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Old 03-07-2008, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by jjanda_2000 View Post
- I don't know this to be true. Seems there may be confusion between lesbian activity and lesbian sexual preference? Girl on girl sex is commonly and correctly referenced as "lesbian activity", even if one or both of the girls is bi-sexual.

Same with guys. Guy on guy sex is correctly referenced as homosexual activity, or gay sex, even if one or both of the guys are bi-sexual.

Where I get confused is when guys comfortable on the receiving end of gay sex claim to be "straight". To my way of thinking, if you're a guy and you use other guys for sexual pleasure in any way, you are at least bi-sexual, unless women are never your sexual partners, in which case you are gay.

I think this issue is very interessting. When scientist claim that homosexuality is natural they usually argue with examples of homosexuality among animals. But when you read closely you notice that they talk of different subjects (homosexual preference in humans is compared with homosexual activity among animals). When I say that someone is homosexual I mean that the person has such preference. If a man or woman check out persons of opposite sex in the streeet, at partys etc and if they claim that they search for intimate contacts with the opposite sex I would say that they are heterosexual even if they at som time in their life got attracted by and had sex with someone of the same sex. To be bi-sexual you have to have a preference for both sexes and you are bi-sexual even if you only have had the chance to have sex with one sex.
But I still think they use the words differnt in the porn industri. If you watch a "bi-sexual porn movie" it will be a movie were two men having sex with each other and a woman (it will never be a movie were two women are having sex with one man, because in the porn world this is put in the sam category as heterosexuality).
Maybe this discussion is more suitable for a philosophical forum than OCC?
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