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Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t
I am in the US living now and my husband is American. I only seek to explore with his blessing at this point. Thanks so much. But does a lady say to life mate "let's go to the swinging club" outright so? Thanks again for all the thoughts from you.
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It's usually men who initiate the idea. There's an old saying, "When a man takes his wife to a swing club, he has to drag her in kicking and screaming. When it's time to leave, he has to drag her OUT kicking and screaming." It would certainly be unnerving for most men for the wife to just come out with that suggestion.
But when you go to a swing club, you don't have to have sex with others. We went half a dozen times before we had any contact with anyone else. It was just hot to watch and play with each other.
Other posts have suggested that you watch some porn together. See that you get some that involves group sex, and see how he reacts.
On another note, your dissatisfaction seems to be that he doesn't last long enough to satisfy you. He may be suffering from premature ejaculation. There are ways to improve this situation. A urologist can help. There are desensitizing creams that will slow him down. The big question is: Does he know you are unsatisfied, and does he care? He has to know before he can care. If he knows & cares for you, he will seek help with the issue. If he knows & doesn't care, dump him now.
DR