulled down. They're making out and he's fingering her. Next shocked me, he pulls his pants down and she starts sucking his dick. I hear him say "I dont have a condom" she says "dont worry about it". Next thing I know as I'm driving, hes in the backseat fucking my wife bareback. Went on for a bit, and he came inside her. Things got quiet and I dropped him where he was staying. I drove a few blocks and couldn't take it. I pulled in a dark lot jumped in the back and fucked her too. Was crazy feeling another guys cum in my wife. Next day she apologized for her behavior. We both blamed it on the alcohol. Six months later she was out on the West coast for another friends wedding....wound up having a 1 night stand with the grooms brother...I didn't find out about that till after we were married. Then 17 yrs ago amidst some marital issues, she had a 6 month affair with a younger guy.

[peelthemdown]

Originally Posted by lupe42

I feel ashamed that all the below turns me on. In fact I'm still guilty of it....About 28 years ago (about 9 months before we got engaged) me and my gf (now wife) went to a wedding. She then age 29 was the maid of honor, I was an invited guest. Her friends younger cousin (he was 22 was in the wedding party. My wife was flirting with the kid all week leading up to the wedding. At the wedding we all drank way too much....he and she flirted all night and danced a few times. After the wedding ended we went to a local bar/club for another round. My wife and the kid danced there too. I looked up ant they were dancing a slow dance....they were heavily making out, and his hands all over her ass. I let it go as it was a bit of a turn on to see. After the last call, we offered the kid a ride to where he was staying. I was driving, my wife jumps in the back seat with him. In the matter of seconds,they are all over each other....making out. I look in the rear view mirror, and he dress is hiked up, pantyhose/undies pulled down. They're making out and he's fingering her. Next shocked me, he pulls his pants down and she starts sucking his dick. I hear him say "I dont have a condom" she says "dont worry about it". Next thing I know as I'm driving, hes in the backseat fucking my wife bareback. Went on for a bit, and he came inside her. Things got quiet and I dropped him where he was staying. I drove a few blocks and couldn't take it. I pulled in a dark lot jumped in the back and fucked her too. Was crazy feeling another guys cum in my wife. Next day she apologized for her behavior. We both blamed it on the alcohol. Six months later she was out on the West coast for another friends wedding....wound up having a 1 night stand with the grooms brother...I didn't find out about that till after we were married. Then 17 yrs ago amidst some marital issues, she had a 6 month affair with a younger guy.

Hi, I've got an invitation to a wedding this summer and would really like to invite your wife as my +1.

Would that be OK?

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by lupe42

I feel ashamed that all the below turns me on. In fact I'm still guilty of it....About 28 years ago (about 9 months before we got engaged) me and my gf (now wife) went to a wedding. She then age 29 was the maid of honor, I was an invited guest. Her friends younger cousin (he was 22 was in the wedding party. My wife was flirting with the kid all week leading up to the wedding. At the wedding we all drank way too much....he and she flirted all night and danced a few times. After the wedding ended we went to a local bar/club for another round. My wife and the kid danced there too. I looked up ant they were dancing a slow dance....they were heavily making out, and his hands all over her ass. I let it go as it was a bit of a turn on to see. After the last call, we offered the kid a ride to where he was staying. I was driving, my wife jumps in the back seat with him. In the matter of seconds,they are all over each other....making out. I look in the rear view mirror, and he dress is hiked up, pantyhose/undies pulled down. They're making out and he's fingering her. Next shocked me, he pulls his pants down and she starts sucking his dick. I hear him say "I dont have a condom" she says "dont worry about it". Next thing I know as I'm driving, hes in the backseat fucking my wife bareback. Went on for a bit, and he came inside her. Things got quiet and I dropped him where he was staying. I drove a few blocks and couldn't take it. I pulled in a dark lot jumped in the back and fucked her too. Was crazy feeling another guys cum in my wife. Next day she apologized for her behavior. We both blamed it on the alcohol. Six months later she was out on the West coast for another friends wedding....wound up having a 1 night stand with the grooms brother...I didn't find out about that till after we were married. Then 17 yrs ago amidst some marital issues, she had a 6 month affair with a younger guy.

I see no reason to be ashamed. What you saw was incredibly erotic, your wife in a private porn show for you. She’s sexually wanted by other men, which is what many of us men want to know and see.

It would continue to turn me on too.

[1michael]

There are times now when I'm thinking about it, I do feel bad for doing it but it was my way of getting back at the neighbors wife for doing something of a naughty nature to me~
The neighbors wife Carol, has a bit younger sister that just went thru a heart twisting break Up with her boyfriend and was really down in the dumps as many of us had went thru!
Carol came over and told my wife & I that her sister has a huge crush on me and maybe I could do something for her that'll make her think less about her break Up and go on with her life!
Back going back when it was the 1st days of that break up, Carol's sister come over to Carol's house with the front door not Locked and caught the 4 of Us ( Carol & her hubby, me & my wife ), all NUDE and sharing playful moments with each other! So Carol's sister knew that we all played around, but Carol was timid / Shy / Embarrassed and everything else you can think off having her sister there and being able to see her being NUDE and Naughty with others!
Carol was the 1st to cover Up and take her sister into another room to have a talk with her and I never seen Carol cover Up before for any reason or for strangers!
I tried to make a deal with Carol for my services and enjoy more out of it too, I told her that I'll take care of her sister as long as she would be there and join Us for a 3 some!
Carol did moan and groan for a long time before finally agreeing to it, but she told me there would be No girl to girl stuff and a few other things!
I made this weekend a Interesting night with more or less a Competition between Carol & her sister, then I did plenty of comparison in having them both stand and showing off their Nude body's!
I think that I put Carol on the spot more with things she didn't want her sister to see, like doing oral on my cock and talking dirty to each other!
It didn't seem to mind or bother Carol's sister, she went right to doing oral on my cock and enjoyed every inch of it as well as my Balls and ass too!
It was nice to hear that Carol's sister did get over that BF and found another one, but Carol put a stop for her joining Us in our playtime!
It was also good that Carol got over me having her join Us while her sister was around and viewing!
But I just feel you have to make the Best out of things when you can~

[DRDavenport]

Originally Posted by stonz2

I’m ashamed of the fact that my wife had a long term affair and I knew and did nothing about it. <snip>.

You did the right thing.

[Menorca]

When we were younger I blindfolded my then girlfriend / now wife and asked her to masturbate.

What she didn't know - I had told a friend beforehand and he also watched her doing it.

Finally he got his penis and masturbated on my wife's c*nt while she was cumming too...

Whenever he saw her later, he had to suppress a grin, I was a bit embarrassed after all...

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by stonz2

He was twenty years her senior, a wealthy lawyer, and from what I understand he had a huge cock. When it started his first wife left him and he married again but my wife was always his real “ pussy “. I can’t blame him she’s great in bed. She’s still a beautiful woman, only now she has a pair of 38d hangers and a big sexual appetite.

Do not be ashamed. Your wife is so desirable that a married man needed her. Even after marrying another woman he still needed her. Your wife needed that huge cock, as you described it. She couldn’t deny the feeling it gave her. Why would that shame you?

[Menorca]

When we were young my wife - former girlfriend - was pious, shy - and sometimes very hot as fire. I taked naked photos from her and showed them to my best friend someimes - tits, pussy, masturbating - not more.

One day at a hot summer my best friend came with me at home and my wife doesn't know. She was often naked at home and when we came in he cam see her totally naked...

She blushed but but I asked her to remain naked. She was shy at first, but then stayed naked and I told her that he had often seen her very intimately on photos - even masturbating!

She was very angry at first, but once she calmed down, she asked him to masturbate in front of her too, which he did - and so did I and she, too...

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Menorca

When we were young my wife - former girlfriend - was pious, shy - and sometimes very hot as fire. I taked naked photos from her and showed them to my best friend someimes - tits, pussy, masturbating - not more.

One day at a hot summer my best friend came with me at home and my wife doesn't know. She was often naked at home and when we came in he cam see her totally naked...

She blushed but but I asked her to remain naked. She was shy at first, but then stayed naked and I told her that he had often seen her very intimately on photos - even masturbating!

She was very angry at first, but once she calmed down, she asked him to masturbate in front of her too, which he did - and so did I and she, too...

Very erotic. What was her initial reaction to watching another man masturbate to orgasm in front of her? It seems it made her want to do the same. Everyone just was satisfied masturbating even though all naked?

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by stonz2

When my wife had her long term affair with her big dicked lawyer friend, I knew and did nothing about it.I used to feel ashamed and inadequate. After posting on here and getting some guidance from members here like Hornyinde…

I now realize my wife is very desirable and I should be happy and proud of the fact that another man needed her, and she needed the feeling of getting fucked with his huge cock. I don’t know how my head was so messed up, society I guess. (Society telling you should only feel a certain way) He could give her the fucking she needed who was I to deny her that.

My wife needed the kind of fucking I couldn’t give her. (Like bouncing up and down with no chance of coming off). No shame. I’m happy for her now. Her urges needed to be satisfied, he was twenty yrs older than her and passed recently. I’m glad they had their time together and could satisfy each other urges and needs.

I felt I needed to clarify no more shame.


Double post, sorry I just wanted to give more detail.

That’s for the mention. Like you said, you shouldn’t be ashamed. We are born with the cocks we have, and we can’t change it. She needed to feel that big cock, but it was only physical. I’m glad you’ve moved past it and all is well now.