Training my sub girlfriend

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I have known my girlfriend for 22 years now, and we have been together for 5. The rest of the time one or both of us was married and faithful, so there was nothing between us, but a long time of building trust.

Now, we are in a very kinky D/s relationship, which some would call TPE, including CNC. She is collared 24/7, and we have both begun to refer to her as being owned by me, although I doubt people in the BDSM community would consider her owned. I decide when and how we fuck, and other than using her safe word, and me avoiding her very few hard limits, she is not allowed to refuse, and is expected to eagerly participate.

This requires a lot more than just telling her what to do, to make it work.

I’m no relationship expert, and outside of the bedroom we have our share of problems. I think most divorced people our age do. I do think I’ve learned a thing or two about D/s relationships, though.

I offer a lot of praise. Daily praise. Praise every single time we fuck.

I keep track of her favorite activities, and include them often, and I tend to only include the activities she enjoys less, when her energy is high, or when it feels appropriate to assert my dominance.

I do often remind her that it is by my choice alone that we are not doing things she enjoys less, and that she is always expected to enthusiastically do those things, anytime I choose.

I pay attention to, and even ask, what words she likes, and what concepts, as well as what actual activities.

For example, she likes to be thanked. She likes to be referred to as my fuck toy, cum sl*t, and anal sl*t, among others. She likes the idea of being “programmed” to enjoy and crave various things, like a brainwashed sex cult member, but she prefers “sexual reeducation” to “training,” because training makes her feel like she isn’t good at what she does.

Currently, her sexual reeducation is focused on three areas, which I move back and forth between as I choose.

1. She is developing her kink for being a shared fantasy fuck toy. This involves tying her orgasms to pictures and videos of her on the internet, telling her how many people have seen her, how many cocks she has made hard, etc., and making her masturbate to those thoughts, often as I stroke my cock and look at her online porn.

2. She is learning to crave cocks. I have decided that her submission to me, and only me, would be more powerful if she genuinely craved cocks. All cocks. Currently, this involves masturbating to cocks she has made hard on this site, and having all of her holes, especially her fuck hole (ass) fucked by cock-shaped dildos. One of her favorite activities is looking at users’ cocks while she sucks mine, and a couple of cock dildos, before I fuck her ass repeatedly with each, requiring her to pay attention to how each feels different.

3. She is learning to imprint on my scent, specifically my ass and balls. She is learning to crave my scent, with the mutual goal of turning this into a powerful kink, or even a fetish, where the smell of my ass and balls will make her mouth and pussy water. I have told her that I want the craving to be so strong that she sniffs my underwear while I am gone, and she has eagerly agreed to that goal.

Before we fuck, I send her long text messages about how I will use her. I do not ask. I tell her what I am going to do to her, and I thank her and praise her for her eager participation.

Here is today’s message (sending right after I post). I will post her reply when I get it.

If this is helpful for other people interested in D/s relationships, or exciting for any non-fiction fans, or fans of my fuck toy, I can add future messages and replies.

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Here is what I sent this morning:

Originally Posted by pagefault

I have truly enjoyed all of our sexual reeducation activities. I want you to know that this is not due to any need for you to improve as my fuck toy.

Quite to the contrary, you have already surpassed any desire or fantasy I ever had for a fuck toy.

The access you have given me to your mind, and your knowing, willing, and eager participation in your sexual reeducation, helping me to program and condition new sexual desires and kinks deep into your fuck toy identity, is an amazing submissive gift, and it makes my cock throw and drip in anticipation. I love the process of programming and building your kinks together.

Thank you for your eager participation in such a filthy, depraved, deeply enjoyable process.

😈💦❤️

Today, you will further imprint on my scent. I was pretty sweaty yesterday, so my scent should be strong.

As before, you will spread my ass, bury your face, and inhale my scent like an animal. Your sexual desires are some of your most powerful, primal urges, and as my submissive fuck toy, it is appropriate for you to tap into them through the animalistic act of sniffing my ass.

This is also appropriate because of the primal nature of your submission. You are learning to tap into your instinctual sexual desires and then offer yourself for my use, like an animal in heat, submitting to both me, and your own desires.

You will bury your face in my ass, to signal to me that you are readying yourself to be used.

You will inhale my ass and allow your sexual excitement to build, as I praise you, and rub my cock. You will inhale my ass and think about what a good little fuck toy you are.

You will then lie on your belly, with your legs together, and spread your ass, displaying your fuck hole.

(This, you may recall, is “First Position.” It is your most important position, because it presents your fuck hole, and only your fuck hole, and allows me to use my legs, and my cock up your ass, to pin you in place while I use you. Unlike Second and Third position, or most other random positions, First Position ensures that you are completely under my control. This position also enables me to use your fuck hole for as long as I choose, without worrying about you getting tired or sore, other than the submissive aches and pains of having your hole held open, and your insides repeatedly straightened out by my thrusting cock.)

I will smell, taste, probe, and photograph your displayed hole. Then, I will bury my cock up your ass, taking more pictures as i enjoy fucking you.

I will pause to take more pictures of your fuck hole as it relaxes, documenting how it responds to my cock.

After I cum, you will spread your ass with your hands, and I will record a video of you pushing out my cock and cum.

If you would like to cum, I will straddle your face and let you inhale my ass while you use the vibrator to get off, directly tying my scent to your pleasure, like a good little fuck toy.

Thank you for being such a wonderful, pliable, open minded, enthusiastic submissive fuck toy, and for eagerly participating in your sexual reeducation. I look forward to years and years of reeducating and conditioning you to enjoy serving me.

😈💦❤️

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This is her response:

Originally Posted by pagefault

Thank you for Your message, Sir. I especially appreciate your praise and clarification that the reeducation is not a reflection of some deficiency on my part, Sir.

Thank you very much, Sir.

I look forward to this morning's playtime, Sir, and pledge to participate with enthusiasm worthy of Your fuck toy, Sir.
I am reluctant to experience the exhaustion that comes after cumming, Sir, but look forward to seeing how play unfolds, Sir, and deciding then, Sir.

❤️💦❤️💦

Thank you again for saying thank you, Sir, it means the world to me, Sir. ❤️🥰❤️💦

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Here is the message I will send my fuck toy this morning. I’m posting it here, first.

I am including her slideshow as well.

Originally Posted by pagefault

Today, I would like to focus on your identity as a shared fantasy fuck toy.

As of this morning, I have been thanked 872 times for sharing you, and the zipped collection I posted has been downloaded 128 times.

As an added bonus for you, one of your admirers commented that he has cum to you, more than once.

These are all people who have rubbed their cocks and pussies, looking at how I use your holes, and what a wonderful fuck toy you are, and thinking about using you any way they would like.

They know every detail of your naked body and fuck parts, and you are permanently displayed for them to enjoy any time they choose, making yourself a 24/7 masturbation toy, for anyone to use, in addition to being my 24/7 fuck toy.

As an eager 24/7 shared fantasy masturbation toy, it is appropriate for you to regularly remind yourself that all of your fuck parts have been captured and displayed in exquisite detail, for anyone to see how your lips look wrapped around a cock, how your pussy drips from serving me, and how easily you take my cock in your fuck hole and how you cum from ass fucking.

It is also very appropriate for you to allow yourself to feel tremendous fuck toy pride as you imagine people rubbing their cocks and pussies as they enjoy your lips and tongue, the soft brown folds of your beautiful fat pussy, and the creases of your fuck hole.

They know your body and your sexuality better than anyone but me; certainly better than any of your previous partners, and they have fantasized about using you in ways none of your previous partners have used you, and maybe in ways I haven’t used you, either.

They also know that I fuck your ass, almost exclusively, saving pussy fucks for special occasions, and they know about your submission and sexual reeducation.

In fact, to help them understand you as a fuck toy, and to more easily use you as their masturbation fantasy, I am going to share this message, along with your response.

Thank you for being such a wonderful fuck toy, and for allowing me to share every detail of your fuck parts and your role as my submissive fuck toy, so that anyone who chooses may enjoy you.

😈💦❤️

This morning, I will play a slideshow of your most popular online pictures next to cocks that have enjoyed you. I have not updated the download counts, which continue to increase, but you can see a recent count on each of the pictures.

You will play with my cock while we watch the slideshow once or twice, and then you will spread my ass, bury your face, press your nose against my shit hole, and inhale like a feral animal. This will help associate my scent with your sexual excitement, although based on you being so unusually wet after sniffing my ass like an animal yesterday, perhaps that association is already solid.

When I decide that you have inhaled my scent enough, we will watch your slideshow again. I will play the slideshow on the TV, and use my laptop to browse your pictures and videos online. I will play with your pussy and stoke my cock while you look at all the ways you have been displayed online, and the cocks that have enjoyed you.

You will allow your mind to wander wherever it will, as your excitement builds. You will give yourself the same freedom to privately enjoy any sexual thought that comes to mind, as you look at your pictures and the cocks that have enjoyed them. I will play with your pussy and praise you, until I decide you are ready to cum.

I will then allow you to scroll through the pictures and stop and zoom and enjoy them however you want, just like so many enjoy your pictures. As you look through the images I have given you, I will use the vibrator to make you cum.

I will then roll you over into first position, and fuck your ass, doing my best to make it ache for the day. If I don’t fill it with cum, I will reward you with a cum facial, allowing you to feel the proof of what a good fuck toy you are, as my cum sprays across your face.

If you would like wear a cum facial with fuck toy pride for the day, I will do my best not to cum in your ass. Otherwise, I will leave it to chance, and cum where and how I want, in the moment.

Thank you for being such a wonderful fuck toy, for allowing me to share you for others to masturbate to, and for eagerly participating in your sexual reeducation.

I am going to send you your slideshow pictures, which I will also post with our messages, so that your admirers will know what you got off to this morning (although only you will know what filthy thoughts made you cum).

😈💦❤️

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The rest of the pictures she will cum to today.

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I apologize for the dick pics. As I mentioned, we are also teaching her to crave cocks, so it is important for this part of her sexual reeducation for her to have a variety of cocks she can clearly see when she cums.

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Looking at all those nice hard cocks adds to the erotica.

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Well, yesterday she didn’t reply, as things came up at the house.

She did bury her face in my ass and then masturbate and cum to the pictures I sent her, as instructed.

I don’t know what fantasies she came to. That’s the only privacy she is allowed as my fuck toy. I think this will help her appreciate what a gift her porn is, and make her proud and excited to create and share a lot more.

I also want to help her get to the point where sick pics make her wet. I used to moderate a dating site, and had to delete tons of dick pics. A lot of women (I won’t say all) really hate receiving them unsolicited. I want my girl to crave them, and get validation from them. So, I have her masturbate to them regularly. Sometimes, when she cums, I will take control of the phone or computer, make her open her eyes in the middle of her orgasm, and make her look at the cock she came to.


I always praise her for being a cock-hungry fuck toy, even though she is still working on becoming one.