[littlehamster]

The desires of men and women are insatiable; it's like drinking salty water - the more you drink, the thirstier you get. How to chase women, how to hook up, well, as long as you're still focusing on women instead of improving your inner attractiveness, your chances of success will never be high. But if you work hard to enhance your inner attractiveness, once you reach a certain level, you'll become a beacon in yourself. Many women, due to their competitive nature, will naturally gravitate towards you, opening up to you and allowing for close relationships. All you need to do is filter through them. From then on, you'll never be short of women around you. This is human nature, and reality is the best reflection of it. The vast majority of women are competitive by nature, which is a result of evolution and the selection of superior genetic traits. As I've gained more experience, I've come to realize that a true strong person isn't necessarily defined by physical attributes like body shape, strength, or wealth. Of course, I'm not saying these things don't attract women - they're just the stepping stones. But to maintain and balance a relationship over the long term, you need to have strong inner attractiveness, which manifests in many ways: the ability to quickly identify and solve problems, logical and clear thinking in communication, emotional stability in emergencies, and decisiveness and responsibility when faced with dilemmas. These traits have nothing to do with whether you have six-pack abs, are 1.8 meters tall, or how many zeros are in your bank account. Of course, if someone has these deep-seated attractive qualities, they're likely to do well in life, but what I want to say is that there's only one true strength, and that's wisdom. Everyone has their destiny, and scientifically speaking, destiny is the result of countless choices. Destiny can be divided into two types: major destiny and minor destiny. Major destiny refers to one's background and upbringing. Your background determines your social class, and your upbringing determines your personality and choices. For a child from the countryside, completing education and leaving the countryside is already quite difficult. The upper limit of their major destiny might be a provincial capital or a first-tier city. But for a child from a high-net-worth family in Beijing, Shanghai, or Guangzhou, they're born with class advantages and resource choices, and their major destiny can extend to the whole world. Minor destiny, on the other hand, is about striving to reach the upper limit of major destiny through one's own efforts and hard work, despite the unchangeable conditions of one's background and upbringing. In other words, for a child from the countryside, the upper limit of their major destiny might be a provincial capital, but if they don't work hard, they might stay in the countryside for their entire life. As the saying goes, do your best and leave the rest to fate. Do your best to fight for your minor destiny, and leave the rest to fate to fight for your major destiny. Major destiny is determined by fate, while minor destiny is determined by oneself.