Discussing sexy things

[busgusti]

As I've mentioned in the past, my wife has a twin sister endowed with a lovely set of breasts.

One of my first experiences seeing them was when she came over to our house to try on some clothing, including a bra. I recounted this tale in the "Ever see something you shouldn't have" group.

This was many moons ago and as time went by my sister in law became progressively more comfortable in my presence. Trying on clothes, or just changing, was no issue. She wouldn't hesitate to whip off her shirt if she needed to change.

But what I'd like to write about here is actually not the trying on as much as the discussing of her garments, specifically under-garments...even more specifically bras.

With the aforementioned comfort level came a new openness. My sister in law would be over at our place and might mention that she got a new bra which would lead to an entire discussion about said bra.
On other times she might say that she needed to get some new bras and discuss that, or talk about specific characteristics she did or didn't want her bras to have. Color, cup, strap size, underwire, decorations etc. etc.
It came to the point that I knew her preferences and could recognize, although she was wearing a shirt, which bra she might have on.

Let it be clear that this did would only happen with my wife present, it was never something she'd do if my wife wasn't there.

I don't think my sister in law ever realized how much these conversations aroused me - to her it was just another item of clothing she was discussing. Granted she might not discuss the topic with other men but with me, given the familiarity and comfort level, she didn't mind. And again, she wasn't really discussing it with me, she was discussing it with us: her sister and sister's mate who just happened to be present.

Anyhow, I got many hours of titillation out of it and even some fun experiences when she would show her sister, with me present, a new bra she bought.

If anyone has any similar experiences, if love to hear about them.

[moosered6]

Originally Posted by busgusti

As I've mentioned in the past, my wife has a twin sister endowed with a lovely set of breasts.

One of my first experiences seeing them was when she came over to our house to try on some clothing, including a bra. I recounted this tale in the "Ever see something you shouldn't have" group.

This was many moons ago and as time went by my sister in law became progressively more comfortable in my presence. Trying on clothes, or just changing, was no issue. She wouldn't hesitate to whip off her shirt if she needed to change.

But what I'd like to write about here is actually not the trying on as much as the discussing of her garments, specifically under-garments...even more specifically bras.

With the aforementioned comfort level came a new openness. My sister in law would be over at our place and might mention that she got a new bra which would lead to an entire discussion about said bra.
On other times she might say that she needed to get some new bras and discuss that, or talk about specific characteristics she did or didn't want her bras to have. Color, cup, strap size, underwire, decorations etc. etc.
It came to the point that I knew her preferences and could recognize, although she was wearing a shirt, which bra she might have on.

Let it be clear that this did would only happen with my wife present, it was never something she'd do if my wife wasn't there.

I don't think my sister in law ever realized how much these conversations aroused me - to her it was just another item of clothing she was discussing. Granted she might not discuss the topic with other men but with me, given the familiarity and comfort level, she didn't mind. And again, she wasn't really discussing it with me, she was discussing it with us: her sister and sister's mate who just happened to be present.

Anyhow, I got many hours of titillation out of it and even some fun experiences when she would show her sister, with me present, a new bra she bought.

If anyone has any similar experiences, if love to hear about them.

Yes, it's always fun when you're comfortable with a group of friends or individuals (or SIL in your instance) and they're okay sharing more information like that with you.

In college, I always enjoyed playing drinking games with my wife and our friends and sometimes the drinking game would ask about the color of underwear you were wearing. Like one of those card games where you draw a Truth/Dare or similar on a phone app. Obviously pretty low-key, but I found it sexy to hear one of my wife's good friends who I'd known forever say that she was wearing something red, pink, gray, black, etc. Usually another friend would chime in and ask what kind or maybe (if I was lucky) ask to see. That would lead to saying "oh, just a gray thong.." or pulling a brief thong strap up out of their jeans for a quick glance.

Very low-key, but incredibly sexy from friends who you never experience anything sexual with.

[coupleak]

Interesting topic 🙂

My wife and I regularly have some interesting discussions that do turn me on. Often about clothing my wife is going to wear on special occasions and how daring/exposing it might be. Including braless outfits.
Other conversations are about other people and how they look/dress and how they would look naked. Also who might be interested in going to the sauna with us (cause it would be fun/interesting to find other people to join us, besides her sister and BIL)...or even other nude/fun if that ever were to happen.

One of the most sexy discussions I ever had was with wife, her sister and BIL. The 4 of us were away for a long weekend of hiking. The cabin we had rented also had a big sauna. So while the 4 of us were sitting in the sauna, my BIL and I were discussing how well our wife's looked alike. Similar shape of breasts, ass and pussy, though size did differ. Our wive's were even opening their legs to to give us a better view. Our wive's in the meantime where discussing how best to keep their pussy lips smooth. They both normally use a razor, but that time I had shaved my wife's pussy smooth using a shavette. They even went as far as having a feel to compare smoothness (which my wife won). It was the 1st and till now last time such a conversation took place, but I still remember it vividly. And both our wives remember vividly both guys getting hard🙂

[toonzilla]

A couple times a year, my family and my best friend's family get together to cook out and chat about life. My friend's wife is a very conservative religious type. The last time we got together though, she completely took us off guard by talking about a co-worker that was sure that she'd had her breasts enlarged. I was turned on by the conversation but kept that to myself. The hardest part, though, was trying not to look when she was talking about her breasts.

[whatnow3]

I mentioned this a while ago in a different thread but it still sticks in my mind. One Christmas day at my mother in law's the family was gathered before opening presents. I was sitting near two of my sister in laws. They were the one's upcoming trip to Cancun, talking about bikinis and such. And then their conversation veered to waxing and that's when I found out the one sil was completely bare down there and the other has a landing strip, much like my wife. Then they remembered where they were and how near I was and started laughing about over sharing with me.

[1michael]

I'm never surprised on having any Sexual and open minded conversations with my wife!
One that I remember plenty of time cause we still have meeting with her old girlfriend from growing up and pics that her GF's mom took at their Cottage!
As a younger woman growing up, my wife went to her GF's folks Cottage with the 2 older brothers and knowing they had lots of family living in the same area on a full time basis!
The shocker for my wife at the time was her 1st visit to the Cottage that her parents allowed her to go and stay for about a week knowing they were on a Lake and it was plenty of family there!
But arriving there the family came out to greet all of them and to my wife's surprise, they were All NUDE!
She didn't know, nor was told they were al Nudist there!
After going inside their Cottage the GF's mother came over and had a long private talk to my wife ( she wasn't my wife at the time and I didn't know her then too! ) and explained to her their way of living out there and all the things that were involved with Nudist!
My wife was given the choice of keeping her clothing on, or going as all the rest - NUDE!
Seems like my wife didn't want to stand out, so she went for going NUDE and being with them she told me it didn't feel bad or anything like it and she didn't even think about it after awhile!
The one main thing my wife noticed and told me was plenty of times the older brothers and dads would be around doing whatever and they would have growing bobbing cocks or full erections!
I guess this caught the attention of the GF's mother, so she had more of a private conversation with my wife telling her it was Only a spontaneous reaction and not to pay that much attention to it cause it'll go away naturally or with help!
My wife told me that she seen more Help given out to the guys, then going away natural!
She even told me that she was with her GF when she helped out and with more to handle or to be taken care off that my wife didn't want to be left out and Helped out there too!
Now when my wife's GF come over the house and we're sitting around talking, it might be my wife that brings up the subject and it'll bring a surprised look on her GF's face hearing that I know about it and I'm OK with it!
Then plenty more of the amazing sexual stuff comes out about what happened at the Cottage that I never heard about and later having the GF join us in the Hot tub while we're all NUDE is great except I get the Spontaneous erection and they both took care of it for me!
We knew that since the GF lived a Nudist life, going NUDE in the Hot tub with Us wouldn't be a problem!
I did find out or learned that she was great at doing Oral and enjoys all the parts or features on a cock! lol
We all did plenty of laughing in the Hot tub while all of this went on!

[rudolfm]

Originally Posted by toonzilla

The hardest part, though, was trying not to look when she was talking about her breasts.

Wasn't the hardest part in your pants? 😆

[Natalie Banus]

Enjoying this topic, thanks to everyone for sharing their stories!!! :-)

On similar lines, and as I've mentioned elsewhere, I work with a number of young women (20s - 30s) who I get on well with, as well as socialising with. We have group discussion about a number of non-sexual topics, both verbally and over Teams chats.

One thing that really turns me on, is wondering what they're like down below....
Full hairy pussy, landing strip, bald etc.....And trying to get them to "reveal" their regimes/preferences...

Obviously I don't want to appear "creepy", (Ha! Ha!) so I've been wondering if anyone had any thoughts on how this type of subject matter might "innocently" be introduced into our discussions??
Any help/suggestions gratefully received!!!

[rudolfm]

@Natalie, your name would let me assume you're a woman? If so, just ask the ladies.

If you're a man, talk about a European spa, a clothing optional beach, or something like that. If that goes right, then talk about how many ladies shave. Don't ask, let her tell.
If all is reallly conservative, talk about the gym or pool. Then say you were surprised that in the locker room you saw some men shave. Even Karen might be curious about the mens lockers. Tell her you thought about it. Let her ask, then ask back.

[Natalie Banus]

Originally Posted by rudolfm

@Natalie, your name would let me assume you're a woman? If so, just ask the ladies.

If you're a man, talk about a European spa, a clothing optional beach, or something like that. If that goes right, then talk about how many ladies shave. Don't ask, let her tell.
If all is reallly conservative, talk about the gym or pool. Then say you were surprised that in the locker room you saw some men shave. Even Karen might be curious about the mens lockers. Tell her you thought about it. Let her ask, then ask back.

Thanks for the suggestions!!
I'm actually a bloke!!
My user name is a tribute to one of the first UK Page 3 girls that used to "excite" me!!! (Check her stuff out if you get the chance!!)

Yeah, maybe I'll open up the discussions with some general, low key chat. I'm just back from a holiday, so that could be the perfect "in"!!!
Would really love to get her talking about what her preference is. Although I'm comfortable with all pussys, the thought of her revealing she has a landing strip would really tip me over the edge!!! I'd be in wankbank material for months!!! Hahaha!!!
Thanks again!!!