My experience is that if you get into a 69 with a lady, and have your tongue workring on her clit, after a few minutes, or after the first orgasm, you gently put your forefinger on the rosebud and rub. Some ladies will give you good signals, which leads to finger fucking, and maybe even to anal. Others will react pretty strongly negatively.
In my experience, the yes vs no response is pretty definitive. After that, it's follow her lead and see what the likes. In my experience, about 20% will actively like it and will eventually progress to wanting your cock in her bum or at least frequently want a finger back there, about 30% will be less enthustiac, but tolerate at least a finger more or less regularly, about 30% will have to be really turned on to welcome your finger, and 20% will be strongly negative. Depending on how negatively they respond, I rarely try to turn a "no" into a yes. If they like it, regardless of whether they want anal, it usually enhances their orgasm. Just like everything else.....kissing, dirty talking, how hard to fuck, position for fucking, facial cum shots, jack and jill, oral, toys, anal, you find out what the lady likes and give it to her, with the occasional variation thrown in.
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