100?
From the wife’s perspective, I can honestly say that I stopped keeping track a long time ago. My husband and I have been in a wife-sharing marriage for more than ten years, and my number is definitely over 100 at this point. It’s probably quite a bit higher, but I couldn't give you an exact number without sitting down and trying to reconstruct years of memories.
For us, the number itself isn't really the important part anymore. Some encounters were one-time things, some were people we got to know better, and some were part of the lifestyle we were exploring together. My husband knows that I've been with a lot of other men, and we've talked openly about it over the years.
I think what changed for me was realizing that I didn't need to treat my past or my experiences like something I had to hide or be embarrassed about. This is something my husband and I have chosen to experience together, and there's something freeing about being able to be completely honest with each other about it.
So if someone asked me my exact number today, I'd probably just laugh and say, "Definitely over 100, and honestly, I stopped counting."
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