What have other's seen on your PC or phone

[004bergib]

This has been my phone background for the last couple of years. It used to be the lockscreen but she said it was too obvious so this was the compromise. I don’t try to hide it so most friends have seen it and for sure anyone around when I open my phone.

[Speedster]

Several years ago, I got into this really bizarre situation with another couple. My wife and I met them in a motorcycle riding group. They latched onto us like glue. I have always been into photography. (My wife often being the subject of my photos.)

So the guy from the couple fancied himself as quite a photographer, and they started to invite themselves to our house. I didn’t like or trust either one of them from the start. They would give us unwanted two-dollar gifts (like a key chain) and then want to borrow my new truck for the weekend. Needless to say, that never happened.

So one evening, they show up at our house, uninvited as usual, and I was working on the photos for the motorcycle group- on my laptop. I was the official photographer. At the time, my wife hadn’t caught to the fact that they were users and they always wanted something for nothing. They made it fairly clear that they wanted to swing. (The female tried to kiss my wife and she pulled back in horror. Lol Swinging with them wasn’t going to happen, they were physically gross- and I just didn’t like them.)

So the guy started talking about all of the erotic photos that he had taken of his wife. It was quite a shock to me when my wife asked me to show them some of the erotic photos that I had taken of her!

So here I am at my laptop, with the three of them gathered around my laptop, and my wife requesting certain semi-nude and nude photos to pull up to show them!

I could tell by the couple’s reactions that their “erotic photos” couldn’t hold a candle to ours. Lol

Several months later, my wife finally caught on to the fact that they were users and we both asked them to not come back anymore. He has since stolen several of my group’s motorcycle photos and claimed them as his own. lol

No biggie, he doesn’t have any copies of my wife’s photos. He wanted (and begged for) copies, but he never got any. He sent me several "erotic photos" of his gross wife and I immediately deleted them.

I still think to myself, “Now that was just bizarre!“ lol

[lounge]

I always go home after a good haircut I want replicated in the future and take a front / back view of the work to share if need be during future adventures. It worked better than the non visual verbal reply to the inevitable How would you like it to be cut today? There were two pics to swipe back and forth and my plan was to hand the phone to the stylist or hold and do it myself as she looked over my shoulder.
I don’t mind the time for a haircut if the female is attractive as there is always the occasional brush or casual down blouse opportunity during the course of the session. Sometimes flirty talk ensues as a bonus.
Last haircut I thought I’d take it a step further than my original plan which was working quite satisfactorily for what it was. I moved a picture of my wife on either side of the headshots; she was sunning on the deck. I was going to test the stylist by handing them phone off next time with the frontal shot on the screen and the next photo when swiping was the back of the haircut I desired. IF she swiped again it would be a topless female (my wife) and oops, sorry about that. I forgot Not as offensive as a male naked being the next accessible photo.
If she was to swipe again it would be us as a couple full frontal nude and further swipes would be of me alone progressively becoming more daring in presentation to close up erection. So again there are two pictures of hair and that should be all that is viewed if the stylist is focused. Further swipes prior to returning my phone would just show more interest or curiosity on her part.
Went in for a haircut week before Christmas and was amazed. Handed her the phone indicating my preference. I watched in the mirror as she took my phone. It was obvious she went beyond one swipe. Then it appeared she realized she had to return the phone with a haircut on the screen and not nudity. She looked into the mirror and said she could do it fairly close and was still scrolling my phone and then returned it promptly. I made small talk as she swiped as to whether she thought the cut was doable, love this time of year, etc.
She did a terrific job on my hair and asked twice, once for a review of the front to compare to her work she said, and again for the back view for the same reason. She said. She again seemed to be scrolling more than back and forth but each time returned the phone with the proper picture posted. I continued to be oblivious to anything unusual in her behavior. At least I was hoping she thought so.
It was a rush. I had shared my plan with a friend and he suggested the wife being the first possible discovery so if not welcomed it wouldn’t necessarily be as offensive. Hadn’t thought of that but after considering it I thought it to be brilliant strategy / cover. I don’t have a regular stylist and we’re not in a particularly highly populated area but will try again in 6 weeks or so with another haircut. Hope you liked the read. Anyone done anything similar?
Thoughts or warnings I may not be aware of?