If you knew then what you know now

[9inchesrick]

Would you marry the same or what would you have done different?

I know I would have gone different. I believe the day we said "I Do" the pussy zipper was closed. Great lady I married, but thinking about some of the skinny girls in school that had interest have filled out to be stunners makes me wonder what I missed out on.

Curious of others thoughts. To late to change it now.

[DJS1985]

If I knew what I know now, there would be no way in hell I would have married my first wife, she was psycho cheating wh*r* who was also a rotten mother and housekeeper.


On my second wife, she was ok but had way to big of an obsession with cats that she would let do whatever they wanted to the point of being sickening. She gave great head and was a great piece of pussy, but I didn’t know how cat obsessed she was before I married her, if I had known about that I wouldn’t have married her. However if she hadn’t of had a cat obsession, I would have probably stayed married to her.

[Curiouscouple2469]

It’s easy to look back and say “if only I had….”
I too married a great lady that turned out to be twice the woman I was expecting.

However pound for pound she was still the easiest woman to get along with, a great mother to two amazing kids who have grown into amazing parents themselves. Much because of her.

I think if I would have stayed more active with her and not let her get so heavy. Appreciated what we had and not let her get so insecure about herself. We would have been fine. We had issues but minor in comparison to most. 28 years

The two serious relationships since have had there great moments.
however:

One was my true love for sure, that I ran off with but she then ran off with someone else the first time I stood my ground on an issue, so what goes around comes around. 7 years
(She has been engaged three times since so perhaps it wasn’t just me)

The current partner is bat shit crazy…! But I am half a million dollars committed to riding it out and getting too old to start once more. 8 years and counting the days.

Choose wisely, and commit to making it work. The grass may be greener on the other side of the fence - but the shit still needs mode!
Now I’m knee deep in the weeds.

[Shihoin]

....I would have been more appreciative of my first wife.

My current wife is also a nudist; but my first wife was definitely a more uninhibited and playful one - a bit of an exhibitionist, even. She'd sunbathe with her legs open, letting everyone have a good look at her shaven pussy, give people full-body hugs, flirt with friends, etc...

I was younger and didn't fully appreciate her being so open and uninhibited. In hindsight, I should have leaned into it and openly expressed my admiration. There were also more "naughty" situations that could have escalated; but I was too much of a prude back then to see it through (one involving another nudist woman who wanted to fuck us both). I don't know that it would have prevented our eventual divorce; but at least it would have added some much needed "spice" to our marriage.

Today, I can tell my current wife that she should be more uninhibited and let her "shaven pussy shine"; but it falls into deaf ears. I think my ex would have loved hearing that. Oh well...live and learn.

[Menorca]

Sex... is not all, but I think a big part between man and woman.

It is not the same again and again, but I think an older woman knows what her husband wants - and she knows what she wnats for herself.

We have opened our relationship many years ago - and it's wondrful to have sex with my wife and others, and I love she does it with other guys...

[Gnome72141]

I wished I would have realized that it would have been okay to have sex with multiple women and play around a lot before getting married.

That while mental health isn't anyone's fault, it's not shallow to not want to marry someone with extreme mental health issues, regardless how amazing the sex is.

That it's not shallow to prefer women who are in-shape for the sake of overall health and mental health.

If I want to be a nudist, I don't need to apologize for it.

[likemslick]

Let's hear from the ladies.

It takes a LOT of work and sacrifice from both sides to establish a successful, rewarding, long lasting relationship.

[Beelzebozo]

I would have not bothered getting obsessed with a woman who never felt the same. Would have saved some heartache in my early 20's.

Otherwise? might have tried to be more adventuresome with my wife earlier. Had a few conversations earlier. That's pretty much all.

[1michael]

That Question came to my mind many times, my thoughts now the few that I do think about and they gave up on me maybe I should have been better too?
Sometimes we wake up to late, but I have to say that I'm super Happy with All that I have and the entire family!
The only thing is what would have been different if one of the others would have put up with me and make me change for the better when I was going out with either one of them?
Its great thinking about it, but never will ever come out of it, so I guess we only have that once chance to make it right!
Then you remember how many times you blew it!


Nice to know that others had the same thoughts!

[gwm]

I would marry the same woman, no question. 34 years now. I do wish, as someone above said, that I hadn't been such a prude early on. I also wish someone told me how women quit wanting sex and become much less adventurous after they start having kids. I'd have suggested a lot more the first three years. But overall, I'm happy, she works to keep me happy, and she's a great wife and mom, and now grandmother. Plus, she's still pretty hot for a woman in her min 50s. Great legs, not overweight, yeah, I got it good.