[allthatjazz]

Originally Posted by RealWithRy

33 now and definitely not getting any younger. This has actually come up between my husband and I before, and neither of us would necessarily mind if I ever decided I really wanted to try it. I think for me, part of the appeal is simply feeling sexy, desired, and having an experience that's a little outside the norm.

The funny part is that I wouldn't even know where to begin. We live in a pretty ordinary area, so I have absolutely no clue how someone even gets involved in that industry or finds legitimate opportunities. And honestly, I sometimes wonder whether there'd even be much interest in a woman in her 30s, with three kids and carrying some extra weight. Maybe that's just my insecurity talking, though.

So while the idea is definitely interesting to both of us, actually going from "that sounds fun" to "okay, how would we even do this?" is a pretty huge leap.

I'd pay to see that. Of course, having kids makes many choices risky, so you'd have to think carefully if you think you may want to follow through.