Swingers.....getting to know them

[tomwaits]

Hi all:

So I was not sure whether to put this thread in this section or one of the picture sections.

So, one of my long time interests is voyeurism....seeing things you are not supposed to see, and that includes knowing things you shouldn't know, too. Over the years I've really become interested in the swinger/lifestyle community. There are a LOT more people involved then you might think. So to that end, I've created a facebook account. Innocuous, but not me. And slowly but surely over the years I have been added into some swingers groups. It was a long and slow process, but you start with one person who is a known swinger, get them to add you, then get a friend or two of theirs to add you, and it grows.

So imagine my surprise when I found this link:

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Finally! There are people in some of those photos that I'm friends with on facebook. This community I'm getting into is in the southeastern united states. I've yet to come across someone that I know in real life, but the trail is getting close.

So my question: does anyone else do this? Use social networks to figure out who is related to who and, eventually, a picture kind of emerges about who is a swinger? Its interesting to note that it varies by city somewhat. One group of swingers all have fake facebook profiles separate from their real profiles, and they're fairly indiscreet on the real ones. In a different city about 5 hours away, the swingers all use their real profiles but they don't put up anything risque on their profiles. How do I know about the swinging then? Well, I can trace all of them back to being friends with one or two well known swingers in town who operate the local lifestyle organization.

Just curious if there's anyone else out there with this particular hobby.

[clitty]

Getting a fetlife account is easier, allowing them to upload photos and videos and talk about their kinks and setup parties and list meeting, etc.

In my metroplex area alone, there are about 8~12 swinger and kinkster parties a month.

But as far as finding out FRIENDS are into kinky shit, that happens on fetlife... were many of them are also FB friends but we keep the subject matter completely different. Its somewhat handy and amusing to see nude or sex photos of people you know or may date. "Ha, I know what a dick in your vagina looks like!".

[drdogz]

Which ones are you friends with?

[tomwaits]

Theres a few pictures where 5-6 of them are sitting on the floor in a living room......I am on facebook with a couple of people in that picture

[mamanrc]

Some of my swinger friends are friends on facebook too. It isn't a big deal. There are a few close friends that know that we are. It's a lifestyle choice. I'm not afraid of them outing us.

[drdogz]

maybe they will invite you sometime. I can always hope to run into them sometime. I always liked that set.

[tomwaits]

In general if anyone knows of any pictures that come out of swingers groups from VA, NC, and SC, feel free to share here. Va Friends, Carolina Friends, Dalliance, and others. Lets share and share alike

Rule 20. Our forums are here to openly share with one another. You may not use the forums to arrange "private" trades.

[GRITS]

Whats fetlife??