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Originally Posted by VivianParker
So I spent YEARS suffering (not really, that’s a strong word) because I had this bullshit hang up about how there was something mistaken with me because intercourse would always chafe (despite being a squirter which makes no sense?) and I was too scared to say anything to my then bf now husband because Iwas TERRIFIED that he would get upset because it meant he didnt arouse me (not true at all). What bullshit, right? Finally I ended up crying to him after he brought up how he was getting sore from friction and now we use lube like it’s going out of fashion and holy shit, what a difference??? Not only is it so much more comfortable, its turned into a whole foreplay thing where we lube each other up and have a great time. Seriously, how did this take so long to happen? Even if you dont have self lubricating issues, give lube a go. Its brilliant. I’m so mad at myself for having such a stupid hang up.
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I think it is great that you opened up about this with us. I hope you past more. On the subject of lube; you will find that there are different Lubes and different times for the different lubes. My woman and I keep different lubes for different occasions. My woman had a hysterectomy a few years ago so she produces very little natural lube. Over the years we learned that all lubes are not the same.
We also learned that though one lube is good for one thing it may not be good for another thing. We have not found any particular lube we do not like. For example, we love coconut oil is a great lube when you are in a pinch but it isn’t best for our marathon sessions. We found that KY jelly is good during a pinch but it does not last as long as Cocoanut oil. We both love the silicon based lubes but we have found you get what you pay for.
The more you pay the better the quality of the silicon based lubes. The silicon based lubes will last much longer and will reactivate when you add water or saliva to it. Sometimes you just do not have the pleasure of having lube at all times. She and I were on a motorcycle ride this past weekend and we stopped on a mountain top to enjoy the view. It was a spur of the moment deal where we started having sex and anyone could have passed and caught us. We didn’t have time to get her juices flowing so it was one of those deals where it was a slam bam thank you mam thing.
After some kissing and getting passionate She dropped her jeans bent over the side of the motorcycle and I was trying to push my cock in but it was too dry so I got behind her and licked her pussy and tried to lube her pussy with my saliva the best I could. Here she is with her pants down and her ass facing the road, a car could drive by at any moment and here I am with my face in her ass. LOL Im sure it would have been a hell of a sight. But the possibility of getting caught added to the moment which made is more fun.
After getting it wet with my saliva, I was able to push it in quit easily. I fucked her from behind as she was bent over the side of my motorcycle looking over a cliff and a road behind us that was possibly going to get us caught. After pumping her hard She came and screamed it out which made me cum because I knew she was enjoying it. We straightened ourselves up without being caught. As soon as she got her pants buttoned a car came by. Without saying a thing, we both looked at each other and laughed.
When it comes to anal sex, she wants the silicone lube. It is the best for her and when it comes to vaginal sex, she prefers water based lube. I have found that the more we pay for “ANY” lube the better it is for me. I hope this helps.
10-09-2021, 06:05 AM
Lube is a gamechanger
