Learning Nice Lessons

[karlhein]

This happened a long time ago, when I was younger and less experienced, and there wasn't even an internet to allow sharing of experiences.
I was out with this MILF (maybe 5-10 years older than me, 2 kids, divorced). I had first bedded her as part of an unplanned MFM, and had then gone out with, and to bed with, her solo on one other occasion. She was a bit of a BBW, but seemed enthlustiac, and was more interested in my body than my wallet, which is a good thing as I was a struggling student at the time.
She had remarked, during the MFM that she hadn't cum since she and her hubby had broken up, although she had been to bed with several guys, just couldn't seem to 'find the trigger'.
Anyway, we came home, made out for a while, had gotten naked, and I had eaten her pussy for a while. She liked it, but didn't seem to be making any progress toward cumming. I had to take a pee, so I left her alone for a minute.
When I came back, I stood by the bed, while she sat up and began to suck my dick. At that age, I figured oral was just something that ladies would do as a favor, not that it would do a lot for them, little did I know that some women find it very pleasing to make a guy get rock hard. Anyway, I happily let her suck for a while, then noticed that one of her hands had dropped to her pussy, and was rubbing. Rather than taking the hint that I needed to go down on her more, I just watched, and let her happily keep sucking. This went on for a while, and although I was having trouble concentrating, I could tell that she was getting excited, by her breathing, by her moans, and by the rhythm of her hand rubbing her pussy. Just before I was about to cum, I felt her shudder all over. She stopped sucking, looked up at me, with a very big smile on her face, and said 'I just came for the first time in a year, thank you so much.
I asked her if she wanted to try for another one, to which she smiled, laid back, and said, 'fuck me, long and slow'. Doing exactly as she asked, I entered her, noticing that her pussy was much wetter than when I had been with her before, and that her fingers were still on her clitty, and still moving. I had to work to hold back, her pussy felt really nice and I had never watched a woman finger herself either, but she got to a second orgasm,
just as I began to spurt into her very wet pussy.
It was a good night, I was young, so I could get hard quickly and cum repeatedly, and she hadn't cum in a year, and was making up for lost time. I learned that giving head isn't always just a favor, and that ladies like to 'rub one out' almost as much as I did.

[stevezr1]

Originally Posted by karlhein

This happened a long time ago, when I was younger and less experienced, and there wasn't even an internet to allow sharing of experiences....................................... .....
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.................., but she got to a second orgasm,
just as I began to spurt into her very wet pussy.
It was a good night, I was young, so I could get hard quickly and cum repeatedly, and she hadn't cum in a year, and was making up for lost time. I learned that giving head isn't always just a favor, and that ladies like to 'rub one out' almost as much as I did.

I think Karl needs to publish a book on how to please a woman.... and/or, how to "read" a woman.....
I'm serious.. !!
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[karlhein]

Stevr1......wish I knew enough to write a book, still doing the research for it, wish I had known then what I know now.
Suffice to say, I gained a new appreciation for the pleasure that ladies take out of giving pleasure. As a young man I was way too focused on trying to 'make them cum' by using my skill set to pleasure them. Beginning with this very nice MILF, I learned that the best way to excite them was often to respond to them trying to excite me.

I didn't have a real long term thing with this lady, age difference was too big, and I had no interest in a ready made family, but she taught me a lot, and I am proud that I was there when she rediscovered her ability to have orgasms. For a while, we fucked like rabbits, in all sorts of places, all sorts of positions, most beginning with her stroking me or blowing me. Turns out that her best orgasms were from being eaten or fingered, after she had warmed me up by sucking me off. Later, I learned to put a ladies hand on my hard cock, which always seemed to raise their temperature several notches, something I learned from this nice MILF.