first, i want to say you have a very sweet little pussy. your outer lips are smaller than i thought, and that's good, because it gives your swollen clit no where to hide.
speaking of which - is that clit just always aroused, or is that what it looks like normally?

either way, i can see what your husband is up against. it looks like it could take some serious teasing to take care of that thing.
i won't normally say this thing, because i think pussy hair is a very personal preference, and always boring to debate. but i will say i don't usually prefer shaven pussies - though sometimes completely bare is nice. a pussy should be seen, and your shave does the trick. i do prefer your prissy little patch to those silly porn star "landing strips".
also, given your apparent state of arousal, if that's what it is, it's easier to understand why your panties look the way they do

either way, i can't think that what you've shown of your pussy is more embarrassing than what you've shown of your panties. i'd rather have a woman see my erection than unclean underwear!
but we've still only seen the front half of your pussy. that shot where we could see your ass crack through your panties was a good start - now take off those panties, bring the camera lower and no side angles - then we'd get to see the other half of your pussy, and probably your asshole too. as embarrassing as that is, it's still not even the whole thing at once.
it's like pulling a band-aid, you see. the slower you do this, the longer you draw out the embarrassment.