[Cigar4u]

Hi Hans:

I can feel the frustraton in your writing.

If you recall, I tried this very thing on this very thread a few months ago by posting photographs to encourage story writing by others. It was like talking to a wall. I got not one single reader to contribute to that project -- not one. Talk about your bloody failures.

And Abby, I appreciate you contributing even just to ask someone else to write something. Not everyone is confident enough to write, including continuing a story that someone else started.

Contrary to what some might think, I am not a story-writing, photo-posting machine. I can't complete every unfinished story or post every photo that has ever been taken of CFNF wrestling. I'm just not that talented or dedicated to the cause. No one is on any one subject.

I've said this at least a half dozen times -- I didn't start this thread to show off how much CFNF wrestling material I have or whatever talent I have for writing stories. I started it hoping to find others who share my particular taste in the fetish wrestling genre and hopefully, like me, post material others might not have.

Hemo 101 and a few others have done that and I am grateful they have. Now, for whatever reason, Helen I see is contributing more to other threads than to this one. Perhaps she, like me, has pretty much posted every non-watermarked photo she has on CFNF fighting. Or perhaps she wants to concentrate more on her own thread -- Only One Naked -- and others.

That's cool. But I have to say that this thread really misses her contributions and I hope she locates and adds some new stuff here as soon as she can.

Hans, for a while Helen and I were working together on what I thought was a really neat CFNF fight-themed story via email. After a lot of prep work last year, the story has since been moved to the backburner. So even two people who are really into this fetish don't always come to fruition when it comes to writing stories.

With that in mind, Hans, you cannot expect casual observers of this thread to take up your challenge and finish your story with the same degree of passion that you have for it. It's just not going to happen.

I wrote recently that I was cutting back on my contributions to this thread out of fear that by writing so much I was dominating the thread that I started, thus making some people feel uncomfortable contributing to it. That can sometimes happen when someone has an overpowering personality like me. (That's a polite way of saying I'm pretty much an assh*le!)

Although I love this thread, I've come to accept that it is just not as popular as I once thought it was or would be. I've written that before and more and more I have come to accept it as being true.

I've become more understanding of fetish wrestling video producers out there who stick with making the same stale standard stuff that works and have become far more appreciative of the handful of producers who take a gamble and make one-sided CFNF matches. With such an apparent small audience, they are taking a huge risk financially.

There is an old American saying that you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make him drink. The same is true here. All you can do, Hans, is start a story and hope that others contribute to it. You can't force them to do it.

Some people join these message boards to download a bunch of photos and stories to their collections and truly feel that there is no reason for them to give anything back. I much imagine they are the same selfish dastards who cut in front of others in lines or cut you off on the highways. That's just human nature and none of us are going to change that.

All we can hope for is to continue contributing to this thread and attract a new breed of ENF lovers to this message board -- the kind who like seeing a female wrestler stripped of her bathing suit and forced to endure utter naked humiliation at the hands of a clothed rival as opposed to members who prefer photos of women peeing and other toilet-themed threads.