Wife's experience...
My wife stopped being an R.N. in 1970 to raise our children. We had been married for 6 years, and had dated for 3 while she was in nursing school. She learned as a student nurse about "friskey" patients, often having hands fall on the chest of her uniform or a hand run up her skirt. Of course, as a student, she did not want to be unkind nor did she want the patient to complain in any way. She told me, very bluntly, that the nicer the patient, the more likely she was to stay in place and let them have a feel, if it would make them happy and give them some relief from their pain. Besides, most were not in a position to be more threatening.
Her student uniform was blue with white trim and the skirt came several inches below the knee. As was the norm, she wore a white bra, panties, slip, garter belt, white stockings and really ugly nurses' shoes. It was far from erotic, but if she allowed, you could feel her ass either outside or from under the dress, and some patients were rewarded when she bent forward with a chance to slip a finger under her panties and finger her. She would usually demand they stop, although if they knew what they were doing, she might let them continue for a short while---while she did her work, of course.
Right out of high school, she was embarassed by men trying to feel her up, or by them getting erections and showing them to her. Some even knew her and her family! As we dated and became more intimate, she got more comfortable with her patients and how to handle them. In her last year as a student, her high school math teacher broke both his legs in a car accident, I think, and was in the hospital for a couple of weeks. (Remember back then long stays in the hospital were common, not like today).
He tried to feel her up from his first day, and because his right hand was bandaged, she actually held his penis while he used a urinal some times. He got a respectable erection often with her, and when she gave him his evening sponge bath he was begging for relief. She started, after a week, of jacking him off when he was soapy and wet. When his the bandages came off his right hand, he began to feel under her skirt and after fighting him off several times, she found it was quicker to just let him feel her up because it got him to ejaculate faster. He was pulling on her panties and ripped one pair in the crotch, so she would go into the toilet, pull her panties down to just above her stocking tops (like she was going to pee) and let him feel away while she bathed him. Feeling her naked ass, and probing her wet 20 year old pussy, he came quickly and she sometimes did too. When he was sent home, he begged her to come visit, but she never did.
While in nursing school and in her first job working for a doctor's office, she was aware that she was being watched when she changed into her uniform evidently a very common practive in health care facilities. She also said that the doctors often had roaming hands and some would be critical of the nurses unless they let them feel them some or stand behind them and rub up against them. One claimed that the constant pressure of being a physician made it compulsary that his nurses help him with his "needs" so he could do his best work. She jacked him off once in his office while he felt under her skirt, but she did not blow him although he told her that all the other nurses did.
Once she became an R.N. and worked in hospitals, the patients seemed to have a bit more reluctance to play grab ass. She was not giving bed baths like she did as a student, and she was with more critical care patients so that was part of it. The doctors were still insistant, but since she was married, she was able to avoid some of the pressure. Single nurses or aids were always under pressure to "help" the doctors behind closed doors.
I doubt in today's environment that doctors or patients would get away with much of this behavior, but the 1960's and 1970's were different, and men were king. My wife's aunt served as a field R.N. in Korea in the early 1950's, and told her one night over wine that sleeping with the doctors was almost a requirement and was scheduled like the working hours. She said that like most of the nurses, she was not married, and they all hoped to get a doctor to fall in love but none did. She even told my wife that she and her fellow nurses had the doctors ranked by their abilities and some doctors had no trouble getting help, while others did. Her stories made me think of M.A.S.H.
My wife told me three stories, each after getting home that day. First, a young man in high school was hurt in practice with severe back pain. When they brought him to the hospital, they found a growth on his spine that had to be removed immediately from the front of his body because the growth was into his intestines. The night before his surgery, she bathed and shaved parts of his trunk that might be affected. Of course, he got an erection, but he was embarassed and confided that he had never had sex or even seen a naked girl. Guess who came back later when the immediate chores on the floor were done, undressed in his bathroom and posed for him while he took care of his own needs? He did well, but soon after the surgery, he went to some rehab unit so she did not see him again.
Another time, an older man put his hand under her skirt and told her he had not felt a woman intimately since his wife had died many years earlier. She pulled her pantyhose and panties down enough so he could feel everything while she bathed him. She said he had really good technique.
Finally, a wounded military man came in and touched her accidently on her chest. He apologized so nicely that she later, she unbuttoned the front of her uniform and let him touch and suck on her breasts. She also gave him a very special bath.
These nurses are not naive, and have heard it all before. If you are really nice, complement them and let them know you appreciate them, you might get someone who is willing to make your hospital stay a lot better. But keep in mind that they talk to each other, and they know the crude pervs, and how to flick the tip of your hard cock to make it shrink to a nub. My wife has done that too. And know what to expect---a touch of your organ or you getting a touch of them might happen, but a BJ or her climbing on the bed and banging your brains out is strictly porn movie stuff. Go see Deep Throat and see if that will happen to you. Not a chance. Also, don't be picky. A plump or not so pretty nurse might be the most willing to make the patients happy.
Finally, when I had a serious problem, my wife was taking care of her father who had experienced a severe stroke so I went to the hospital where she worked but she was not there. The night before my surgery, I was anxious and while talking to my wife on the phone, a friend of hers came in to do my bath and prep for the cutting. She asked to talk to the nurse for a minute. I was enjoying the bath and got the ususal erection only to have her give me a slow, lovely hand release, and she told me I could touch. She had on pantyhose, but her bottom still felt good. Afterwards, she told me that my wife had told her to help me relax. I married right.
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