[Anal] ATM - it never hurts to ask

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After my divorce, I did my best to date "adventurous" women. I made it clear to each that I was only interested in women who were open to regular anal (at the time, I said weekly, which seemed like a dream, but women were surprisingly open to it.

Almost a year into being single, I briefly dated a woman who would ask me to fuck her ass, and would spontaneously jump off my cock and suck it. That was my first real experience with ATM, although I had stuck my fingers in the mouths of a couple of women, after fingering their asses.

That ATM woman was also the one who introduced me to limit lists, and started my D/s experience. Limit lists are a great way to draw out a partner's kinks, even if you're not D/s, because (in my experience) seeing a big long list of kinks, and knowing that there are people who are into each thing (otherwise, why put it on the list?) makes people comfortable sharing their kinks.

Sometime later, I had my first (and only) Tinder hookup, with no intention on her part or mine, to do anything more than fuck. I met her at her hotel, and when we got to her room, she told me to "do whatever I want" to her. I fucked her ass and her throat repeatedly, and she loved it.

So, after those two experiences, I started sharing limit lists with partners before fucking, and I was sure to include ATM. I would point out that I expected anal to be a regular part of our sex lives, and that it seemed kind of limiting, to know that each time I fucked her ass, our play session was about to end. Surprisingly, every woman I asked was open to at least trying ATM, and they all actually did. Of the five, one immediately set it as a hard limit, and the other four had some level of enthusiasm for it.

The second one, I would photograph every time we fucked, One time, my cock was a little dirty when it came out of her ass, so I didn't make her suck it that time. I later showed her the pictures, and told her that was why I didn't make her suck my cock. Shockingly, she said she would have.

She LOVED cleaning my cock, and our play dates often included specific plans for her to clean my cock with her mouth.

The next two women agreed to try ATM, and both said they preferred not to be warned if my cock was dirty. Purely by chance, my cock was clean when each of them tried ATM. The first loved it, and did it regularly. The second said it "tastes like shit" and made it a hard limit.

When the conversation came up with my current girlfriend, I told her about the cock cleaning girl, and showed her pictures and videos. She enthusiastically agreed to allow ATM anytime I fucked her ass, and found that she also LOVES to clean my cock with her mouth.

Now, I am sure my little sample is not representative of most women, since I was already filtering out vanilla partners before we ever fucked, but that is (to me) a startlingly significant number of women eager to try some really filthy activities,

God bless every one of them. It makes me wonder what I could have done if I had the nerve to ask all the women before them.