Thanks for all the great responses!
Dognheat - thanks for the outfit idea. I'll try that for the next set of pics. And thanks for the offer of a photog, I've got a great one
S&M - mask has to stay, sorry, I need to protect my anonymity
PoleDancer - DO IT! It's so much fun!
Nedermier - I can tell where I need to lose weight, more when I post update pictures, tell me where I've done great. I'll work on upside down with my back to the pole, it's not a trick in my arsenal yet! If you have any other ideas, let me know
Thanks again to everyone else who posted! You make me feel more confident