[OzHarley]

My ex was as open as a brick. Even if we had good sex between us, and I tried to talk about it later, she would shut down. Not talk about it.

My new partner has a past, open marriage for a lot of years, lots of sex, lots of people. Getting info out of her has stages and depends greatly on her level of alcohol and mood!

One drink is not enough.
4-5 drinks is the happy place, talkative, secret vault is cracked open.
6+ drinks, horny mode, not interested in talking, just fucking.

Normal mode - no alcohol:
1. She won't openly admit or tell you anything - so you have to ask.
2. Asking vague questions (ie have you had sex with lots of men), will get you vague short answers (ie yes or no)
3. Asking specific questions results in some more details, but if your specifics are wrong, its back to the short yes/no answer.

Happy/Horny/Drunk mode:
1. Having a few drinks, watching tv and 5 guys on the tv.
2. Oh fuck, that reminds me of these 5 guys I did at a party years ago. There was this big one, and.... and he did, and the others did... there was cum... the others... 30min later still talking about it

Horny Mode
1. Have you ever had sex with 5 guys.
2. Why are you talking and not fucking me?