Wife wants to be more body-positive - ideas please

[fordguy2001]

I knew a girl that started her journey to body positivity by staying naked all the time at home. Then she started leaving curtains open and eventually moving on to going outside. She became so confident that she kept this up when the kids were at home and started ordering pizza and going to the door naked to get it. The next step was explicit photos that she would send. Some of which I have posted on here. The point of this long ramble is, start out small and let her move on at her own pace.

[nudists777]

Originally Posted by raysallx

take her to a clothing optional beach or resort. Seeing other women with positive body images should help her. She can take off as little or as much as she wants. It's as simple as that.

Fully agree. A trip to a clothing optional club or resort or even better a true nudist club would be good. There will be lots of other women there and she can see how they enjoy a body-positive atmosphere. Most of the time, people get used to social nudity in 20-30 minutes and think nothing of it after that, but the sensual nature and nice afterglow of a day or two around other nudists will give her a lot of confidence and, as a candualist, will definitely give you a thrill.

[_Voyageur_]

If other houses can see her bedroom window I second the idea of undressing with the curtains open & lights on at night, she's fairly likely to attract attention. Lots of women like do this anyway, trust me.

[Carrie K]

I feel better about my looks just with a decent tan in the summertime. Helps hide the cellulite and stretch marks. Looks better than chicken legs.

[EriiErii]

go to a beach that's half topless, half nudist, and just chill sitting in the middle. Don't pit any pressure on her but tell her how beautiful she looks and how, if she wants too, she would look even more beautiful with her tots out like all the other women. Go from there.

[raysallx]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

I feel better about my looks just with a decent tan in the summertime. Helps hide the cellulite and stretch marks. Looks better than chicken legs.

If you have no tan lines it adds another dimension

R.

[mallynb]

My wife that passed a few years ago loved that we had a tanning bed.

She found that her stretch marks disappeared a lot and made it easy to go total nude.

She also found that trimming the bush is important, she would shave the lower half and leave a small patch on top also to cover a baby cut from years ago.

My now wife likes to tan also of course nude. She says brown fat looks better than white fat.

Both wives like how their areola’s get darker when tanning.

Both always wore and wear skimpy tops if cover is required like a bathing suit.

Guys love tits with cleavage or side boob exposure, the hot one under boob exposure.

The last resort we went to a few weeks ago non nude she wore a bikini with a little under boob exposure, she got a lot of looks even being an older girl.

[Shihoin]

When my ex-wife (reluctantly) began her nudist journey with me, she was very self-conscious of her weight. She started out wearing sarongs most of the time.

But then she started meeting and chatting with nudist women, who had no issues with social nudity. And that inspired her. Then, at a nudist get-together, some supportive women encouraged her to "let go" of her sarong. And the "you look great!" feedback, when everyone there saw her naked, boosted her self-esteem. The group would sometimes take pics of events; and my wife actually volunteered to pose. After that, she was good with being completely naked around other nudists.

IMHO social nudism is undefeated when it comes to body-positivity.

[lafemmeemily]

she should skip wearing underwear. enjoy the free feeling and the frisson of easy access and easy flashing.

emily

[mallynb]

I have posted on here before but feel I can add another positive body statement for your wife or girl.

My wife that passed when she was younger and thiner quit wearing panties when wearing a dress. She said it made her feel sexy.

I know it always turned me on knowing she was exposing with just a lift. Women have confidence when feeling sexy.

We would go to a nude resort and she had no problem stripping down. Later years a little older in mid 40s she put on weight about 30-40 lbs.

I would bring up going one more time to our favorite resort and naked. She would say but I don’t looked like I did ten years ago.

I reminded she of the first time we went to a nude resort and she said before going the top may come off but that’s it. But after you saw other women nude you knew you looked as appealing as them completely nude.

Yes you are a little bigger but look at how big yours tits have gotten, guys love seeing big tits you need to do it one more time.

I convinced her to go again and she was so glad she did yes she was a little bigger all the way around, it was her tits that doubled in size.

She got more admiration stares than ever. To top it off we were in the hot tub with another couple all of us drinking the other woman was average in size body but smaller tits.

She says to my wife I wish I had tits like yours she laughed and says my husband loves looking at yours, I hope that’s OK looking at both of us.

My wife says I will take that as a compliment, thank you. I winked at her husband and he smiled.

That comment was one of the best things to boost my wife’s self confidence ever.