To be perfectly honest, I need to make one thing crystal clear first: my wife always does whatever she wants. No matter how much I fantasize about or desire something, if she doesn't want to do it, there is no fucking way it's going to happen. I can't 'get' her to do anything.
Whenever she actually does something I propose, it's strictly for one of two reasons: either she genuinely feels like doing it, or it's something she is completely indifferent about—it doesn't bother her at all—so she just does it to please me and turn me on. But she always has the final say and absolute control over her limits.
In fact, the things I've desired the most, she has never done, despite promising me we would. Take anal sex, for example. When we started dating 20 years ago, she promised we’d do it. Fast forward to today: it hasn't happened. At first, the excuse was 'later.' Then it turned into 'I've never done it and I don't want to.' Then it became 'I don't like it.' When I pointed out that if she knows she doesn't like it, she must have tried it before me, she denied it. She claimed she just knew she wouldn't like it based on what her friends told her it felt like. Later, she even claimed that right when we started dating, I accidentally slipped it in her ass and she didn't like it (which I never did).
Honestly, I recently found out she was actually seeing another guy right when we first started dating. I don't know if it lasted a few weeks, a few months, or over half a year. When I confronted her, she initially denied he even existed. But after I showed her the proof I found, she admitted that she might have overlapped us because, at the beginning, she wasn't sure if things with me would get serious. She has also confessed to me that she struggles to really enjoy sex with serious boyfriends, but she fully enjoys it when there's no love involved. She described this other guy as a loser with no job or future, a bad body, but a handsome face—basically, all the perfect ingredients to make me believe she let him fuck her in the ass. So, I strongly suspect she's mixing me up with him and he was the one who did it. It’s pretty clear to me she’s done it in the past and just flat-out refuses to do it again, not even to make me happy.
She also completely shot down my jacuzzi fantasy. When we had been dating for about 3 years, we took a trip to some islands. I deliberately booked a room with a jacuzzi on the outdoor terrace. Double the turn-on: the thrill of being outdoors where someone might see us, plus fucking in the jacuzzi. Well, the only thing I 'got' her to do was take her bra off in the water. When I tried to initiate sex, she said no. I told her it was a huge fantasy of mine and I’d never done it in a jacuzzi. Her cold response? 'I have, I don't like it, and I don't need to try it again.' She put her bra back on, got out, dried off, put on her pajamas, and went to sleep. To make matters worse, the next day she complained to the hotel about the noise the jacuzzi made, got our room changed, and we lost the jacuzzi altogether. Unbelievable. A massive red flag I completely failed to see back then.
The kicker is that, years later, she pulled the exact same move she did with anal sex: she completely denied ever having fucked anyone in a jacuzzi. Which I know is bullshit because she literally told me she had while we were standing right there in the water. This just reinforces my theory that she's lying about the anal sex too, and she definitely let some other guy (or guys) fuck her in the ass before she met me. Anyway, love makes you blind...
I still haven't lost hope of fucking her in the ass someday, but every time I try to get her to give in, she just shuts down even more. Because of this, I don't even dare propose the newer fantasies I've developed over the last few years. I'd love for her to go to a club wearing a miniskirt with no panties and a sheer top with no bra. I'd love it if she made a profile on one of those fan sites to strip and sell nudes and videos. I actually have a tiny, remote glimmer of hope for a 'lite' version of that, since she's shown some interest in sites for selling used panties and foot pics.
But ultimately, my wildest fantasies are split into two main obsessions. First, the exhibitionism. I want to see her completely naked in front of strangers, but also in front of friends. I fantasize about a tit 'accidentally' slipping out of her bra, or her just casually changing clothes in front of someone else, or doing nudism at a beach where we might run into a guy we know (honestly, I'd settle for her just going back to sunbathing topless). I also have this huge fantasy where a friend 'accidentally' sees the photos and videos I have of her naked or fucking. And the absolute wildest scenario would be her showing those pictures to them herself, or actually asking me to share them.
Then there's my absolute biggest, ultimate fantasy: watching her fuck another man. I want the whole explicit visual. I want to watch her sucking another guy's cock. I want to watch another man's cock penetrating her pussy and making her die of pleasure. And above all else, I want to watch another guy's cock pounding her right in that asshole she has completely forbidden me from touching for twenty years. Filming her while two guys spitroast her is my ultimate dream.
With all this in mind, you can imagine that, unfortunately for me, I don't have anecdotes as extreme as the ones I read in this thread, which make me so jealous. I have to settle for less. I'll try to explain the ones I remember, though I have to dig back many years!
The most recent ones involve finally enjoying the fantasy of my wife getting completely naked in a textile-free sauna and showering among naked men.
That was a massive win for me because whenever I suggested textile-free saunas in the past, she always said absolutely no way. I detailed that whole story in the 'Mixed nude European sauna experiences' thread.
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First time for me and my wife in a textil free sauna
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Detailed description of my wife's body. Should I post a pic?
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I will keep sharing more situations with my wife as I remember them, and later on, I'll also share some stories about my ex-girlfriends and past flings.