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Great story. Don't know of you already found your answer but if not post a photo here and I will do some searching for you. I know we would all love to see some photos.

Originally Posted by ttrader

1) Yes
2) Best guess 20ish
3) No. I learned much of this from others
4) Not really. It's in the past. At least most of it.
5) Some of them. Usually on the ones where there was something of interest.


These numbers would have been much lower if I took this survey a couple of years ago. Here is why, about 10years after my wife and I married we went to visit her family. During the trip I went out drinking with my brothers in law and some of their local college buddies. After awhile a couple of their acquaintances joined us. By this time my in laws went off to play some pool in the back of the bar. I stayed and watched sports with their friends. One of the acquaintances seemed a bit off and started to talk about his old girlfriends. He would go on and on about each one. It was getting pretty annoying. I remember he went off on some gal he dated that was 6' 5" and the things you can an can't do with someone that tall. This guy was about 5'5" 300lbs. I was about to leave and get my in laws when he told me to stay and started talking about this gal he dated 15 years earlier. She was 22 cute, great body, big boobs but was naive, and had just broken up with her first serious boyfriend. They had dated since she was 18. Keeping this short, this guy took total advantage of her. Did what ever he could to keep her self esteem low. He went on with how he controlled her and some of what he got her to do. He started by having her do exhibitionist acts and wear revealing clothes. He had her give him blows every time they meet where ever they were at the time. Mostly in cars. He even got her to go to Laker games wearing shorts and a Laker t-shirt with no bra. He would have her stand up and shake her boobs for the fans. He said that after he got a beer or two in her and played with her boobs for a short time her motor would start and she would become excited and more compliant. He said he even able to get her to allow some of the guys around them at the game to squeeze her boobs. They would leave before the end of the game and screw in the parking lot because she was so hot to go she didn't want to wait to drive back to his place. He tried to get her into swapping but she wouldn't go for it but he was able to get her to pull a train with his roommate a few times. There was also bondage and some S&M. Eventually, after 6 months or so she wised up and was going to dump him. For some reason during this time she allowed him to photograph her. He even video taped her doing some exhibitionism as well as pulling the trains. She finally dumped him and that was that. Years later she married had kids and was having a good life as a teacher. Somewhere in her thirties this whack job stumbles on her and a couple of her girlfriends at a restaurant. He was there on business. He talked with her in private seeing if she wanted the photos back that he took years before. She didn't know about the videos. She took from this that he was going to post these if she didn't buy them back. He didn't want money. They agreed that he would give her a third of the photos each time they hooked up which would be every few months when he was in town. She did demand the prints and the negatives. He started laughing when he told me this because he used some weird film back then which provided negatives, prints and slides. So he gave her the prints and negatives but not the slides. He also insisted that they meet at her house. After three events she thought she was free and clear. But he had video taped all of the sessions. Now he had the original material and current videos. He said he had her and she new it. He also said he was doing this with two other gals and his old roommate was doing it with one of his old girlfriends. What scums. They eventually came to an agreement that they would get together twice a year and she would do what he wanted. He had her do everything she did previously but also entertain a few of his buddies and business customers. What person would deal with a guy who says with every deal you get to screw a 40 year old 4th grade teacher? Anyway, several years after my meeting this guy my wife and I went to see her parents and during the trip went to the beach. Late in the day this guy jogs by out of the blue and notices us. He comes over and says hi to my wife. She looked shocked and then pissed. They didn't talk much and he obviously didn't remember me since he was drunk when I met him. After he left I asked my wife who he was and she said an old boyfriend and cut the conversation. I pressed it and learned that she dated him in her early 20's right after she was dumped by her first boyfriend. I must have had a weird look on my face because she asked me what was wrong. I haven't and won't bring up what I learned. We were now on the other side of the country and are in our 50's so I certain whatever happened has ended. My wife is also no longer a teacher so much of her risk is gone. The weirdest part of this is that ever since I met my wife she has always had a pretty straight attitude about sex and wasn't interested in deviating off the norm. The more I thought about it the more I wonder if all of this was the ramblings of a drunk. I also don't see her going out with some large guy. I think she was 5' 4" 110lbs back then.

If this guy was telling the truth I bet he has posted her material online somewhere. Anyone know how to search for images of someone. Obviously, I don't have his photos but I don't have photos of her when she was that age.