How do you spice things up?

[Duran Duran]

Recently the wife and I found ourselves in need of a recalibration due to the world throwing a million curveballs at us. So we decided to introduce an all you can drink evening... at home. We had our first last weekend and tomorrow night will be our second. It's not so much for me, but for the wife. Of course she can drink anytime she wants, but by making it an official thing, it makes it far more exciting and something to look forward to. She came up with the idea and loved it last week and is looking forward to it this weekend.

Obviously, the all you can drink concept is really just a cover to allow her to let loose and do whatever she or I please.
Here's how it played out last weekend...
Halfway into her 4th drink: "You like me drunk, because it means you can do anything* you want to me."
Me: "And you don't like it?"
Her: Wicked smile...
That was the key. I knew she was ready and feeling sexy, so we headed up to the bedroom and she sauntered in in her favorite lingerie. She wanted to know which I preferred, her in lingerie or her in nothing. Tough choice, but I told her I'd have to go with... both! We get down to business and ask her (knowing the answer): "What do you want?"
Her: "Anything. You can do anything to me you want."

So I start to run through a list of things. Some that we do, some that we have done, some that we have tried and some fantasies. This is getting her squirming, so we get down to business. We didn't get to half of what we talked about, but that isn't a problem as there is always next time, but the highlights were her breaking free of one of her restraints and masturbating herself, because I had been teasing her too much and a few videos I took of her as she masturbated. I told her she had to keep her eyes fixed on the camera, keep her legs open as far as she could and then tell me how she wants everybody to look at her.

What started off tame, ended in her looking directly at the camera pleading for people to look at her spread pussy as she thrusted it toward the camera in orgasmic pleasure. (this isn't the first time she's uttered those words, but they were said with such conviction and desire that it made them extra sexy). I have hundreds of videos and thousands of photos of her, but this has to be one of the best shot at home videos she's ever done.

Now we're both looking forward to tomorrow night's All You Can Drink at Home party.

* Anything doesn't actually mean anything. It's her anything. It doesn't mean 3somes or showing her face on the net etc. But each time we talk about it, I expend the definition as much as possible!

[Thought30]

Are you fucking serious??
This is the type of video I search and search for (in vain).
I would jack off to this a dozen times.

It sounds like this "Drinky Day" is really working for you guys.
How long have you been together?
(I don't drink or do drugs so this type of loosening up would not be an option for me... )

My wife and I have been together for 30 years and spicing things up just doesn't seem to happen. I have tried directly telling her what i need to make things heat up but it is like there is a block there for her.
Maybe it's the post-menopause lack of hormones, but it is almost as if sex is something she has no*interest* in.
She likes when we do have sex but outside of that she isn't curious or driven to look at other people or porn or read erotica--NOTHING. So, finding a way to get her interested is proving difficult.

I envy you.
(please share more adventures)

[Jess From The Midwest]

I think we still keep it fairly spicy... I Hope that never stops!

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by Jess From The Midwest

I think we still keep it fairly spicy... I Hope that never stops!

What things do you do to keep it spicy?

[carameldelight]

We have a few different ways we spice things up. She likes having her pussy stretched every once in a while so I might bring a beer bottle or a thick cucumber to the bedroom to use on her. She also likes her toys and we have a few of those for when the mood strikes. She often claims to be comfortable in her nude body so I try to get her naked in public as often as I can.

[gwm]

Similar to the OP, my wife was amazing drunk. She grew up in an alcoholic household, so she will rarely drink, but the one time I really got her drunk, we were in a hotel room and it almost like she was a different person! She was saying "Whatever you want to do" and "If you want to cum on my face" (she hates any outside. normally she doesn't even want to touch it) when I did cum on her breasts she smeared it all over, I was amazed! I should have taken the opportunity to have her swallow, but I didn't realize it would only happen once.

But, to spice things up, we recently got our first toys. I got a blindfold and a feather duster and plan to tie her up and use that on her as soon as we get a night with no kids in the house.

[whatnow3]

Lisa and I are coming up on 27 years of marriage and have been together nearly 32. I'm not sure we have ever intentionally spiced things up or maybe look at it a different way. We have just always been open and willing to talk about things that turn us on or fantasies we would like to try or not try. We also don't take it so serious. We are also looking forward to the next stage. Our oldest child who had moved back in after graduating college has recently moved out into her own apartment. Our youngest is in her last year at UW Madison. So being nearly empty nesters opens up new things we couldn't often do. Such as am I am typing this we are watching the Packers/Bears game and Lisa is sitting topless on the couch next to me. Granted she is under a blanket because we have the windows open and it is a little chilly for her.

I think I'm starting to ramble now so I will end by saying communicate with your spouse. It works for us.

[chuckfinly]

We have a verity of adult board games that are fun. I really like the sexy monopoly we have. I do not remember where we got it as it looks different than the one they have on Amazon right now. I like how my wife will do acts that she does not normally do during these games and seems to enjoy it.

[kajuk]

How do we spice things up?
I will get to how me and mine do it but first I want to say I enjoyed reading all of the above. I find it interesting how everyone has their own little thing that turns them on. With everybody having a different psychology and different up bringing and different values (by values I mean some women have hang ups about what they will do and will not do), makes every story different. What will spice up one couple will not spice things up for another couple. That is why I love all of the stories above.

What does it for me and mine; I have written about it about it in in OCC in different forum here are a couple of links:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...8&postcount=77
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...57&postcount=3
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...5&postcount=11

I have had a rich, full wonderful life. Full of action, adventure and sexual exploits. So, it would be sufficed to say it takes a lot to get me moving. But my mind set is on hot wife type situations. That is why the links above are what spices things up for me and mine. I kind of lead her into that and she gladly follows along because she knows it turns me on and she gets off on turning me on. So, after we have been together for a few years and conditioning her for things like what I am about to tell gets us both hot.

A couple of weeks ago I bought my woman a dress and some boots I thought would look good on her. The county fair was going on and I told her to put the dress and boots on with no panties or bra. Here is the pic of her at the fair. She knew what was up. She got dressed and we went. Every once in a while, I would feel her ass through her dress and when we got us a bite to eat at the food truck, we sat down to eat at a picnic table. I got up and went to a position she could flash me without any children seeing. I didn’t care if another man or woman could see. When she flashed me no one could see so I got a good look at her pussy right there in public. When we got on the Farris wheel, I had her hike her dress up and pull her tits out when we were stopped at the top. I loved it and she got off knowing she was turning me on.
After leaving the fair we were not ready to go home so we went to a local bar. The bar had an outside patio so we sat out there. As we drank, she would flash her pussy at me from time to time. At one point She was sitting with her dress above her pussy and her legs spread so I could see it. Because she was tipsy she didn’t notice a man walk by until it was too late. He got a good view. We both laughed and when we got home, we fucked each other’s brains out talking about a strange man looking at her pussy.

[GRITS]

SHORT SKIRTS, HIGH HEELS, ----FUCKING AT HOTEL W WINDOWS OPEN...