[tomshappylife]

I gave this questionnaire to my fiancee and here's her honest answers.


1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

Could be, depending where and who else is around. I don't embarrass that easily, but not really comfortable with just anyone seeing me.


2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?
For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?

Guess I'm in the modest side of this. Just how I was raised, being comfortable with someone seeing me nude is something that takes time to develop.


3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

Would probably frozen in shock, idk how I would handle something like, hope to God I never find out!


4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

I've heard actresses talk about what it's like doing a nude seen, I don't think I could. I mean think about it, you're in a room full of coworkers and you're the only one nude. Plus knowing that everyone that knows you including family are going to be seeing it on a huge movie screen. That'd be too much. Guess If I had to choose, stage would probably be easier than in a move. But still the idea of being nude on a stage with everyone's eyes on me, just sends chills down my spine lol.

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

I've been to an optional beach before. I did spend a lil time topless on it, just to get a better tan. Being somewhere were others are nude makes it easier to relax about me just being topless.


6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?

Yes I'd be embarrass and pissed. That camera would end up in the ocean!


7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?
For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question.

I'd be so humiliated and still pissed. I would try and get it taken off the net as soon as possible.

8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?
If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?)

No I would not post nude photos of myself on the net. Too much crap can get started by something like that. Ppl have lost their jobs for stuff like that.

9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?

Wow that's a tough one. Guess being around ppl I know would be worse.

10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)

idk, just any situation where I was naked without it being my choice would be embarrassing.