I don't think you can just bring up the idea and tell your husband you want to have sex with another guy.
He will find it very disturbing.
However, all guys want to have sex with more girls and maybe that's the direction you could use.
I'm not sure what kind of guy your husband is - is he a liberal person?
Do you talk about sex? or do you just do it?
Do u guys ever talk about your fantasies? do you watch erotic movies together?
That's you starting point?
If the answer to the above questions is yes - then how about you bring up the idea of swingers? and that you find the idea arousing... see how he reacts ... ask him if he would like to watch swingers do it?
That would be the starting direction imho...
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