My wife would not have ever believed this was true until a few years ago. We had some vanilla friends that ended up splitting up. The wife immediately had another partner but after almost three years the guy was still alone. We had stayed friends with both over time.
One evening we are at his small apartment that sat above a store on a busy city street. We are out on his very small deck and my wife asks him about dating and future plans. He tells us that he has not dated since the breakup and doesn't ever think he will find anyone again. Of course there is wine involved and my wife starts asking about his sex life. He is obviously embarrassed but slowly tells her he has not been with anyone since the split.
My wife is feeling sorry for him and moves over to the chair he is sitting on and sits on his lap. At this point she is trying to console him and telling him about people she thinks she can fix him up with. Somehow in this course of conversation masturbation comes up and he tells her he has basically pictured and fantasized about her since the breakup. My wife takes that as a compliment but tells him he has never seen her naked and asks what sort of fantasies he has about her.
Long story short she ended up asking to watch him jack off and he finally agreed. the night ended up with her fucking him. He actually became a regular fuck buddy for her for about a year and a half until he met his current wife. She always asked if he was still jacking off thinking about her and he said yes every time during that period.
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