I don't know why I didn't pick up on this post before know because it represents my wife's attitude exactly.
Tradionally she's reserved rather than prudish although always liked dressing nicely and posing for the camera. She'd go topless on the beach but this faded a bit as the kids got older. When they grew up and we went away together she loosened up a little. We had been on beaches that permitted nudity before but I took her to a busy beach where absolutley everyone was naked so you got stared at if you were dressed. I though she'd protest a little or get undressed sitting on her towel and stay put. To my surprise she got undressed and suggested we went for a walk along the crowded beach. Since then, this is usual behaviour on the beach or the dunes. She will also wear see through clothing when we are out and discretely flash.
The main thing in common with your Mrs is that she does not acknowledge any thrill from it. She says she does it to please me but then sometimes she does it when I don't ask or goes just a little beyond what I expect so I know she must getting a buzz from it as well.
I know her main boundary is family and friends, she would not even go topless in front of her own sisters these days.
I have avoided being too pushy but I'm now getting the feeling that she want's me to ask her to be more adventurous so that she can put up a token resistance but do it anyway to 'keep me happy'? Maybe?
Oh bugger this is giving me a sore head now!
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Originally Posted by SteveZR1
Women! the ultimate mystery.
The wife has NEVER admitted to any fantasies, but you KNOW that she must have some fantasies I'd love to cultivate.
If for no other reason, she is an exhibitionist with some odd twists... ?? (I've written about this here before)
I like to think of her as a "closet exhibitionist"
She likes to get naked in semi-public settings, remote beaches, clothing optional vacations, backyard, etc. full well knowing she is being seen.
But she will never acknowledge any gaining pleasure from doing this. She HAS to have fantasies revolving around being naked in public. For the life of me, I can't pry anything from her, even after baiting her with possible scenarios I'd LOVE to explore with her.
Women! as said, the ultimate mystery.
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