Wife sharing #3 with a twist

[countrycouple]

Good evening fellow users of OCC. I will give you guys a little update of how things are going for us and at the end I may have some questions or need some advice or opinions from you guys.*

Ok, let us get started. In our experience of how things work, we generally have better luck finding guys at bars and clubs than online. Most guys online have wives or girlfriends, end up not going through with it, or are not interested, or just want a one time hook up.

Well last week I had an out of state sales order that was going to have to be a couple day trip. My wife wanted to tag along. Originally i was taking a company car with another salesman and staying in a double hotel room with him. But since my wife wanted to go i drove separate and got a separate room.

All three of us drive to our destination the night before and arrive at our hotel room by 6pm. At this point the customers facility is closed so my coworker and I part ways and decide to meet back up at 10 in the morning for business. He heads to his room and my wife and I head to ours.

Upon arriving to our room she kicks her shoes off and gets out her laptop and posts on our dating site that we would consider a one time hook up for the night. It couldnt be ongoing anyway because we are so far from home.

Within the minute she started getting guys asking for our number. About the fourth or fifth guy to message us was a pretty decent looking black guy in his mid twenties that was about a 20 minute drive from our hotel. His name is TJ. We arrange to meet him in the lobby and have some drinks in the hotel bar and see where it goes.

He gets there and he is pretty clean. Not a bad looking guy. Height/Weight proportionate. We order a round of shots and he pays (surprisingly) And begin to talk.

He explains to us how he had never heard of our lifestyle before but would like to explore it. I tell him that he can do whatever he and my wife wanted and i would just watch. He is kind of unsure about having an audience but eventually agrees.

We took him up to our room and i begin to undress Stephanie. I have her raise her arms and take her shirt off and help her get her bra off. "Turn around and show TJ" i told her. She spun around with the most confident demeanor and pressed her tits together and looked right at him. TJ looks at me and says "Wow man, your wifes tits are beautiful."

We both thanked him for his kind words. "Ok babe can you lay down on your back for me?" i asked politely.

She did and she slid her pants off and kicked them to the foot of the bed. "You want to see me rub my p*ssy TJ?" she asked with excitement. He nodded yes.

She pulled her thong off to the side and began rubbing herself and i could see a bulge in his pants growing. He looks over at me while stephanie is playing with herself and has a "May I?" look on his face.

"Whenever you are ready just go for it" i explain, "she will do anything just say what and when." He undresses and goes to her head and she gives him the sloppiest bj i have ever seen. With each bob of her head i can see the pleasure in his eyes as he gets closer and closer to climax. Right before he c*ms he pulls out of her mouth and stops himself.

He walks around to the end of the bed and climbs on it and plants himself right between her spread legs. He pulls her soaking wet thong off and tosses it. He rubs the tip of his d*ck on the outside before he penetrates, but as soon as he enters her, her eyes go back in her head in pleasure with every inch she takes. This guy must have had a lot of stamina because he gives it to her for about 45 minutes straight before pulling out and having her finish jerking him.

We both really enjoyed him but we still dont have a long term guy chosen.

We got back to our home town and we continued our search. They opened a new night club that we will try out when they open next week but we will have to go get her pretty again.

Now for the advice part. How should she dress? I need something that says "I want to be used."

She has acryllic nails with white tips and red toenails. Hair is medium length brown and straightened. She is 5'1 240 lbs and 44DD bra. She wears about a 20 to 22 size in pants and dressed and maybe an xl2 or xl3 top.

We need sexy outfit ideas. Pants, Shorts, Dresses, Shirts, Tops, Shoes (preferably that shows her toes), etc. Any ideas welcome. Website links to online stores are highly appreciated. Thanks in advance!

PS: remember we are going for a "Use me" look.

[countrycouple]

If you guys dont want to comment on the post, feel free to private message us. Im curious to talk with guys on what they like and dislike.

[Couplein2MFM]

If you are going to "vanilla bars" the dress is a little more difficult than going to a lifestyle club or bar.

At Lifestyle places my wife will typically dress in theme for the night. Lingerie, thongs, thigh highs, boots, and just plain naked depending on the crowd. It makes it a lot easier wardrobe wise.

At "vanilla bars" she will typically wear a short dress or skirt with a low cut top. She can match the skirts or even a dress with a pair of fishnet thigh highs and heels or black boots most times. She also normally wears a thong so if she if flirting and trying to get a guys attention she can position herself just right and "accidentally" expose herself.

For us, the "use me" look you are seeking is as much in the attitude as it is in the wardrobe.

For examples here are a few images. We were going out to a bar to meet somebody for a one-night stand pickup for her. The bar we went to is pretty busy with a full alcohol bar, food and a large billiard area that has 30 tables along with games. It is largely crowded with college age single guys which is what she likes. The dress was short enough that without any panties she could easily bend over and show anything she wanted. Needless to say, we did not have to buy any drinks and after an hour she had the pick of who she wanted to bring back home.

Good luck in your venture!

[countrycouple]

Originally Posted by Couplein2MFM

If you are going to "vanilla bars" the dress is a little more difficult than going to a lifestyle club or bar.

At Lifestyle places my wife will typically dress in theme for the night. Lingerie, thongs, thigh highs, boots, and just plain naked depending on the crowd. It makes it a lot easier wardrobe wise.

At "vanilla bars" she will typically wear a short dress or skirt with a low cut top. She can match the skirts or even a dress with a pair of fishnet thigh highs and heels or black boots most times. She also normally wears a thong so if she if flirting and trying to get a guys attention she can position herself just right and "accidentally" expose herself.

For us, the "use me" look you are seeking is as much in the attitude as it is in the wardrobe.

For examples here are a few images. We were going out to a bar to meet somebody for a one-night stand pickup for her. The bar we went to is pretty busy with a full alcohol bar, food and a large billiard area that has 30 tables along with games. It is largely crowded with college age single guys which is what she likes. The dress was short enough that without any panties she could easily bend over and show anything she wanted. Needless to say, we did not have to buy any drinks and after an hour she had the pick of who she wanted to bring back home.

Good luck in your venture!

Thank you so much for your reply. Yeah most of the places we go are just regular old places. No theme or anything. Just a bar and music and pool tables. Sometimes card tables and a dance floor.

I totally understand what you are saying about the attitude part of it. She definitely tries to convey that in her body language and her actions.

We have a dress similar to the photos you postes except it is a little longer and long sleeved. My wife is 5'1 and 240 lbs (BBW) and she gets self conscious of her appearance sometimes. You dont think wearing a dress like whats in your photos is to trashy for a BBW do you?

And do you think the painted toenails with high heel sandals and acrylic white tipped nails seems to fancy? Or would you keep doing it?

I want her to look sexy with the use me look but at the same time not so trashy no guy wants to go near her.

Thanks again!

[Couplein2MFM]

Originally Posted by countrycouple

Thank you so much for your reply. Yeah most of the places we go are just regular old places. No theme or anything. Just a bar and music and pool tables. Sometimes card tables and a dance floor.

I totally understand what you are saying about the attitude part of it. She definitely tries to convey that in her body language and her actions.

We have a dress similar to the photos you postes except it is a little longer and long sleeved. My wife is 5'1 and 240 lbs (BBW) and she gets self conscious of her appearance sometimes. You dont think wearing a dress like whats in your photos is to trashy for a BBW do you?

And do you think the painted toenails with high heel sandals and acrylic white tipped nails seems to fancy? Or would you keep doing it?

I want her to look sexy with the use me look but at the same time not so trashy no guy wants to go near her.

Thanks again!

Honestly, it is all in what she is comfortable with and feels sexy in. We have a lot of friends in the lifestyle of all sizes. She should wear something that she feels flatters her figure because ultimately if she is comfortable and feels sexy then when will portray that confidence to others around.

My wife wears a size 4 or sometimes a 2 depending on the cut and price of the item. The more you pay the smaller the size tag from our findings. One of her best friends wears very similar style outfits in terms of length and she wears a 22-24 and looks incredible in them.

As far as the nails, again it is all about her and what makes her feel sexy and desired.

I think all women feel self conscious of their appearance most the time. They strive for an image of perfect that is unrealistic and unobtainable. When we go out it is always all about her, if she feels desired, wanted and lusted after then the night has been a success with or without her getting laid.

[countrycouple]

Once again, i appreciate your feedback. You are totally right about women feeling self conscious most of the time. Ive been sharing my wife for quite a while and she still gets hesitant sometimes undressing in front of a new guy. I guess we will continue with the high heels, pedicure, and acryllic nails. That really makes her feel sexy. Our last guy really had a fetish for it anyway. And she isnt very tall so the high heels help. Lol. I just didnt know it would be this hard to find a guy to sleep with her. Anyways, the search goes on lol.

Originally Posted by Couplein2MFM

Honestly, it is all in what she is comfortable with and feels sexy in. We have a lot of friends in the lifestyle of all sizes. She should wear something that she feels flatters her figure because ultimately if she is comfortable and feels sexy then when will portray that confidence to others around.

My wife wears a size 4 or sometimes a 2 depending on the cut and price of the item. The more you pay the smaller the size tag from our findings. One of her best friends wears very similar style outfits in terms of length and she wears a 22-24 and looks incredible in them.

As far as the nails, again it is all about her and what makes her feel sexy and desired.

I think all women feel self conscious of their appearance most the time. They strive for an image of perfect that is unrealistic and unobtainable. When we go out it is always all about her, if she feels desired, wanted and lusted after then the night has been a success with or without her getting laid.

[Crankdingo]

Post some different pics of her in different outfits. I'd be happy to weigh in. I think hot can't hide, pretty much whatever the woman is wearing. Give us something to work with here!

[countrycouple]

I think i fixed it so i can get private mesaages from anyone.