I take it you don't have any kids. My wife was off her sex after my second one but after I pestered her for sex she got angry and told me to get a Pro. I didn't do that but got the next thing up. A mistress. I got caught had a blazing row and I reminded her what she said to me and in my defence that the mistress was cheaper and safer diease wise than a Pro. Boys, don't ever try to be clever and throw a womans words back in her face. I had hell to pay for. This hell lasted 6 months and thought that I was going to end up divorced. But we worked through it and are fine now. Incidently she told one of our mutual friends (female)about me whining about the sex in front of me which was embarrasing. But I had the last laugh. I ended up knobbing her and we ended up being friends with benefits but this was after my mistress.