How open is your wife about her past?

[Ignazius]

My wife tells me everything about her sex life. She is like a open book and we are married already a long time 13 years.

She told me all about her **** history when she was a young teenanger in a catholic school in south america.
She told me how she got ****d in her mid 20s when she was drunk and also about her latest relationship before me.

I especially like her story of her ex partner. She told me that he was a very rich and old guy and he loved anal sex. Always in the evenings when he came home from work he wanted a nice blow job that she of course gave him. Later she found out that he had 2 other women at work and she was just the end of the day with a nice blow job.

[Tomkat2]

Originally Posted by Almost_There

Exactly the same thing happened to me a few years.My wife had decided she wanted to get a divorce and became crazy promiscuous.

Yes, your experience and feelings about your wife's affairs are very similar to mine. The fantasies can be endless but the reality when your woman actually sleeps with other men is mind boggling, at least for me.

[Tomkat2]

Originally Posted by Tomkat2

As I said, when my wife started telling me about her sexual past early on in our relationship I felt jealousy and was disturbed but soon became turned on by the idea.

Recently, my lovely wife finally admitted to me that the guy she had that affair with was indeed a black man. She had had a few drinks and was feeling tipsy and the subject came up again. This time she gave me even more graphic details than before. I did pump her for information and she confessed that he was a large man with VERY dark skin, she called it coal black and he had a very big cock. She also confessed that she had sex with him without protection more than the once she initially told me. She did bring the diaphragm along with her but he didn't like it when she used it and she also worried that I would discover she had had it still inside her after she came home. For the diaphragm to be effective as birth control they have to be left in for awhile. Both of them hated condoms also so she did take a huge risk with this affair. Almost every time they fucked it was bareback and he finished inside her.
She also admitted they fucked more than the "about" 6 times she initially told me. It was more than twice that, perhaps over 12 times and each time they did it multiple times, sometimes 3 or 4 times in a 3 hour session. I know she can be very insatiable and as it turned out he had lots of stamina and a sex drive like a wild bull. He had to have filled her pussy a total of 30 or even 40 times with his cum. She said she was drawn back to him because the sex was so incredible and loved the attention he lavished on her. He was giving her what I wasn't at the time. She did finally break if off but he didn't want her to. It went on so long because every time she talked about stopping their affair, they ended up in bed again. She was so lucky she didn't get pregnant.
At this point she was giving me more information than I wanted or needed but she kept talking so I listened!

[Tomkat2]

Originally Posted by Tomkat2

Recently, my lovely wife finally admitted to me that the guy she had that affair with was indeed a black man.

This morning she woke up, sober but still in a confessional mood. She knows I love to hear about her past sexual experiences and now wanted to tell me all about her affair with the black man. She has always had thing for black men and has told me more than once, "They really know their way around a woman's body." The end result is she seems to be more adventuresome sexually with them.
It was no surprise then when she looked at me over her morning coffee and told me, "There's a few things I didn't tell you about my affair with him, do you want to hear about it?"
I told her I did so she continued, "We made love after almost every class and sometimes skipped class to go to his place. Once there we immediately left a trail of clothes to his bedroom. Once there we made love in every way imaginable..."
He voice trailed off then finally continues, "That included me letting him fuck my ass a few times."
That surprised me a bit because she never lets me do anal on he, she claims it hurts too much. This hurt my feeling but also turned me on. Here's a few pics of her shapely ass to show you what he had.

[Tomkat2]

Originally Posted by Tomkat2

This morning she woke up, sober but still in a confessional mood. She knows I love to hear about her past sexual experiences and now wanted to tell me all about her affair with the black man. She has always had thing for black men and has told me more than once, "They really know their way around a woman's body." The end result is she seems to be more adventuresome sexually with them.
It was no surprise then when she looked at me over her morning coffee and told me, "There's a few things I didn't tell you about my affair with him, do you want to hear about it?"
I told her I did so she continued, "We made love after almost every class and sometimes skipped class to go to his place. Once there we immediately left a trail of clothes to his bedroom. Once there we made love in every way imaginable..."
He voice trailed off then finally continues, "That included me letting him fuck my ass a few times."
That surprised me a bit because she never lets me do anal on he, she claims it hurts too much. This hurt my feeling but also turned me on. Here's a few pics of her shapely ass to show you what he had.

We are on vacation this week so we had all day to discuss what happened during her affair. Please remember that this happened a number of years ago and up until now my wife had been sketchy on the details. The activity on this thread and my sharing with you how much of a nymphomaniac my wife was in her younger days led me to bring up her sexual past again with her and we got around to discussing when she cheated on me with her fellow night student at the university. She had admitted to the affair shortly after it happened but it wasn't until yesterday that she finally admitted the guy was black as I had suspected.
Even though my wife is by any measure what most would consider a "trophy wife" and could have most any man she chooses, she didn't seem to be very particular who she would fuck on any given night...or day. She told me she needed sex every day (she still needs it a lot!) back then so it really didn't matter who she was with, she would have sex with them. She never considered a big deal and she didn't even have to like them much. It was her favorite recreation so many men got lucky with her. She has told me that with the right guy just about nothing was off limits. She told me that many have told her she was the best lay they had ever had. I can attest to that fact also, she is great in bed. Very enthusiastic and creative and incredible to look at.
The way she talks about this black dude she fucked, he was the "right guy" and she gave him the full treatment. She told me this morning, "Every moment we were together I was all over his gorgeous black skin. I was very oral and could not keep from touching, kissing and sucking every square inch of him. Once we got naked together I would give him a tongue bath from his full lips, down his strong chest and would kiss and lick and cuck his beautiful cock and balls. I could not wait for him to be inside me and when I laid on my back and looked down as he pushed his bare black cock into my pussy, I always started a wave of orgasms immediately. I would cum and cum over and over again on his cock. He would ride me, expertly stroking until he would cum deep inside me. I was out of my mind honey! Sometimes he stayed hard and would just keep going as I had a constant orgasm. If he got soft I could not wait to have him inside me again so I would go down on him, cleaning our love juices off his cock and balls until he was hard again."
I was stunned at the detail she was giving me this morning. I don't know what brought her to this point where she bared everything to me. She knows this kind of talk does turn me on but her graphic details she gave me did bother me and made me jealous, even after all this time. One thing that did happen today was we made love all morning, a total of 3 times. Both of us was insatiable. She kept up all kinds of dirty talk like:
"Do you like it that I was such a wh*r* for him and was willing to do anything to please him?" and "I came home to you after fucking him for hours. He filled me over and over again with is semen and it just dripped out of me all the way home. I had sat on his toilet and let it run out of me and cleaned up before rushing home but sometimes I was still dripping when I came into the house. I had to run into the bathroom to clean up more before you suspected anything. Sometimes you and I would make love the same night and I was afraid you would notice I had been fucked but you didn't."
Thinking back on it I should have figured it out. I do remember some of those times we made love and something didn't seem right at times. The thing is I was so distracted with work and partying with my friends at the time, I was in some kind of a fog. I do know her telling me about it today has supercharged our lovemaking. She is asleep right now after we just had sex this evening, the 4th time today!
She told me more details than I could hope for today. I will tell more a bit later but before I sign out I want to mention that she confessed something to me that actually caught me off guard. You remember how I said she was lucky she didn't get pregnant? Well, as it turned out she wasn't so lucky. She told me today that at the end of the time of her affair she missed her period. She waited a bit and finally went to Family Planning and they confirmed she was indeed pregnant. She really had no idea if the father was me or him but she had actually as much sex with him as myself for a number of weeks so she arranged a hasty abortion. She could not take the chance of giving birth to a mixed race baby. She never told me about it until today, there are consequences to our actions ladies and gentlemen.

[Tomkat2]

Originally Posted by Brad_Is_Bad

She opens up a bit at a time... if I ask a lot of questions she stops sharing. I've learned the more I want to know, the less I should ask.

I'll probably never know everything, but I think I know what I REALLY need to know.

You never will know when she may open up again and reveal more. My wife can get into graphic details after a few glasses of wine! This sometimes happens years after her experiences, and she had plenty before we met!

[Tomkat2]

Originally Posted by Tomkat2

We are on vacation this week so we had all day to discuss what happened during her affair. Please remember that this happened a number of years ago and up until now my wife had been sketchy on the details.

I told you my wife is very creative sexually and she used her experience with her affair with the black guy to toy with me yesterday when we were making love. As she went down on me she told me, "I'm going to go down on you the same way I went down on my black lover."
She started my kissing me deeply then worked her way down my neck, chest and belly; wetly kissing and licking her way down to my cock. She looks up at me with her crystal blue eyes and tells me, "I looked up at him just like this. I kissed every square inch of his muscular chest. I sucked his nipples like this...I went down so slow, savoring every moment. His smooth black skin looked incredible all shiny wet from my spit"
When she gets to my cock she lightly give it butterfly kisses looking up at me adoringly the whole time. "I did him like this" she says as she licks my shaft and them lifts up my cock with her beautifully manicured fingers and first takes one of my balls in her mouth and sucks it and then does the other. She says, "I did this to each of his big black balls baby" She then lifts up my balls and licks and sucks its underside. When she does this, she briefly licks my anus.
I asked her if she licked his ass and she tells me, "I did whatever he wanted me to do honey."

[coupleak]

I know my wife was a virgin when we started a relationship. She was little over 18 at the time.
However, when I ask about her previous relationships and the things she has done with her boyfriends she always quickly changes subject.
Most I got her to tell was that they never got any further than touching her breasts over her clothing.
BUT, I'm guessing this isn't the whole truth cause she has had a short relationship with a (back then) friend of mine.
He told me back than that did get to see her topless and play with her breasts.
And considering her eagerness to whip out her breasts on our 1st date, I tend to believe him
So that makes me wonder how far some of her other boyfriends got to go.

[qazzy1749]

Originally Posted by Tomkat2

You never will know when she may open up again and reveal more. My wife can get into graphic details after a few glasses of wine! This sometimes happens years after her experiences, and she had plenty before we met!

Well what did she say? Share them with us.

[Tomkat2]

Originally Posted by qazzy1749

Well what did she say? Share them with us.

Look back in this thread. I shared with you folks what she told me about her sexual past. Go to page 11, post #108. That's where I start talking about our relationship and her past before we met. I posted a number of times.