Does anyone else do that?

[shnowballs]

I'd like to create a thread here where people can bring up things they do/have done in their sex lives and have always wondered if loads of people do it or are they really freaky?

I have several such questions (as I don't talk sex with any of my friends, really) and so, since we're all open here, let's ask questions like that and see what people say.

Here's my first one:

Daring her not to come

Before I even start, I know this has to be a rare thing as the media tells me there are loads of women in the world who find it hard to orgasm. In fact I've been with a few! Not so my special lady who is incredibly orgasmic. This isn't (all) down to me. It's mostly due to what must be incredible nerve endings in her body.

Here's an example of a particularly good experience. Last week, after some nice foreplay, we got round to properly shagging. Just as that started, my phone rang, and I ignored it (obviously). She came 12 times (I counted) and, after the 11th, started begging me to come, saying she was tired and was already "tightening up". I wasn't really near but I relented and finished (and she had her 12th). As she popped off to clean things up, I glanced at the phone and noticed the time of the missed call. It had been just nine minutes before!

That's how orgasmic she is.

Anyway, sometimes as combination of wanting things to last longer and also wanting to see her struggle with her own willpower, I dare her not to cum until I do.

It's such a delicious sight. For the first while, she scrunches up her face and I get to hear her try and control her breathing. As we get in to it, she becomes very vocal, which isn't normal for her during the super-orgasmic shags! She keeps moaning things like "it's so difficult" and "you're so cruel".

We don't do it that often, perhaps every couple of months or so, but she does love it. When she finally does get to cum, she says it's like her normal orgasm x 10. We both agree though that it's a rare treat which, if we did it all the time, would probably lose its appeal.

How novel are we?

Also, anyone else have questions like this they've always wanted to ask? Please feel free!

[nectcouple]

Shnoballs, You are indeed very lucky to have a lady who is that orgasmic! I found your description very hot!
My wife and kind of do the same thing, only I am the happy "victim". I love it when we are playing and she brings me right to the edge but then backs down just a little, to keep me on the edge of blowing my load!

For instance, we can sit and watch an X-rated DVD and under normal circumstances, we can watch it for about 20 minutes or so while playing with each other before she is ready to say, "Screw this, Let's go fuck!" We shut it off, go to the bedroom and fuck like rabbits. But I really love it when we can sit there and lightly play with each other as we watch the movie. She will lightly stroke me, or give me a soft BJ and suck on my nipples as we watch, bringing me closer and closer until I am ready to lose it. Then she will back off just slightly and just use her fingernails to graze my hardon and other body parts to keep my on edge. She is multi-orgasmic, so while she is doing this to me, I can bring her off over and over again. We can go through one DVD after another during times like this!

Another great time is sometimes when we have plans to go out for the night, she'll come on to me as I watch her shower and get ready. I never get enough of watching her go through her paces, naked, as she pretties herself up so I watch her all the time! Often, she'll give me a BJ or a handjob as I play with her body but sometimes when I am ready to come, she'll stop and say something like, "You liked that? There'll be more of this later if you are a good boy all night tonight!" It is always a surprise for me because she rarely does it, but it'll keep me on edge all night and I know she'll be teasing me all night with flashes and comments and flirting with others! On nights like that she knows I'm gonna take her home and fuck her brains out!

Self denial can be a very sweet torture!

[wolf86]

Shnowballs my wife is the same way, it is ridiculously easy to get her to orgasm. I think she must be very sensitive to it as well because I can get her to cum from just playing with her nipples, to less than a minute only playing with her clit. LOL she can cum about as fast as a horny sex starved teenage boy getting his first piece. She almost always has a minimum of 5 orgasms in less than 10-15 min. Unless we are some place where she can let loose and get loud she ends up begging me to stop and give her a break, which can be quite funny. This is mostly all her, I am pretty awesome at what I do but not THAT awesome lol! Other girls I have been with certainly enjoyed themselves but nowhere near the amount my wife does. I know this is very rare and I consider myself very lucky!

As for daring her not to cum, I have never tried that... Hmmmm, might have to, although I'm not sure how successful she will be if I don't hold back lol!

[piecenick]

We are an older couple, mid-60's. and my wife is still very orgasmic. If I catch her at a bad time and she is having rare trouble getting over the orgasm edge, all I have to do is forbid her to come. She love D/s games, so if I become her Dom and tell her she will be punished if she has an orgasm, her eyes roll back in her head and she starts coming over and over.

Funny thing that happened when she had a minor stroke a few years ago, she lost some feeling on her left side, mostly temporary, but during that post-stroke healing process her orgasms went hyper. It was like throwing gasoline on a fire, she would have strong wave after wave. She even asked her neurologist about the phenomena, he had never heard of that before. When the healing process completed she went back to her regular orgasm.

Anyway, orgasm denial can be very powerful when she does come.

[shnowballs]

Thanks for the replies folks!

Wolf, I'd definitely recommend you try it. One thing I forgot to mention in my first post: she basically has to be on top for it to work. That way she can control the pace and take breaks whenever she wants. Which is a lot! I don't mind though, it's all part of the show.

I've just had a funny thought about it actually. Because she finds it so easy to orgasm and, conversely, so hard not to orgasm, she basically has to behave like a cliched teenage guy who's new to sex and is desperate not to shoot his load after only a few seconds! She has to do things like: think about other things, not focus on the pleasure and "sorry, I just need to stop for a second, I'm about to cum..."

Anyway, shall we move things on? Anyone got any thing from their own lives they want to ask about?

[SergeantSphincter]

[Great thread idea, 'balls!]

After 12+ years with the Sweetheart, I know there are quite a few things she likes, but she does not enjoy waking up and getting out of bed in the morning. Since I often wake up before her, I get to watch her sleeping, which I greatly enjoy (especially when she's pushed the covers off).

Well, a few months ago I was admiring her bottom as she laid there with her backside towards me and one leg pulled up. Then I decided to try something new: turn around, rest my head on her thigh, and run my tongue over the pretty rosette between her cheeks. (It felt really nice, by the way.) Naturally I wondered how she'd respond...

She liked it. She said something like "mmmmm", so I continued using my tongue until it was time for her to get up and get dressed. Later she thanked me for making her morning more pleasant!

I've done the same thing every morning since.

[SergeantSphincter]

We met via the Internet.

[Do I hear yawns? Fair enough. Proceeding...]

We were both members of an online discussion board, and discovered we had interests in common. After a while, as we got into more personal matters, we switched to email. Then we decided it was time to meet in person. (IRL as they say. Or do they still say that? Oh, well.)

[Anyone still awake? Don't worry, there's not a lot more to tell.]

Where to meet? Her city? Mine? A scenic destination in between? Ha! The bold girl accepted my invitation to fly out for a long week-end in my city (where she'd never been, nor did she know anyone here), in January (expect 0 degrees F), and stay at my apartment. (By the way, we had agreed it would be more interesting to meet without exchanging pictures.)

We recognized each other the instant she got off the plane. We could have stopped for a coffee or something, but the bold girl was more interested in going to my place and getting better acquainted, so that's what we did, for the next 5 hours or so. Then, since we really needed food, we went to the neighborhood classic burger joint; along with burgers and fries, we shared a cherry cola with one straw.

One straw?? Well, since our lips and tongues had been every place we've heard of (and some places we may not have heard of), sharing a straw was just fine.

Always adoring my bold girl -

[SergeantSphincter]

After receiving her morning analingus, the Sweetheart is ready for another of her favorite activities -

Oh, wait. This here's the "Does anyone else do that?" thread. So: does anyone?

I'll continue later about things the Sweetheart does in the morning.