Young first timer needs guidance / advice / posts log

[robcollar]

Hello there,

My name is Robert and I just turned 25, my girlfriend Luiza is 22 years old and turns 23 this spring. She is my 3rd girlfriend and I'm her second boyfriend, although I had the luck to be the first one to strike. We are together 5 years now and to be honest it gets boring sometimes.
She is really good looking, we laugh all the time together and would do everything I tell her but she never takes control, always seems ashamed even to the point I sometimes ask myself if she knows how amazing she looks. She gets hit on often but seems to get angry or ashamed on every try someone starts. Actually I thought this would be nice but it feels like it had two sides. On one hand I don't have to worry about obvious things, on the other hand I have a beautiful girlfriend that I can't show off. Like, I always wanted to have the feeling that everybody wants what I have, but only I get it. Hard to explain.
I told it to her many times, yet she couldn't change it because she simply is too shy but she says she is totally open for any idea.

After some time searching the web, we came across this forum at some point. I've read into this whole sharing with other guys thing and I was shocked at first but the longer I read through the more it sounded hot to me. Now, I can't just simply let another guy fuck her because that seems really too much for me and for her even more but I would love to do everything else but this.

So, as two persons that are totally new to this, we thought of creating a thread that lets us collect ideas step-by-step and probably turns out exciting. We just want to see how it goes and then move on and try more and so on, because it seems a risky thing to do in terms of relationship. Also, people on here probably have a lot more experience and can give us tips or advice. We will also use the thread to post every progress to get more tips or simply as a turn-on for whoever likes it. Or maybe some day a couple is at the same point and can even profit from it, who knows? Our only rules are: no one that we know may know about it and nothing happens that both aren't okay with.

From what I can tell, best way would probably be to start off with revealing clothes/risky clothes. I thought of something like shirts that fall low or skirts/dresses or clothing that is semi-transparent? Probably anybody knows good locations or maybe situations that we can start the exposure? She says she would feel stupid doing it so preferably something that makes people think it wasn't on purpose.

I know there are many requirements we are no native english speakers and it's maybe more complicated than it should be, hopefully someone will have the patience anyways. I will post any outcome/result and progress here.

Thank you all!

[nudony]

Sounds like you should be reading Maren's post. In it is a nice collection of ideas suited for your purpose:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/showthread.php?t=215636

[Plumbus]

I am now getting old but in my youth I did expose myself in many ways and have no regrets about having done so. In fact I would recommend it to you as being a great marital aid and stimulating to your relationship. There are many ways to do this and I think I tried most of them including modelling and appearing on stage nude. I have written about this in some depth on this site and will not bore you with going through it again. Try to look at 'on becoming a nude model' in this section.
Once you have done one 'flash' or the like it becomes easier and after all you are only showing what nature provided you with and you need have no shame in sharing it with others, particularly if you look good but even if you are not happy with your looks just try. The expression 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' is so very true and it was not until I showed my body to others that I came to appreciate it myself.
Try just a few topless shots to start with or just some revealing garments. Maybe a nude from the back or wearing a mask but above all get used to showing yourself to the camera. It will flatter you and later when your are more confident take a plunge into nude sun bathing where you can be seen or a visit to a naturist beach where everyone is nude and you would feel out of place wearing any clothes.
If you want any further help feel free to e.mail me on the messaging service on here.
I attach a few pictures of myself that might stimulate you into having a go. God gave you the body of a woman so show it to the world. You need not worry about being seen because the best place to hide nudes is amongst lots of other nudes and there are plenty on this site.

[robcollar]

Originally Posted by Borracho100

One thing you could do as a starting point that isn't too risky or obvious would be to provide Luiza with some nice lingerie including a suspender belt and lace top stockings (if she doesn't have these items already) and a dress or skirt that is long enough to just about cover the tops but would provide a little flash of her stocking tops or suspender straps if she sat down, bent forwards or if the wind caught her dress etc.

We haven't got the right event coming up for wearing this kind of stuff unfortunately. My girlfriend and I have taken a course in basic massage therapy one or two years ago. I posted an ad on a local site that says "Professional massage for a good price" where it sounds more like a male person is the therapist so I probably get "normal" people to respond. And two women and one guy, 47 years old, responded until now. We bought some relaxing but revealing casual clothing, I will attach the image of a similar set of clothes so you get a picture of it. It's basically a thin legging, a simple thong so it's not too obvious and a loose shirt that covers her ass and crotch when she stands but will reveal when she bends over. We will place stuff in the front either high up or down on the floor so the guy gets a few good views. She will either wear it with no bra or with one, depending on how she feels about it right before. Right in the last moment I will tell him that I can't massage him for some reason and my girlfriend will offer him her "amateur" massage just so he didn't come along for nothing and I will be agreeing and excusing myself and offering to not charge anything at all. I think that should work out, we are excited at least and I will of course post how it went.

Originally Posted by nudony

Sounds like you should be reading Maren's post. In it is a nice collection of ideas suited for your purpose:

Thank you, I have read a little into it and there is a lot of useful stuff in there.

Originally Posted by Plumbus

There are many ways to do this and I think I tried most of them including modelling and appearing on stage nude.

This is a few steps too far but it definitely sounds hot. My girlfriend appreciates the idea and even more what it takes to do it but she can't do that atm, she said.

[collector5757]

"From what I can tell, best way would probably be to start off with revealing clothes/risky clothes. I thought of something like shirts that fall low or skirts/dresses or clothing that is semi-transparent? "

Robert, you have the right idea here; there is no need for an overly elaborate plan or special event. Take your girl out to a restaurant or bar, have her wear a low cut blouse, a blouse with an extra button or tow undone, or a semi-sheer top (with something over it to be opened later). Nothing underneath. Look for a place with lots of male staff, then during dinner or drinks have her discreetly adjust her blouse to provide a nice view to your server or bartender and enjoy your evening! The key is for her first exposures is to look relaxed, accidental. That can be fun to practice at home so she'll know how much is showing.

If she wears something transparent under a jacket or sweater it's easy for her to open it a little or a lot depending on your surroundings and audience.

Good luck and take photos before, during and after. If you get an interested server and she is feeling bold, have him take your photo at the end of the evening. And of course, let us see!

[Omega88]

"Accidental" exposures can happen anywhere at any time, so no need for any special events. Anytime Luiza goes out, whether with you or on her own, there is the potential for some sexy fun. And no special clothes are needed, though some lend themselves to greater opportunities than others; while a "turtleneck" shirt has limited chances for downblouse, it is perfect for going out braless... maybe with a jacket or front button sweater [jumper] layered over it. Same for semi-sheer tops under another layer. Even a front button shirt can have 1 or 2 extra buttons undone accidentally, or maybe the threads partially cut so a critical button pulls off, or a couple buttonholes are slightly enlarged so the buttons will not hold very well and there is nothing Luiza can do and she would not even "know" that she was maybe showing a little more. Obviously shorter skirts / dresses lend themselves to simple flashes, but so do wrap style skirts / dresses / tops, and front slits in skirts / dresses which can show a bit of thigh with each step and the sides fall back whenever she sits, or not if she does not want them to. My wife has a conservative looking knee length wool skirt she wears to work that has a front center slit that effectively can make the skirt into a ~ 23 cm miniskirt. Add in high heels [high heel boots are best] and stockings [hold up or real] and it looks very demure but can be very hot...

If Luiza works or takes classes these things can happen all day and be innocent accidents so no one she knows would form a negative opinion, though most males and some females are going to really like what they see. Any time going shopping, taking a bus / train / tram to wherever and going out with you are opportunities. Going to other areas than near your home / work will make it easier to go a little further in revealing Luiza's beauty to others.

Most importantly, going slowly and above all making certain you both are having fun and enjoying this are the best ways. Let us know what you do. Good luck!

[Plumbus]

Originally Posted by robcollar

We haven't got the right event coming up for wearing this kind of stuff unfortunately. My girlfriend and I have taken a course in basic massage therapy one or two years ago. I posted an ad on a local site that says "Professional massage for a good price" where it sounds more like a male person is the therapist so I probably get "normal" people to respond. And two women and one guy, 47 years old, responded until now. We bought some relaxing but revealing casual clothing, I will attach the image of a similar set of clothes so you get a picture of it. It's basically a thin legging, a simple thong so it's not too obvious and a loose shirt that covers her ass and crotch when she stands but will reveal when she bends over. We will place stuff in the front either high up or down on the floor so the guy gets a few good views. She will either wear it with no bra or with one, depending on how she feels about it right before. Right in the last moment I will tell him that I can't massage him for some reason and my girlfriend will offer him her "amateur" massage just so he didn't come along for nothing and I will be agreeing and excusing myself and offering to not charge anything at all. I think that should work out, we are excited at least and I will of course post how it went.



Thank you, I have read a little into it and there is a lot of useful stuff in there.



This is a few steps too far but it definitely sounds hot. My girlfriend appreciates the idea and even more what it takes to do it but she can't do that atm, she said.

If she would like to talk direct to me feel free to make contact.

[shoeripoff6]

I good start is go out with a skirt and no panties. Or get her to ease them off and pass them to you over dinner in a restaurant

[Plumbus]

Maybe the poses that I suggested in 'don't die wondering' were a bit too revealing for her first time. I attach some more modest garments and poses for you both to consider.
One must not loose sight of the fact that the object is to reveal more of your beautiful lady whilst making her comfortable with the whole situation. If, as you say, she is lovely enough tell her and compliment her on her poses and tell her that she looks not only beautiful but also appealing or even a bit sexy, Like a top model.

[robcollar]

Originally Posted by Plumbus

If she would like to talk direct to me feel free to make contact.

That's an offer I will come back to, thank you very much Plumbus! If you ever feel like exposing yourself to young guys just for the thrill or to get the reaction, I have quite some friends I can send quite some stuff to and most of them are my age, just hmu

Originally Posted by Plumbus

If, as you say, she is lovely enough tell her and compliment her on her poses and tell her that she looks not only beautiful but also appealing or even a bit sexy, Like a top model.

She is sexy and I tell her that all the time. I think she knows how much guys desire her since she gets constantly hit on but she reacts ashamed to that or angry maybe. The goal is that she has enough self-confidence to show that she is a bad girl - still only my bad girl. And we both like the idea so that's what we are going for.

Our first experiment was a lot more acting than expected but it was so much fun and I'm so proud of my girl. Everything went super fine which is a big relief for both of us since we had loads of worries before but it really was pure fun and the sex afterwards was great, she just stayed in her role which was amazing and I told her that I liked that especially!