How to trick your wife to reveal secrets

[peter51]

We have been married for many years and I suspect that my wife has had sex with other guys a few times during our marriage. Maybe not directly cheating but more like party flirting that led to something. When I ask her, she dismisses the whole thing and closes up like an oyster. How can I trick her to tell me what she has been up to?

[scott794]

I have found that by letting my wife know how much it turns me on about her with other guys, usually during foreplay, I can get her to tell me all I want to know. I am sure it is kind of the****utic for her to relive it.

[coupleak]

What @scott794 said, combined with lots of alcohol 😁

[1michael]

My wife and I weren't trying to trick each other into telling what each of Us did before we got married, but when the home nest is Empty and that playful spark is just glowing - Its time to add some Spice into any married life!
Sitting around the kitchen table and telling our naughty dark secrets that maybe your would never tell a soul or just a real close friend?
We both found it interesting and exciting for both of Us just being open minded about anything sexual and what we have done or have wished to do!
My wife knows that my attraction to her came from hearing a story from 2 guys in my buddy's BAR that got to meet my wife before me and that she did oral on them but on different occasions, but stopped while doing it to tell them they could CUM in her mouth and she'll swallow it!
My wife found it interesting and I was embarrassed telling her this too, but the 1st girl that did Oral on my cock let me CUM in her hand! But after she wanted to Kiss me, but I kept my distance away from her mouth cause she just had my cock in there!
I told her that I went out with that same girl many times cause I enjoyed her doing oral on my cock, but I just couldn't Kiss her after it!
I told my wife it wasn't till I got to enjoy eating some pussy, that my thoughts on it changed since those girls still wanted to Kiss me and do some tongue swapping even after I was eating their pussy!
My wife told me that if I would have done that to her after she sucked my cock, it would have been our Last Date!
But getting back to finding out more about your wife or GF, telling the Truth I find is the Best!
The thing is you never know what to expect when you tell her you want to see her enjoying another guy, the she comes back saying she wants to see you with another girl too!
There still might be small secrets not revealed, but stuff your guessing about~
I believe that my wife was doing a 3 some with our neighbors before I got involved, because going over their house for our 1st time just seemed too Easy for my wife and she was too forward into playing with the neighbor guys cock and doing a girl or girl thing that she never talked about!
But I'm still Ok and wish that we both started this up sooner!
Maybe till help You out or not?

[Hornyinde]

Agree with what the other guys say. A little alcohol, plus directed foreplay, with you telling her how it turns you on. It’s amazing how getting a woman close enough to orgasm, then backing off will open her up. I know that’s bad, but the end result is worth it.

This is something that takes time. Getting lucky the first time is unrealistic. A little at a time, sometimes backing off for a while before trying again.

What I also did was build some sexy roleplay into our sex routine. Tell her you want her to play a horny wife at a party and you’ll play a horny husband also at the party. If it isn’t “her” and “you” she may open up. Mine did. I saw how hot she got pretending she was another wife. She was saying all sorts of stuff as I pounded away about not telling her husband how good it was. Hmmm.

Other scenarios based on what you think may have happened also will work. We also did some scenes with her meeting a guy while out shopping and giving him a blowjob in his car, or going to a local hotel.

Whenever we travel and stay at a hotel, we do one where she goes to the bar first and I come later and “pick her up” and we go to a room.

Good luck and let us know the results.

[shower1000]

Not a trick, just a way of letting her stories come out easier.

Over the years my wife, Julie, has either been exposed to or has personaly had many interesting sexual experiences. Many before we were married, but a few after. And I have to point out that she has had vastly more of these experiences than I.

She normally doesn't like to initiate discussions about her past escapades, but she also doesn't believe in having any secrets between us. So when the mood is right and she is properly asked she has no problem recounting each event in great detail. And she also knows that it is a big turn on for me to hear her describe exactly what she did and how she felt while doing it.

Being lifelong nudists, on a lazy afternoons we like to lounge nude in the back yard and relax. We talk while I lightly massage her body and legs, front and back. Then we'll play cards or scrabble and enjoy some iced tea. But If the mood is right and I wish to hear some stimulating stories, I'll break out her inhibition eliminating elixir - Rum & coke. The good Captain Morgan aged rum. I start her off with a weak one, then follow it up with a with a double.

Then, if on cue, she will start relating stories ranging from simple flashing, pubic grooming, blow jobs, eating pussy, fucking, to watching and assisting other couples fucking. She leaves out no details. We are going to be posting more of her stories on other threads. But for now one of her stories is here:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...postcount=1137

Another related story from her past:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...1&postcount=27

More stories later.

[Menorca]

I simply confronted my wife, when she was still my girlfriend, with facts that I partly knew and partly only suspected. I told her about it and asked her to comment.

After initially denying it, she told more and more, bit by bit, until she finally admitted everything. These past sex stories turned me on, especially when she once cheated on me, which she slowly but surely admitted more and more.As a young girl, when we were not yet together, my wife was not without certain charms.

She didn't necessarily go to bed with everyone, not always on the first night, but it did happen from time to time.
She had intimate contacts with six boys before me, and some more grabbed her breasts and pussy and gave her Orgasms. and also brought the men to orgasm and masturbated in front of them.

At that time we had a large circle of acquaintances, some of whom exceeded one another.

She got into bed with one of my best friend once during our relationship and cheated me sone time.

I was sick, had a bad case of the flu, and my boyfriend had come to visit me. I was too exhausted to have a conversation and asked him to go out with my girlfriend so she wouldn't have to look after me all the time.

I knew she found him very attractive and he liked her very much too. They went to the cinema first, had a drink afterwards and then drove to his apartment..

Some time later I jokingly asked my boyfriend if she was good in bed with him. He blushed, stammered a bit, then said that the two of them had sex together that evening.

One day later I asked her what she has done that evening with him and told her, I know everything.

"We just went to the cinema and then had a drink. Then we went to his place and I stayed there in another room."

"Do you kiss him?" - "Yes, a goodnight kiss! Completely harmless!"

"On your mouth and with tongue?" - She blushed and whispered: "Yes, at our mouth, and then he pushed his tongue into me!"

"Did he touch you? Don't lie, I know everything!" - "Yes, he caressed my bottom - over my pants! That was all!"

"Did he touch your breasts? Tell the truth!" "Yes, he caressed her over my shirt!"

"Liar! He took off your shirt and since you weren't wearing a bra as usual, he saw your tits and kissed and caressed them. Admit it!" - "No, never... Well, yes - he touched me when I was out of my shirt. I couldn't stop it!"

"Of course you got horny! I know that you like him and that he admires you a lot too!" - "Okay, yes, I'll say everything now! Even if you'll be mad."

I became very jealous, but also really horny. "Tell me everything. Every detail! Don't leave anything out." "Then he unzipped my pants, pulled them down and put his hands under my panties!"

"Continue," I urged her and began to masturbate my hardened cock. "I was so hot, pulled down his pants and underwear and started masturbating him."

"And further?" "He want I masturbate in front of him and took photos of me when I did it!"

"You sl*t! You wh*r*! And then?" - "He stroked my pussy, licked my clit and pushed two fingers into my c*nt!"

"And did you come? How often?" "Yes, not just one Orgasm - especially when he licked me!"

“Did he fuck you after that?” "Yes, and I wanted it - without a condom! I loved the way he cum inside me!"

With this intimate description I came while jerking off. I was just as horny as she was back then. My penis didn't get any smaller.

"And did you blow him too?" "That's part of it! Yes, and I swallowed his sperm! And I had another orgasm in the process! And so that you don't have to ask - yes, we also had anal intercourse, which I don't really like. And it was class!"

I was so hot that I fucked my girlfriend hard several times afterwards. And she came a few times too.

That was the only time she cheated me back then. But we alle - my friend, she and I enjoyed it very much...

[piecenick]

I thought I knew all of my wife's secrets since we've been married a long time. One night I was teasing her a little while we were in bed, she was reading one of her romance novels or "Clit Lit" as they are called. I was driving her a little crazy, edging her then pulling away. For fun I asked her when was the last time another guy saw her tits or pussy, I thought I knew the answer because we had a 3some with another guy a few years ago. She absolutely surprised me when she said it was about two weeks ago,

We are over 70 and have not talked about doing any hotwife adventures in years. She is still in great shape for her age, but have not actively pursued anyone in quite a while. My wife is a writer and had had many of her short stories and poems published, she is active in this writers online forum, writers meet online and discuss their work and make suggestions to each other. It's about 50/50 MF, most of the people are half of her age.

Some of them write stories of an erotic theme, she said sometimes one of the guys will contact her directly, more than a few times they chat about sexual stories, she gets aroused he gets aroused and it moves to video mutual masturbation. She said it has always turned her on to know she is giving some guy half her ago an erection, and if she can make him cum, she does too.

I asked her if she ever wanted to meet one of them in person, she said the thought has occurred to her, but except for a couple of exceptions, they all live far away, some overseas. One of the exception lives fairly close by, he has described how he wants to fuck her and that makes her cum. I told her if she ever wants to meet him in person, let me know, I'll let it happen.