Keeping the missus happy

[Carrie K]

Conversations on here have got me puzzled...

Some wives are happy and confident
Some are insecure or even frigid
What do guys do to build their wife's confidence and self image so they are comfortable sexual partners?

One thing my husband does is framed pics of me on our bedroom wall. It feels good knowing that I'm his poster girl. C.

[Windsorm]

I persuaded her to have a photoshoot. After that she didn’t need much persuading to have two more. Sadly I can’t persuade her to display the photos on the walls. The best I can do is paint pictures from the photos and display them in my den wall.

[Carrie K]

Originally Posted by Windsorm

I persuaded her to have a photoshoot. After that she didn’t need much persuading to have two more. Sadly I can’t persuade her to display the photos on the walls. The best I can do is paint pictures from the photos and display them in my den wall.

Can you post a pic of your painting? That sounds like a romantic gesture!

[Windsorm]

I did it more for myself than for her! I’m really not a good painter but I enjoy it and sometimes I like what I have painted.

The first picture is on my wall. The seam in the middle is because it’s painted on two 20”x16” boards. I thought it was going to be a study but I like it so much I hung it up.

Please don’t feel the need to say nice things, I know how limited my painting ability is.

[Carrie K]

Originally Posted by Windsorm

I did it more for myself than for her! I’m really not a good painter but I enjoy it and sometimes I like what I have painted.

The first picture is on my wall. The seam in the middle is because it’s painted on two 20”x16” boards. I thought it was going to be a study but I like it so much I hung it up.

Please don’t feel the need to say nice things, I know how limited my painting ability is.

I was going to say that your paintings are such a romantic gesture and most wives would be flattered by their husbands expressing admiration like that. But if that's just going to make you feel awkward I'll bite my tongue... ;

[kajuk]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

Conversations on here have got me puzzled...

Some wives are happy and confident
Some are insecure or even frigid
What do guys do to build their wife's confidence and self image so they are comfortable sexual partners?

One thing my husband does is framed pics of me on our bedroom wall. It feels good knowing that I'm his poster girl. C.

I do it in many, many ways. I have a very large framed picture with a special light that shines on it of my wife in my office that is open to the public. I also do it in ways that are unspoken, like the way I hold her hand in pubic when there are other females around or the way I look at her with fire in my eyes in certain situations. In spoken ways, I always try to talk good about her and brag on her in front of friends and business associates when she is or not present. When we go out I will compliment her several times an how beautiful she is. When we go places like the Lake and when she wears a thong bikini I always tell her how much it turns me on.i do it in many other ways also.

[kajuk]

Originally Posted by Windsorm

I did it more for myself than for her! I’m really not a good painter but I enjoy it and sometimes I like what I have painted.

The first picture is on my wall. The seam in the middle is because it’s painted on two 20”x16” boards. I thought it was going to be a study but I like it so much I hung it up.

Please don’t feel the need to say nice things, I know how limited my painting ability is.

Very good work. I wish you could do that for my wife and I.

[rold63]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

Conversations on here have got me puzzled...

Some wives are happy and confident
Some are insecure or even frigid
What do guys do to build their wife's confidence and self image so they are comfortable sexual partners?

One thing my husband does is framed pics of me on our bedroom wall. It feels good knowing that I'm his poster girl. C.

Poster girl.... hmmm i like that. I might need to borrow that idea.

I think i mostly keep my wife happy cooking for her. I cook 90% of the time and try to always make what she likes even if i have to make something special for her, plate it, garnish it and serve it to here like we're at a restaurant. I know thats not what we are talking about here but I know thats what makes her happy everyday.

But to make her happy and confident in other ways, she likes when she catches me staring at her. She'll give me a wink or a " like what you see?" She laughs that im so obvious with my stares, she just thinks I cant be discreet little does she know im obvious on purpose.

But the framed picture idea is awesome. I might need to up my game with that. So what kind of pictures. I need to see examples... for research purposes of course

[Carrie K]

But the framed picture idea is awesome. I might need to up my game with that. So what kind of pictures. I need to see examples... for research purposes of course [/QUOTE]

I can give you a sample, since you ask so nicely ;
Sorry about the glare...

[rold63]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

But the framed picture idea is awesome. I might need to up my game with that. So what kind of pictures. I need to see examples... for research purposes of course

I can give you a sample, since you ask so nicely ;
Sorry about the glare...[/QUOTE]

Wow!!! These are amazing! How many pictures does he have up?

I take it the bedroom door stays closed when you have company over