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Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t
I see many on here are experienced in or with the multiple love partners over your life, or in swinging or that sort of thing. I have only been with my husband for penetration and I want so badly to give myself over to a man of size and staying power it is obsessing me. I would love for it to happen in a way that is not the cheating. How does a woman that has only been with one man tell the man that she wants more without ruining everything?
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It's difficult - many men would be very threatened by your desire. Ironically, the ones who would not be, are usually the kind of man that doesn't let you get bored or dissatisfied in the first place!
It will help if you think he has any desire to have sex with other people, too. It's hard to guess that, but sometimes you can show your excitement about topics like swinging or group sex parties that are mentioned in movies or jokes. If he's paying attention, he'll notice and let you know he would be interested.
Maybe you could try things like "I want us to be closer together - let's share our fantasies..." and see if that conversation makes him uncomfortable...
Good luck!