A recent thread got me thinking about her number, and how it has grown since we met. She had a couple of longer-term serious boyfriends and a few short dating windows in her youth. Throw in a few one-night stands and a few extra just for good measure - might put her count close to 12 before we met.
Since we've experimented with ethical non-monogamy D has added more than 25 more in the past 9 years. I definitely encourage such behavior, it always brings excitement to our lives. Most of them used condoms, but there were a handful of times where precautions were not taken. Once in planned agreement with another couple, but the few other unprotected instances were all spontaneous where protection was impractical (hot tub), not available, or overlooked in the heat of the moment. Despite this, none of our swing adventurists have cum inside her without protection. It could have happened in part, but to the best of our knowledge it has not. Sloppy seconds is still on the bucket list, maybe someday along with that elusive DP.
