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Originally Posted by Nakedeve
Coming put of our room and acting like nothing is out of the ordinary with my vagina and bum completely exposed not know howbthey would react or what they would say was such a unbelievable turn on...its almost impossible to explain. Adam was fine with it as he accepted me and my ways a long time ago but confessed once everybody went home that that he found it unbelievablely hot because non of pur guests knew how to read but couldn't stop staring at my very naked bottom half! My gf later confessed that my daring behavior was extremely hot and that she and her bf had amazing sex later when they went home talking about how crazy I am! Hope that answers your question....
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It definitely answers my question, thanks!! But now I have more questions! Let me respond first with some curiosity first...and then follow up with a more "boys will be boys" response, lol.
As somebody who is admittedly
really into women being naked, exposed and vulnerable (literally just exposed my best buddy's wife over on another thread --- consensually and for fun, lol). I'm getting pretty interested in my own sexual psychology around this stuff. He and I were recently talking about it.
I know that a lot of the "wife sharing" fetish has to do with the evolutionary underpinnings of "sperm competition." I.e. It turns men on knowing that our partner's are extremely desirable to other men....which drives us to want to fuck them even more. I definitely didn't expect this, but now in my early 30's, there are very few things that turn me on as much as the idea of double penetrating my wife with another guy. If Adam enjoys exposing you (awesome, Adam!), I'd guess sperm competition has something to do with it.
In terms of the more "proximate psychology" I feel like I can also trace my personal fetish for having some degree of control over naked woman's most "intimate moments" to the fact that I didn't really get to see a naked girl until I was 17 or so (not even in porn, really). I think this "slow start" gave me time to fetishize how amazing a naked woman must be. In other words...voyeuring a woman, or seeing naked pictures of her...felt like the only way I'd ever see a girl naked when I was a teenager...so my brain intertwined SEEING a girl naked as something akin to fucking her. Hahah it sounds ridiculous now...a bunch of partner's and 15 years later, but I feel like those might have something to do with why I'm so turned on by it now.
Back to you now!! Do you have any thoughts about where your intense exhibitionism came from? I'm really interested in the female case. I'm sure I could Google, but very interested in your personal experience. Why do you think it turns you on so much? You mentioned that you live in a conservative country. Does that have something to do with it? Is it maybe that female nudity is considered super taboo in your country, and now, as an adult you're exposing yourself in front of horny men who desire you?
Boys will be boys
Okay...please allow me to perv out on you now, lol. What you did is soooo hot! The situation you described putting yourself in...walking out of the room with your vagina exposed....your good friends wide-eyed and shocked....Adam watching you expose yourself....and you feeling incredibly turned on...it's all so hot. Awesome work setting that situation up.
I hope it gives you pleasure knowing how unbelievably turned on you made your male friends. As a "nice guy" with a fair amount of female friends, I can tell you one thing for sure. Straight men (at least the one's with healthy respect for women) have the ability to compartmentalize sexuality. For example...I have a few good friends who are attractive women in their late twenties. I love and respect them completely independent of how attractive they are. However, if one of them decided to send me nudes on a whim....or better yet walk around with their pussy exposed all night

... I'd happily suspend my non-sexual friendship, and think to myself "you dirty, dirty little girl. I'm going to fuck you so good you'll never forget what this dick feels like."
Lolol. I'm guessing this is how your friends thought about you that night. I'd bet my life savings that when they woke up the morning after fucking their girlfriends and talking about you, they went to take a shower and jerked off to the thought of your smile and exposed vagina.
So all in all...you did something really awesome that everyone enjoyed immensely. A win, win win. And as for Adam...I'm jealous of the guy. It takes A LOT of confidence and security to let you be who you are, and enjoy watching you frolick naked in front of your friends. You guys are super lucky to have each other.