Before I was married, my number was actually pretty small, about three guys. After I got married, though, things changed dramatically. Over the years, my husband and I became much more open about exploring that side of our relationship, and eventually my number climbed to well over 100.
As far as protection goes, I honestly wasn't nearly as consistent as I should have been. I'd say condoms were used roughly half the time. There were definitely plenty of occasions where we didn't use one, and that was simply part of how we approached things during that period of our lives. I honestly prefer not to. Even still to this day, but sometimes depending on the circumstances, I still do.
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