Something your wife/gf is self conscious about

[john78]

Originally Posted by Fluxx

Looks like I have time for one more quick post, this time its a twofer. Since having our first child she is very conscious about what she has dubbed her "road map" of stretchmarks and the little belly pouch that accompanied them. She also thinks her areola are too big. Once again, I think she is hot but she doesn't believe me...

Love your wife's sexy ass and belly pouch. Her tits are really nice too. She has nothing to be self conscious about. She is a beautiful sexy woman. You are a lucky man.

[Marquis De Shady]

Her ass.

Granted, her ass is more cellulity than most women her (small) size; but it's genetics. It's been there her entire adult life. And it's really not as bad as she thinks (but I won't post a pic out of respect for her hang-up, sorry). But for her a "freezing" procedure (I'm not sure what it actually entails) is in the picture; and she often talks about wanting to get her "ass frozen" (her own words).

She goes to the nudist resort with me, and is fairly comfortable spending the day naked. But she does get squeamish if she's standing, socializing; and someone is sitting behind her with a direct view of her ass.
She also knows - from seeing pics of herself - that if she's bent over the cellulite is much less apparent. Because of her small waist, it looks like she has a BBL even though it's natty (and she likes that). So she is much more comfortable being seen from behind if she's bent over - although it also means her vulva will be exposed - which to me seems paradoxical.

Her thick labia used to be her other main concern; but she got over that one pretty quickly by seeing other women at the resort that had them thicker or longer than hers. She used to stay hairy to hide them as much as possible; but her decision to go completely smooth marked her acceptance and embracing it being seen.

[4cali]

Mine isn’t particularly self conscious. Long ago I’d have said er weight. She is in no way fat at all. Just has that layer of smooth skin with little rib definition which is how I like a woman. I don’t find being too skinny or toned as attractive as a girl with some curves. As I’ve expressed my attraction to her over the years and never let up she doesn’t seem as shy about being in a bikini. She more takes the approach of skinny ladies and toned ladies are probably more jealous of her tits and ass than she is if their weight and muscle level.

If I had to guess I’d say her boobs. They are large D cups and often she passes over sexy tops that show too much cleavage because she doesn’t want to be THAT gal who is always showing off her tits. Even if I want her to lol.

[Naddy3]

Originally Posted by shnowballs

My lady has two issues with her body. One has been around forever, the other is more recent.

Starting with the relatively recent one, it's a C-Section scar she was left with after the birth of one of our kids. I think it's quite tidy and you can hardly see it. She seems to think it has ruined her body forever.

The other one has been talked of since the day we hooked up. She feels nature has been unfair to her. Nature, you see, gave her some wide hips and a lovely round ass but then paired them up with (again, what she believes are) disproportionately small boobs. They're on the small end of B and tend to almost vanish when she lies on her back. She does quite like both of these parts of herself but feels they just don't match. If only nature had given her a smaller ("tidier") ass to go with the small boobs or else some C (if not D) cup boobs to go with the ass.

I, of course, think she's the most gorgeous woman that ever walked the Earth but when I express this opinion I get told I'm biased! Women!

I love little tits and hers are perfect. I'd love to suck, lick, pull and tug on those nipples. Does she like them roughed up? Slapped a round.? My fwb like it.

[Onlywater]

I guess anal is no longer on the table. She enjoys the way it feels, but finds that it makes her incontinent for a few days following. I’m not particularly large… but I guess big enough to cause her to leak. I’ll miss hearing her ask me to fuck her that way, but probably won’t miss waking up with soiled bedding

[Carrie K]

I'm self conscious about my belly pouch, 100%. A good tan helps aesthetically. Multiple pregnancies take their toll. Being pregnant with twins definitely changed things; the twins kicked my ribcage out for lebensraum. Compliments help.

[Windsorm]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

I'm self conscious about my belly pouch, 100%. A good tan helps aesthetically. Multiple pregnancies take their toll. Being pregnant with twins definitely changed things; the twins kicked my ribcage out for lebensraum. Compliments help.

Women seem to worry about what they see as their imperfections. Men tend to overlook any imperfections and concentrate on what they see as the sexy highlights.

You have plenty of sexy highlights! Please don’t worry about your belly.

And bellies disappear when you’re lying on your back!

[allthatjazz]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

I'm self conscious about my belly pouch, 100%. A good tan helps aesthetically. Multiple pregnancies take their toll. Being pregnant with twins definitely changed things; the twins kicked my ribcage out for lebensraum. Compliments help.

But you're brave enough to wear skimpy bikinis and show yourself here. Good for you! Own it.

[Carrie K]

The reason I have that confidence to wear a bikini and feel attractive is because of the positive feedback I get from appreciative guys; not from catty remarks from the mean girls.

[steview1974]

A medical fact, but still embarrassing, that her breasts are asymmetrical. One never fully developed. Not that I or her previous boyfriends mind, of course.