I have a good contribution for this thread....Instead of answering this question for question, its more of a story related to the topic. I have been dating the same girl for 5 years now. We are just a couple years out of college, engaged now. She's a beautiful redhead, spirited, and a bit modest, until she drinks, then can be easily influenced around fri (on more than one occasion, a pool and alcohol has led to her ending up in the pool naked. (as long as she's not the only one)
Anyway, we have always been mostly open about everything involving each other's past. neither of us are jealous people. With the exception of maybe 2 people, she has slept only with people she said she was dating. Blowjobs are a different story, but anyway, 2 summers ago we had broken up, or taken a break more like it. It lasted for the summer, and by the fall we were back together. During the break she had admitted to 'seeing' someone else. We agreed to lay everything on the line so that there would never be any surpises or questions about what happened. She gave every detail, as long as I would be okay with it. I had no problem hearing, and she admitted to every last detail, things like he ejaculated in large amounts, and that he even got anal one night when she was really drunk, and that while she considered him 'a boyfriend' he really was just a summer rebound and it was completely based on sex.
So fast forward a year to this past summer. Every summer her friends get a beach house together and stay for a week or 2. So the following summer we were back together and I had accompanied them. I know most of her friends, and all have always been friendly towards me. there were 9 of us there, and so, not much privacy in the house. Only 1 shower too, but there's an outside shower used for rinsing off from the beach, that some people would use as a real shower. Only problem with that is it's not walled up completely. There is only 1 way to get to the backyard, and that is from the fence on the right side of the house, and the entire backyard has tall vinyl fence.
The shower head is attached to the house, and there is a wall between that shower head and where the fence gate is. Otherwise you are in the open. (and I'll have some 'embarrassing nude' stories about this to follow next time)
Anyway on more than one occasion we would get a quicky in there in that shower. It wasn't a mystery, we werent the only couple to do it either, gives you a little privacy, and the thrill of doing it outside.
Anyway, staying there also is this guy named Luke, who was always good spirited, and ended up being probably the guy i spent the most time with there.
So one night her friend Kelly says to me how she's glad I am cool with Luke after everything. I ask her what she means. She tells me how Luke was the guy my girlfriend had been with the previous summer, and asked if she ever told me about that. I told her yes, she told me every detail, just didnt point out that this was the guy. Kelly drunkely than goes on how the outside shower was her favorite spot with him too and all this other stuff. Was a little awkward and while i wasn't angry at all, i was a little taken back by the fact that the guy i would hang out with at the bar there had been banging my girlfriend last summer, and still talking with me and her as if nothing had ever happened.
Like I said I'm not the jealous type, but while she had told me everything, this was still a surprise.
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