My wife and I were both married once before. She was pretty conservative as a teen-ager, and before she got married she only fucked two guys~ a college boyfriend a couple of times, and then her first husband pretty steadily after they met. Her first marriage lasted about fifteen years, the last five of which her first husband was having an affair with a co-worker. She knew all about it but didn't want a divorce, because, she realizes now, she was more concerned about the institution of marriage, and her children, and what people would say, than her low-life husband.
Well, finally, she couldn't take the crap any longer so she got to chatting with a guy on-line about three states away. One thing eventually led to another, and they began getting together for a weekend fuck-a-thon about every six months. She told me the first time they got together she had an "Oh-God-what-am-I-doing" moment just before he plunged it in. She got over that and had a great time with him, but it was a hassle meeting someone on the sly who lived 600 miles away.
When she was 38 she got divorced. Right about then she happened to read a self-help book about newly divorced women, and the author asserted that a lot of women had an average of 10 to 12 sexual partners before they established a new, long-term relationship. "Yeah, right," she thought. "That ain't going to be me."
But then, it was. She joined a matchmaker site and started getting laid within a couple of months of her divorce being final. Some guys she fucked only once, some she kept around and banged a dozen times or more. Two years later I came along and met her on the same matchmaker site. We emailed for a while, then chatted on the phone, and finally set a dinner date. After dinner we went over to her place and ended up in bed, balling half the night. Little did I know at the time that she'd been out the night before and gotten thoroughly drilled by some other guy.
All this history came out much later, but it sure made for some hot pillow talk, and eventually led into a relaxed play lifestyle we now enjoy. I loved hearing her stories and love it even more now when she gets in the mood to go out and play.
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